RedLine

I wish you could live one day in my body to know how "the story about energy" feels brother. You talked to much. I have been 10 years studying and practicing social dynamics with girls and conscientiously observing my inner state and that´s the unbias description of my situation. I can pickup some girls DESPITE I am fucked up by pain, that´s a real limitaiton, no mindset bullshit.

I agree, if my game was top I could get dates even without IG. I am stuck in this level for years because my handicap is energy related (trauma stuff). I have severe tension in several parts of my body, I feel and look tired and sad. My technical game is very good but my energy is fuck up, which make thing difficult. I have been working in these for years (energy work, meditation, holtropic, etc) but it is a long journey.

Have you recurrently go out or you justwishful thinking? Because nowadays it is all about social proof trough instagram and when I meet a girl doing cold approach she ask me about my IG, I don´t have one so she either reject me or give me her phone to then ghost me the next day. That happens most of the times. The times when I have an instat pull or date from phone are rare. You need to give them cool feedback trough social media, otherwise she completely forget the face of the guy they meet on the street 2 days ago. The phone number thing worked well in 2016 for me, but for 2024 things changed... I am really tired of going out all night to game. Spend a lot of time and fuck my night schedule to get a 2 o 3 phone number that I will get ghost with 90% probabilty. If I would have a super cool instagram and I could get 5 or 6 instagram per night with high probability of response by the girl. Also trough social media I could get passive results like the guy from the video. Going of out all day to get a couple of shitty number is stupid. I have more important things to do with my time. Also I live in a 300k ppl city and the volume of girls if very low, sometimes I go out to do daygame for an entire afternoon and I see very few girls. BTW I am not an hedonistic, I am looking for a girl to have a deep conection with based on autheticity and establish a relationship. But to achieve it you need to have abundance. Otherwise, if you hook up with the first girl you meet, there's a good chance you'll end up in an unhappy relationship.

I started using it since I saw this video: I look way better than Hayden. The three chosen pictures rate close to 9/10 in Attractive rated by woman in photofeeler. Still I got 0 matches in dating apps (2M ppl area, Spain). What´s wrong here? Is he lying about his matches or am I doing something wrong?

The men profiles with large number of followers on IG are tan roiders posting 8392 photos of his physique. I guess in dating apps is similar and those are the ones that are getting all the matches. My pictures are: having fun in a natural place, next to a motocycle and playing guitar. I don´t see those scenarios make any difference.

It could be, but it is not the case. I am handsome. And I am not delusional, I usually get compliments for my beauty, both from men and woman. Known as "el guapo" in some circles... Let´s say I am at the Karisma King level of physical attractiveness.

Yeah, I am still working on my pictures. Recently I am following these guy. More than photos doing activities (everybody has his skiing photo, in the Eiffel Tower and Fontana Di Trevi, that´s too npc and I don´t think it is attractive), What he suggest is to show pictures where you look like high status guy: vip places, elegant pool and hotels, private jets, pictures hanguin out with cool people, suits, photos with social proof with woman, photos leading a lecture, etc etc. It make sense.

You can maximize social media and kill it there. Check this channel: https://www.youtube.com/@redbeardrants

Maybe in the US, but in Europe girls don´t care about your money. What gives you status here is social proof + being popular and cool on IG.

It is more useful to choose a charismatic figure and try to mimic him a little (how he moves his hands, voice projection and volume, etc.)

I have been trying for years and not even be able to enter jhana 1 haha

I have been in medium-low, high and supra level of T and I feel exactly the same. It is similar to nofap, you will feel the difference if you actually believe it makes the difference. All suggestion.

Take LSD/Mushrooms/DMT whatever, all feel the same for me. Sit. Go monkey mind, overthink, for hours and hours. My mind is so agitated I am not able to stop it. I can´t be in silence, meditate, focous on the body , focus on the present, I can´t stop the neurosis. Last time I took 600 ug LSD, even worse than 300 ug. More daydreaming. I want to go beyond the ego-mind but I get the opposite, my mind is more active and crazy than ever... That´s my experience everytime I take psychedelic, a lost of time and slighlty disgusting.

My goal is to be 0% productive. Don't produce anything. Let Reality produce whatever it wants and be a mere channel.

Awakening/authenticty work and pickup are opposite paths that harm each other. With pickup you go deeper into distractions, desire, resistance: samsara. If you meditate so much, you lose your wity tongue and your strong presence; you become slow and unarmed, which is not attractive.

As you probably know, buddhists are against the idea that there are a permanent Ultimate Reality. The ultimate test for them is the state of cessation (nirodha samapatti) where everything disappears into nothingness. However, for Stephen Snyder, both cessation (unmanifested) and manifested reality are expressions of the Absolute. 01:18:40

Trump survives and now probably he is gonna win. Musk go with the winners since he needs the goverment to give him its ok to place out there his spaceships and cars. As easy as that.

If those realms have ontological substance beyong the ego then please explain how is that after the ego is dissolved, the experiences of that realms are not experienced anymore. If they are structures of Reality (as you claim) and not of the self, then it should be possible to experience it both when self condition mateiral is present and after conditioning has been cleared; but it is not the case for the second one. Suspicious don´t you think? If the higher buddhist and advaita achievers thell you to forget about that BS is for a reason, they are ego hallucinations.

That´s also my biggest dream, and not he end of the suffering. But I don´t think that is possible. The knowlodege obtained by the mind is not valid, it is just the self escaping from death, trough the creation of castles in the air. "Comprehension", "Metaphysics" these are only the ego pretending to be gigantic and nothing else...

("buddhist") Enlightment does not give you the final Relative interpretation of reality but the fall into the Absolute. Artem is a materialist atheist (consciousness is produced by the mind, nothing after death, etc) but you can also find arahats who are idealists, monists or whatever. The same way you can find not elighment people being materialist and not elighment people being idealists. Enlightment leads to the end off suffer produced by the self but your worldview is something you articulate trough reason and it is independent of that.

For Leo Gura and some others yes, for Buddhism, it is not.

Do you agree with Brahman/Atman/Absolute/God is not the ultimate Truth, Nothing is ultimate truth and relative reality/dualities arise with craving? It is an ugly metaphysics but it seems it is the truth...

If I let go I lost my straight posture and I go into daydreaming. I never understand the let go thing. The times when I went deep into awaraness was trough a combiantion of super efford to be straight and concetrated in the present moment + very very relax. Sometimes I am so tired of doing thing that I let go, I lost my straight posture, my eyes get lazy, my neck go down and my mind start daydreaming by itself for hours. But this is not awakening. This is the opposive. I become lost in mind and away from the present moment.

By awakening I mean classic buddhist nirvana awakening, not alien stuff. If awakening is the end of desire: Why does Frank Yang create videos? Why does Angelo Duilio write his book? Why does Peter Ralston organizes seminars? Does´t it come from the idea of present moment A is not complete ok so I have to achieve something in order to reach point B which is better? What is the difference between me writing a book and Angelo Diuilio writing a book? If desire/craving is completely erradicated I don´t get how can someone can make effors to achieve something. If they are 100% ok in the presen moment, why would they want to achieve stuff?