It seems to be that clear personal recognition within that fuels the will to venture onto the self development road ... based on the further clear recognition that without having followed this course, there is just no chance of laying on your death bed with a grin ... meaning, having come to terms with what lifes real challenge to each and every individual is and having given it your best possible shot from the moment of enlightenment.
bazera, maybe your friend is on a different life path entirely ... could even be an imbalance that needs sorting . Seems you care a lot so I hope things work out.
