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Everything posted by ZenAlex
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lol snarky
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I experience the same thing. From spring to autumn I avoid video games/TV and just hike a lot more and go outside. I feel more sensitive to life. I still enjoy music though and audiobooks.
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You may never completely recover, the only thing you can do now is given up drinking and smoking and live as healthy a lifestyle you can and reverse as much damage as possible, but you may not be able to reverse all of it.
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I'd love to know how you consider bananas a low quality carb.
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What I often don't see people talking about when it comes to anxiety is diet. Avoid - Caffeine - ANY amount. Get rid. Get rid of caffeine for a month and see what happens. High GI carbs/Processed sugars - Get rid of cereals, cakes, sweets, bread. Stick to Low/Mid GI carbs. The reason for this is high gi spikes your blood sugar which elevates stress chemicals. Alcohol - None. If you're not eating healthy, start. Bad diet makes anxiety a lot worse. I've heard lower carb diets can sometimes help, but for me it was more about types of carbs.
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- Have no desire for close relationships - Rarely/Never get lonely - I'm not attracted to people to any significant degree. Never had a crush on anyone as long as I can remember. I don't feel aroused by looking at others. - Never really get sexually frustrated. - Never get close to others - I have a social job, and have learned social confidence, but even now, I only socialise out of work maybe once per month. I was never heavily abused or neglected as far as I can remember. May it just be brain damage? P.S. This is not a recent thing, this is pretty much how I've always felt. I've been on different diets ect, it doesn't change anything. My blood tests indicate no nutrition deficiencies. I don't want watch porn or masturbate very often, was never an addict.
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I've never really had much drive for anything except maybe to pursue certain hobbies. I live a healthy lifestyle though, a lot of hiking, music and good food.
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They're way apart on personality and profession.
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You need to get your ass to the psych ward bro.
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ZenAlex replied to LoneWonderer's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
UFO = UNIDENTIFIED FLYING OBJECT. -
LOL I'd love to know how came to this conclusion. They're not really all that similar, and they come from completely different backgrounds. Leo's work is merely about understanding and realising that you're god. Self help stuff is also there like Teal but a different primary focus. Teal is a spiritual teacher and is focused mainly on healing. She's far more extroverted, people focused and hands on with people.
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I don't understand why "weird quirks" are a negative. I love how people like you always put treat yourself as if you're basically perfect without any negatives that would put anyone off you also, and it's not your concern to try and accept and manage someones flaws, you just want the the most flawless package you can get and think you're entitled to it as if you don't come along with your own baggage.
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I think it's just a lot of young guys are fucking immature and stupid. Modern day environments turn people weak and infantile.
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I lack sexual attraction to others and also low interest in sexual activity.
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I am perfectly aware of them.
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Asexual =/= Lacking a sexuality. Do your research.
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How is tiktok any worse than any other social media site? Stupid decision.
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ZenAlex replied to LoneWonderer's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
Break ups can hurt. She feels bad because she's in her 40's and past her prime and her ex left her for a girl half her age. -
I have already researched the topic, but the research doesn't give a clear cut answer for me. I never meant to trigger you. I simply said brain damage could be a contributing factor, I cannot prove that it's true, just like you cannot prove that it isn't. You shouldn't rule it out because it mind offend others to hear. I'm willing to consider numerous possibilities.
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I think he means despite having health issues you can still be health to some degree if you take care of yourself, so you can still be happy despite being chronically unhealthy in some ways.
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100% Incels spend way too much time reading fucking books about socialising and dating when what they should do is just go outside and talk to people. Social experience is what you need. Eventually you'll learn what to do. None of the charismatic guys who are good with women I know ever read books about how to talk to women, they were just socially experienced from youth and you just learn through trial and error IRL. TL;DR Stop reading about life too much and go out and experience it. Then you will know what to do. I think they simply lack confidence and are afraid of failing and want the perfect strategy. THey need to be prepared to accept fucking things up and embarrassing themselves and learning from their mistakes.
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Good physical AND Mental health I'd assume.
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Vegan for 7 years here. I don't know exactly what you ate on your vegan/vege diet so I cannot comment. Different people can react differently to the same diet. I don't know if it was your specific food choices that contributed towards this. This is why I've been getting blood tests every so often as a vegan, and I have no deficiencies. Did you go raw vegan or something?
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It's not as simple as that. The level of self-centeredness you're going to have doesn't necessary increase and decrease proportionately with how in pain you are at all. He didn't say being self-centred means you're a bad person necessarily, but bad behaviour is often associated with it, such as exploiting and ruining other people for your own benefit without taking them into consideration. THere's plenty of people in pain who have been traumatized that aren't self-centered people, and what they go through often leads them to become more empathetic towards others.
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Unfortunately it's one of those things of having power so people are forced to respect you, if you live in such a crap environment, you need power.
