ZenAlex

I've never really had much drive for anything except maybe to pursue certain hobbies. I live a healthy lifestyle though, a lot of hiking, music and good food.

They're way apart on personality and profession.

You need to get your ass to the psych ward bro.

UFO = UNIDENTIFIED FLYING OBJECT.

LOL I'd love to know how came to this conclusion. They're not really all that similar, and they come from completely different backgrounds. Leo's work is merely about understanding and realising that you're god. Self help stuff is also there like Teal but a different primary focus. Teal is a spiritual teacher and is focused mainly on healing. She's far more extroverted, people focused and hands on with people.

I don't understand why "weird quirks" are a negative. I love how people like you always put treat yourself as if you're basically perfect without any negatives that would put anyone off you also, and it's not your concern to try and accept and manage someones flaws, you just want the the most flawless package you can get and think you're entitled to it as if you don't come along with your own baggage.

I think it's just a lot of young guys are fucking immature and stupid. Modern day environments turn people weak and infantile.

I lack sexual attraction to others and also low interest in sexual activity.

I am perfectly aware of them.

Asexual =/= Lacking a sexuality. Do your research.

How is tiktok any worse than any other social media site? Stupid decision.

Break ups can hurt. She feels bad because she's in her 40's and past her prime and her ex left her for a girl half her age.

I have already researched the topic, but the research doesn't give a clear cut answer for me. I never meant to trigger you. I simply said brain damage could be a contributing factor, I cannot prove that it's true, just like you cannot prove that it isn't. You shouldn't rule it out because it mind offend others to hear. I'm willing to consider numerous possibilities.

I think he means despite having health issues you can still be health to some degree if you take care of yourself, so you can still be happy despite being chronically unhealthy in some ways.

100% Incels spend way too much time reading fucking books about socialising and dating when what they should do is just go outside and talk to people. Social experience is what you need. Eventually you'll learn what to do. None of the charismatic guys who are good with women I know ever read books about how to talk to women, they were just socially experienced from youth and you just learn through trial and error IRL. TL;DR Stop reading about life too much and go out and experience it. Then you will know what to do. I think they simply lack confidence and are afraid of failing and want the perfect strategy. THey need to be prepared to accept fucking things up and embarrassing themselves and learning from their mistakes.

Good physical AND Mental health I'd assume.

Vegan for 7 years here. I don't know exactly what you ate on your vegan/vege diet so I cannot comment. Different people can react differently to the same diet. I don't know if it was your specific food choices that contributed towards this. This is why I've been getting blood tests every so often as a vegan, and I have no deficiencies. Did you go raw vegan or something?

It's not as simple as that. The level of self-centeredness you're going to have doesn't necessary increase and decrease proportionately with how in pain you are at all. He didn't say being self-centred means you're a bad person necessarily, but bad behaviour is often associated with it, such as exploiting and ruining other people for your own benefit without taking them into consideration. THere's plenty of people in pain who have been traumatized that aren't self-centered people, and what they go through often leads them to become more empathetic towards others.

Unfortunately it's one of those things of having power so people are forced to respect you, if you live in such a crap environment, you need power.

He's not wrong though.

He's not diagnosing anyone with selfishness, but people with Cluster B personality disorder tend to be quite self centered. It's just a fact. People with BPD often have Narcissistic traits as well. They tend to be manipulative.

Do something new. Hike. Be mindful of diet. Stop watching TV. If you've just started detoxing from unhealthy habits, realise it may take time for your to feel different.

You will die one day anyway, you have 1 shot at life.

Accept that you will be bored sometimes and shouldn't always look to stimulate yourself. What helped me is throwing away my xbox. I spend much more time walking outside now.

You've mentioned therapy and drugs, you haven't mentioned much about lifestyle. What sort of lifestyle were you living while trying to recover from this? Lifestyle made the biggest difference for me. I find that Lifestyle seems to be the biggest contributor many mental health issues.