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If the action is intended to cause harm to another life form, I would define that as evil. Of course, it is relative. But it is unwise to throw out the concept of evil. That makes everything permissible and justifiable to continue the perpetuation of evil.

Natural disasters aren’t evil. Evil is defined as the intentional act of harming another life (AKA, selfishness 101). Natural disasters aren’t selfish; therefore, they aren’t evil. The logic is correct. Evil exists because human beings can choose to be selfish. If selfishness couldn’t be possible, then neither could selflessness. But that isn’t possible because consciousness is Absolute Selflessness. Case closed.

I thought you both were on psychedelics lol! I guess it wasn’t that kind of trip.

That short response already tells me you don’t have a good justification. I challenge you to ask your girlfriend whether it is infidelity and let’s see what her response is. Also, if you found out she doing getting off from other guys, how would you feel?

Always mystery. God is Being, which will always be more fundamental than knowledge.

@Someone here Don’t you think that watching porn while having a girlfriend is a form of infidelity?

Getting a girlfriend or dates online is like riding a bike with training wheels still on. The real question is why can’t you get a girlfriend or date without your phone? You gain more self-development when you can approach a woman in real life than in hiding behind a screen.

So basically what you’re asking is can you be mindful while taking massive action and being productive. The answer is so obvious. Owen Cook is telling you that your definition of meditation is limiting. Be fully present and engaged with all that you do. Sitting on your ass, chanting a mantra, counting your breaths and the rest of it is all bullshit.

OP needs to consider the cons of the opposite. If your girl has never had past history, she will always be wondering if she could’ve had more or better. Some people marry their high school sweetheart, but then they want to “experiment.” Be grateful that your girlfriend went through the buffet of boyfriends and picked you out.

You aren’t alone. She may also have those thoughts about you and your sex count. It sounds like you are insecure and maybe haven’t moved on from your ex. I am going through a breakup now and have had those thoughts, but I realize that nobody will ever love my ex anywhere close than I did. It’s her loss and my gain. Just think of her having sex with other guys as practice for you. Those other guys are just test drives. She is buying the real car which is you. Now, just take her for an adventurous ride. Focus on creating adventures. That’s all I got. Hope it helps.

Thank you all for your support. Much appreciated! I know what to do now. I will be on family vacation in Oregon, so I will be away for a bit. But I will post any results when I get back. I just gotta get into the Not give a crap state/playful state.

Part of my issue is that when I go up to a group of people to approach, I really don’t know what to talk about. I run out of things to say. I think what I will try to do is to express more curiosity into people. Thats one of the reasons why I did magic tricks because it was a way of interaction that I could do and rely on and connect with people without needing to fill conversation. I guess how do I not run out of things to say? I thought about Leo’s feedback on his video on taking note of the most recent thing on the news media.

Thanks! I appreciate you! I don’t drink alcohol at all. But I could have a water or root beer and play pool by myself until I see a woman I want to approach. Then, when I approach her, I can go to another bar and repeat. I live in a college town, so I will have opportunities in meeting people when school starts in a few weeks. I think I could do a lot of day game by going on the college campus and by going to shops around town. Do you have any tips on going solo night and day game that you found helpful for you?

Do you nightgame solo? It just seems intimidating to walk up to a group of people to approach the woman. I know I’m just making this more complicated than it is. For some reason, I just feel weird going into bars and clubs alone. It’s like I’m a predator or something idk.

How do you guys approach women during day game? What I did was go up to a woman and said something like: “Wow! This is a cool store. Have you been here before?” Also, it feels awkward to night game solo. The only thing I can think of is offering to do magic tricks lol. Any tips on how to approach without it being weird?

@Princess Arabia Thanks! I appreciate you. I know that I need to work on my confidence in going out there and approaching. It is hard to do night game solo. I also want to get involved in more social circles and social activities. I have always been focused on my goals and life purpose that I have neglected my social life. I don’t really have any close friends. I sometimes can be socially awkward because all I really wanna talk about is cool stuff like philosophy, meditation, spirituality, etc. I don’t care about topics like football and fashion. I gotta work on small talk.

You haven’t seen my magic tricks. I can make her boyfriend disappear. JK ? I’ve had women hit on me for my magic and charisma. One woman told me her panties were wet and that I was really good with my hands. It was weird because I wasn’t expecting that. Also Leo, I got my first kiss from doing magic tricks. She told me “If you get my card right, I will put my tongue down your throat.” Then, she did and we made out. She said I could touch her breasts, but I didn’t do that because it was my first kiss and I didn’t know how drunk she was. If I had more game to me, I could’ve had sex with her in the bathroom. So you are right, magic tricks alone won’t do it. I didn’t have the balls then and still don’t. I do crazy magic tricks like making a card appear in her brah, shoe, as well as mind reading, mentalism, you name it, etc. They have worked in building attraction more than you think. But I’m at the point where I want to focus on having my charisma without needing to perform magic for it. I want her to get attracted to my personality. I want to blow her mind with my personality and communication alone rather than through magic.

I approached one woman today. It’s just small talk. But found out she was engaged. I learned to look and see if a woman has a ring on her finger before approaching.

I don’t drink alcohol so I will be doing both day and night game sober. I might try day game more because it seems less overwhelming than going into a bar with so many people and loud music. I am just socially awkward and have many quirks that I believe are from having Asperger’s Syndrome and ADHD. But now, I am tired of those excuses and want to work on them.

I’ve been socially shy my whole life. Doing magic tricks when I was in High School got me to feel more socially confident and popular. My issue is that I have used it as a crutch to make things interesting and to blow peoples minds. I had one girl tell me that if she didn’t have a boyfriend, she would’ve taken me home. You are right. I now want to be a man and learn how to attract without needing a deck of cards, just my conversation skills. My mind literally goes blank, and I feel overwhelmed from the crowd. One thing I do notice is that as I become more comfortable around people, my humor can shine through. But in front of a lot of strangers, my mind draws a blank. I am glad I am getting into this stuff now. I am going to go back over the How To Get Laid series and check out Owen Cook. Any other feedback recommended to become a flirting God? Thanks!

Thanks guys. Tonight, I went out solo. I approached one woman and asked her to play pool and we played 2 games of pool. I showed magic tricks to 3 women. I just find it difficult to know what to talk about in the moment. I am gonna keep going and working on my social confidence. This is my first time actually making the assertive decision in taking action towards my dating life/pick-up. It is tougher than I thought. Another things that’s tough is that bars are loud and it is hard for me to speak loudly and hear. Thanks for your support so far!

When you get off the forum and start taking action.

The key though is to turn work into play. If you are using a lot of effort, struggle, force, and “work”, then you are probably doing it wrong. It’s important to act on your highest desire/passion to the best of your ability. Then, you will be able to dance more with life and with your purpose. When I am passionate about something, it doesn’t feel like work at all. You have to learn how to turn resistance into flow.

If the OP listened to his own signature, he would change his life: ”You’ve been thinking about this girlfriend for a hundred nights, And what has it brought you? For your self, for your God, Wake up! Move on! Think about her no more!” -- @LiakosN