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I did say that. But I appreciate that I made a mistake in this context. I should have either not posted on this thread, or I should have been very articulate and careful around you as you're fragile. It obviously causes you a lot of pain to be misunderstood? But this is a good thread, because people can learn from your problems. Nothing is wasted.

@Raptorsin7 What I'm saying is that you're looking for someone to follow, someone who understands you. The internet is not a place to get that, in order to sort that out you need to go into therapy and deal with your past. Your preference to be Molly coddled and how you distort my intention towards you tells me that it might be of good benefit to you to get some help. That's not a criticism, it's a word of advice. It's clear that you're not ready for life purpose or the now or any of the advanced things because you have shadow issues, and until you sort them out they will just pull you out of the now and you won't be able to conduct yourself in an age appropriate way This is an internet forum. To be honest I had a suspicion you were going to be a problem a while back when I responded to your third eye post.

Nobody's taking shots at you. No shame directed at you mate.

@Raptorsin7 i know we all want attention and understanding in life, but this isn't the place to get it.

Of course I don't know your behaviour or situation, you're in an internet chat room plus i haven't got all day to try to figure you out, all I'm doing is scanning your messages because I've got other things to do. I'm not enlightened either. I give advice of emotional mastery and how I'm doing it.

So you're saying that what I'm telling you is made up?

It's not honest expression. You're parroting other people. I would understand if you had your act together and could demonstrate some kind of mastery at at least one of these subjects. Conscious people can spot it a mile away who's taking from experience and who isn't.

Ok. Just be careful who you take advice from, you sounded like you were losing it there with "that's your thought story" stuff. Not healthy

@Gili Trawangan One of the easiest ways to learn to change this belief (you have to actually learn how to socialize in order to change the belief) is to observe yourself when you are with others and notice when you are thinking about the past or daydreaming about the future. It takes a bit of practice to become sensitive to the times where you slip into a delusion vs. the times where you can just express yourself authentically You have to get a feel for it though, but when you do you will be able to snap out of the little daydreams you're having in moments of stress around others. The more you do this and the more you gain confidence in your real abilities the more your mind will just automatically shift to a new way of perceiving yourself Believe it or not your mind is helping you by telling you that you're not good with people if that is truly the case. It's just being honest about your abilities at the moment.

@Raptorsin7 And try to he aware of using spiritual concepts to avoid uncomfortable dialogues. Spiritual bypassing (thinking you know when really you don't know) is going to hold you back, because all you end up doing is integrating your own preferences. Noticed how you assumed that everyone will think like you, you said "I wouldn't do X and I wouldn't do y" . Well that is you trying to impose your current mentality onto others expecting that they will be like you, which is a trap.

@Raptorsin7 I guess what I'm saying is don't make descisions based on a mindset of fear, discontent, anger etc etc. Because if you make choices coming from that place you will condition your reality to reflect that. This is what karma means. Come from your highest self, become quiet, relaxed, identify as the observer of everything and let the silence tell you what to do. If you need more clarification I'll of course help out ?

@How to be wise Trans fats? Oil is probably one of the most toxic foods we know about.... Oil that's been heated over and over again is even more toxic. But gaining weight is the least of your worries if you eat a lot of trans fats on a regular basis. Type 2 diabetes, heart disease, cancer, dementia all linked to eating trans fats

Yes, pleasure / pain duality. Transcending that is divine love

@Fede83 English is not your first language. Yes I know you're happy, you're doing ok from my point of view. You got rejected a couple of weeks back but you posted a beautiful post expressing your appreciation for women. That's very healthy. You didn't blame, play the victim, suppress anything, or get hostile. You may have been feeling bad, but you mastered that and your appreciation for the women in the world came through as a result of applying what you have learned doing self development.

But there is different types of love. I know what you're saying tho, you're talking about divine love. But wanting romantic love for the stage fede is at is appropriate for him right now. It's healthy in this context. But you're right, he's also right, it's just that both your views are partial and looking at the same thing from different angles (levels of development). Now if fede was desperately needy that he cannot function without attention then that would be an unhealthy expression of his stage, where some shadow issue is bothering him that needs to be addressed. But that's not the case with fed, he feels pretty healthy to me.

I didn't see him say that getting a girlfriend would make him happy. I just saw this ?

There is absolutely everything right with it You can have a goal, just don't live in the future. Does that make sense? You can aim for things your heart desires, but you can also be happy now with what you have got.

@Raptorsin7 Dont worry. This is actualize.org forum , where someone will soon come along with an idea that you like and you can forget all about our conversation lol

@Raptorsin7 Its fine. It's your life. It's upto you if you think that you're going to meet you in 20 years and they will just do happen to have the very same mentality that you had towards yourself at 24 lol

@Raptorsin7 Ok

I agree. But I never said anything about anyone judging you for dropping out of college because it's useless to you, I said that people will not trust you because you actually are a drop out because that is what you did. And if you drop out of things in the past you might drop out of a deal with me. You also teach your brain (not your mind) that you cannot handle doing something that you don't want to do. So anyone looking at you will think that whenever you're asked to perform tasks that you personally find tedious, they will know just by looking at you that you're not upto the task. Once you teach your body to drop out, that unfortunately comes across in your future deals with people. Especially women. Women just know you're not really upto challenge, you are not upto her moods, so they take one look at your energy and put you in the friend zone, that's if you're even lucky to get into the friend zone lol Seen it a thousand times. It's all around you if you care to look. What you do now affects your life in the future. It's just karma. Karma is real, it's not my thought story, it's actually a thing.

@CMacD I feel this isn't going to go down well on this forum because its a mostly green forum sporting yellow ideas as I've seen members and mods here who have a distorted view of competition. For green, competitiveness is apparently anti spiritual and pathologized. However it's actually a biological need for both men and women. So the reality is your power drives need to be assimilated. That takes a lot of time and some people will try to hold you back because they haven't dealt with their own redness. Sport / competition is something to be enjoyed and used for relaxation rather than taken seriously.

What's important is that you have been very transparent in these discussions and shown others where you're at, conspiracy theories and all! so that they can make up their own mind about these videos you post.

@DrewNows Maybe I should just post teal swan videos without saying a word of my own? Maybe that is the Yoda shit?

@DrewNows Just pointing out the difference between 1st and 2nd tier thought. That's all I'm here to help evolve the community, not to say j have all the answers, just to bring more information to the model. Cheers