FuriousGeorge

From what I have gathered, hummers feel better on women than they do on men, but it’s something that seems to be focused towards men. When you are down below, humming with your mouth cupped over her will feel amazing

All excellent advice, thank you! I have reinforced what I like about her tomboy aspects probably more than her feline side. It’s harder to compliment the things that she hasn’t fully embraced within herself. I was married for 15 years and every compliment I tried was met with vitriol, either full rejection or criticism on how sincere it sounded ? I have to practice my compliment ability

I could definitely be better with my words, the most obvious form of encouragement ? Fair point, I think it can be read externally though

Great advice! She definitely is feminine in the bedroom, especially when I am more dominant. When she opens fully up to me, in all ways, she is usually more feminine for a day or two afterwards. I have spent the last few years diving into my own feminine and that may be part of the dynamic, when I met her I was just starting to come back into my masculine, psychedelics have been a huge part of that, I suppose I need to start setting some more masculine intentions. As I’m writing this I’m realizing that my masculine has probably been too weak to make room for her feminine ??‍♂️

This would be a good start, and good advice. I wouldn’t ever ask her to be more feminine, I can imagine how I would react if she asked me to be more masculine! I’m talking more about nurturing it and helping her find more of it within herself.

Thanks! I love Paul Chek. Now... how to bring an easel to the gym ?

Thanks DrewNows, The working out has actually come from a good place but I have had an aversion to exercise in the past. I had a pretty profound heart chakra moment that shifted the way I thought about being healthy and fit. It’s definitely coming from a place of self love now, I don’t think I’ve ever known what that was. I’ll certainly try not to judge the anger or irritability, the thought part is it’s sometimes aimed at my son who’s 6 so I have to be quick to apologize