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Yeah, that’s true. It’s best he does as he wants. —

Good point, how does the mind construct such gross double standards? He has the keys to see out of his cage. You it’s only a matter of time he uses it.

@NoSelfSelf

@NoSelfSelf People are allowed to disagree on here. He didn’t say anything outright hateful on that post. He has already received a warning for this thread as he should have. Of course I think it’s important he receive warnings but, there are others in this thread who could have received warnings too. I realize we are in conflict and I’m disagreeing with you. Hopefully you’ll engage in respectful dialogue yourself instead of flexing

@Salvijus This is true There is sort of a paradox here though, We want to be able to see ourselves objectively and love even the darker aspects of ourselves ultimately it’s our choice how we live, It is a good question why would we want to keep toxic mental habits and constructions and not objectively view them from our higher self? —-

@bebotalk I’m not judging you. I am very imperfect too

@bebotalk would you like the thread open or locked?

@Sugarcoat He is saying, I think that you also react to people sometimes in unkind ways. Which, we all do.

@Sugarcoat

@Sugarcoat https://www.facebook.com/reel/1857567701322253?mibextid=rS40aB7S9Ucbxw6v

@Sugarcoat Well, books have an effect on people, text messages do, ads do, videos do, The forum does have an effect on it’s users. It won’t change over night but what we are doing in this thread is collectively addressing this issue of our misperceptions. Time and consciousness will tell

@Sugarcoat True, We should all be strong in our truth and respect others. Can’t control bitterness of others

Yes they do —

Great post! This is what we need more of.

@NoSelfSelf @Leo Gura — It’s cool man. I don’t know what’s up with you right now, but give it time. I’m around to talk if you wanna speak respectfully.

I Will defend my sisters by educating my brothers. This is unacceptable.

@Schizophonia Well, I think you misunderstand the situation. No one is being saved. If people don’t get the ability to speak about their thoughts, and hear different perspectives they tend not to grow or change. I can say much the same to you, interacting with randoms on the internet. Sneaky double standards.

I am having a very pleasant weekend. Blue Dragon Qigong workshop, a great trip, good sex, good food, good Qigong, good books, some break thoughts over some resentments leading to forgiveness, and working on my course back end now to make my Qigong business flourish. ahh nice

@bebotalk What I am pointing to is that your reality isn’t THE reality and you have created a nightmare. You’re living in an augmented reality. If it leads you to harming women needlessly and causing suffering that’s totally up to you and your free will. Over the coming weeks reflect on the conversations had in this thread. Reflect on your hatred, on your pain and insecurity. That is all I am pointing to. What you do with it no one can control you. It’s your life, your mind and your relationships. — I will share some books here for men dealing with similar issues that I have found helpful. I want you guys to develop healthy strong and integrated psyches so you can build good lives and healthy relationships. I want us to do that together. This is also my wish for myself as I grow as a man. I see the best in my brothers and in myself.

@NoSelfSelf Stop acting like a jerk as well. You’re projecting nonesense on me.

@Princess Arabia It’s not all about you. You can’t tell people fuck you on the forum, you didn’t even get a warning. Stop playing victim. I am again, allowing this conversation to happen because a lot of men need it. I am also learning how these men think. If you come into a thread like this and start causing drama I will ask you stop interacting. This thread is by its very nature a conflict and I don’t need you acting out. I see you as a leader on the forum and expect to see that in you. You don’t need to engage in every thread and when you start swearing at other users you break forum guidelines as well. Instead of playing a victim double down to hold yourself to a higher standard. I want you to also self reflect on healthy engagement with others on the forum.

What you are doing is not self defence it’s bullshit.