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@Federico del pueblo Not developing a high level of sexual/ relationship mastery is low conscious. I am gonna figure out a way to articulate this but I think I am starting to disagree that sex is low conscious and unspiritual. At least not as a blanket statement... Maybe compared to other things.. But, it's so central to creation and ALL of life and it probably has deep powerful metaphysical implications that need to be contemplated.

Yeah, pick ups reputation is bad and will likely be that way for years to come. However, don't think of it solely as pickup I think. Instead see it as going out to have a really good time with people and to meet amazing beautiful women you find attractive. You have the skillset she is looking for and you use it. You two enjoy one another. Women are happy to meet you. @Leo Gura I agree to certain extent the the pursuit of sex is low conscious. However, I think there is a lot of high conscious stuff around sex... Especially with intimacy, relationships, sacred/ tantric sex, etc. I actually think sex is a very high conscious activity if done properly. Especially in the larger context of a holistic life. Even pickup. I mean, sex is as a domain may be lower than say... God realization... But, within that domain there is a high ceiling. Maybe, sexual energy is just so powerful... that most men when pursuing to use it have used it in a low conscious way and it's more a of a system problem than how it actually is.

@Cleopatra Hmm, probably a safe idea to be polite when declining fools. You listed a lot of what I believe to be true with these types of men. Many stereotypes for sure.

Ahaha, money… sounds like you have a plan. He CAN learn to last longer and toys are great. Work things out and enjoy it. Why don’t you or… maybe you two go into a sex shop for inspiration… check out the toys… check out the books.. who knows.. even if I cum early it’s like… I’m eating you out, fingering… massaging your thighs.. kissing your ears all the while waking up the Willy to keep going… he needs to learn to maintain the sexual energy even after he cums… he needs to feel into and become you… assuming you two even have a lot of sexual chemistry.

Simply don’t be a predator or record and sell sex online. Or anything else of that nature.. women want to meet you, and sleep with you. You just gotta bring the goods and be willing to be disappointed. be out there being the guy she is glad she had a night with. Set a good example for your brothers.

Yeah, man but… he’s not gonna be happy with that… jealousy would destroy the relationship in all likelihood and why the fuck would she stay with him? if there’s a hotter, cooler guy with a nice cock why not just date him? I know she likes this guy. But, like she said he just isn’t cutting it sexually for her. To me sex is a large part of a relationship. I’ve had to admit that to myself. I have to find you hot, The sex has to be good and we have to be able to be functionally balanced and reciprocal and the other major areas of balance in a relationship…. And we need to be friends and like each other. I want love, conversation, playfulness, joy, cultivation of something…

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He might was well be a friend at that point anyway. girl, you deserve to cum like CRAZY. ? but, do so with integrity ? if you ask me ✌️ making a girl cum was a major interest to me since I was in highschool… it’s my favourite part and is super hot if she really cums with her entire being… Guys, get with it lol

He can actually train to control his ejaculation and last longer. ive had this problem in the past and usually experience it if there hasn’t been sex in a long time. There is a skill set here. also, thicker condoms with numbing solution were my go when I was first developing sexual experiences. I’m bisexual and Personally cant be with a guy if he has a small dick… so I feel you there. But, he can still become a wicked lover. Mantak Chia has a book called “The multiorgasmic couple” you two can do the practices. he can learn to last longer and you two can experience more orgasms and full sensuality. ultimately, sex matters in a relationship. Cheating is gonna really hurt him when he finds out… more than a break up. So, leave if you want. Or fix the problem WITH him.

Yeah if you’ve got 15 years experience being an adult and your going after a young adult with like 1-3 years of ‘adult’ sexual experience… it’s just not fair. Leave them to the younger brothers. Unless you can date her in a high conscious way. I’m sure this exists. However… do you want to date an immature girl? Really? She will likely leave you.

@Leo Gura I suspect you have a point. It’s probably nuanced. I just feels wrong to me and that’s my bias. who knows though… maybe I’ll meet someone younger and like them. But, right now I’m really wanting something mature and someone with enough experience. i had a lot of sex in my late teens early twenties… international campus just outside of Amsterdam. So, I’ve had my share of wild young passion. a girl of that age does not interest me knowing what I know. I am going to learn mature pickup as I go about transforming myself into a high quality man and partner. I want to experience more women around my age group and figure out who I am and want I want us a partner. I may even excitement with a more open style of relationship as I no longer want to feel like I own my partner and want them to be able to have sex with people without it being like a big deal… still contemplating how realistic that is.

Yeah or… like, abusive and predatory? one or the other..

@Leo Gura Totally, and they are sexy af… they can look 24 but have the mind of a women… on my last date I totally forget for a second she was 29 and was like ‘shit, she looks kinda young’

@Leo Gura hell, I’m 26 and I think under 24 is too young…. I know how fucking immature I was. and am 25-30 is what I want. Looking for maturity. Last date she was 29…

Our boy here clearly some form of ego… if your gonna survive you need an ego. Oprah has an ego. Doesn’t mean she’s gonna rape people.

Stick to your age group 5 years max difference and be respectful… don’t abuse. be a good man of integrity..

You have your whole life to come back to the questions as you evolve. Some questions may not be answered, some may apply more to you. Just answer them honestly like you have here I think…

@Yoremo what do you think

Go ask around and follow ya intuition. Stayed safe and you’ll find them.

@BlueOak qigong

They come from your body and from absolute will

Changa, interesting…

I have a rule that people I work with: I’m not your friend or lover

Robert Greene? If he isn’t actually yellow