Thought Art

You have your whole life to come back to the questions as you evolve. Some questions may not be answered, some may apply more to you. Just answer them honestly like you have here I think…

@Yoremo what do you think

Go ask around and follow ya intuition. Stayed safe and you’ll find them.

@BlueOak qigong

They come from your body and from absolute will

Changa, interesting…

I have a rule that people I work with: I’m not your friend or lover

Robert Greene? If he isn’t actually yellow

I practice Qigong and Qi self massage. I use acupressure tools as well. really like the acupressure products from the company called Aku… and I teach/ practice Holden Qigong. White Tiger Qigong has courses on fascia and Qi.

Stop smoking weed if they do

Move on… part of this is a number game. combine direct experience, theory and self reflection. expect hurt and rejection and just keeping going… it is t really ever personal. Keep gaining experience meet in person.

Hmm, the treasure you seek lay in the cave you fear most. Consider talk/ cognitive behavioural therapy… Three great books are 1. Daring To Trust 2. When The Past Is Present 3. How to be an adult in love all by David Richo I also recommend a book called the Tao of Fully Feeling… can’t remember the name of the author but it’s one of the most important books for people pursuing spirituality in the west. it clears up a lot of the nonsense that you should “just be zen and happy” which makes sense when you read these four books in combination as to how ego, transference and trauma work.

I read that too lol circle ⭕️ I mean, there is a belief that you have about the quality of beliefs so, maybes that is a meta point or something

It’s probably the case that deep spiritual work requires a toolbox ?

Observe and contemplate it in real time

@hyruga stahp

Met a girl on facebook dating - She actually looked better in person. I think we had a lot of fun... She was chinese and there was a bit of a language barrier. Things seemed to be going well but when I got back from the bathroom she had her jacket on, said her phone battery was dying and took off... I took that as her not enjoying it and wanting to leave. Which was fine. Maybe it was because I showed her Qigong. I have a feeling a lot of women will not like that I do that for a living ahaha. People will think it's weird. Anyway, I feel pretty hurt. I don't think she was really my type exactly, but I definitly felt attracted to her. I have suffered from oneitus in the past. The heart hurts... I unmatched her on the app as a defence mechanism and I will simply use it as an experience. There are more women out there. I will keep meeting people, and actually do some in person pickup in the future. Yes, rejection sucks. But, It's how we get strong, and it through rejection we eventually get results.

Have you tried it? There are chemical and physical differences in these two… one is second hand (listening to a guru) the other is a direct experience …

@Lyubov totally agree. I’m am working on just feeling, and observing my cognitive behaviour. im looking forward to the next one. im just gonna be myself for the most part… take me or leave me.

@Nahm I think that’s exactly it Nahm ol’ boy. I think this is why I need more experience. thank you

@mandyjw lol you are to me

No dude. I mean, I tell them I do Qigong and they think it’s weird. it’s not everyone, but probably the majority as it’s not as well known as yoga. i don’t identify in any particular way… I’m pointing toward life style and interests… also.. if your inherently spiritual… what you said makes no sense. It’s like saying people are ‘already enlightened’ which is just bullshit. I really don’t need you telling me how to be spiritual. Teaching me how spiritual you are not. Anyway, the point is I’m in need or more experience to develop more healthy mental models of my situation.