Thought Art

I’ve listened to the the How To Get Laid series a few times and for a human male, this might be the most ‘conscious’ material for you if you currently are lonely l, depressed and sexually depressed as I know many men are. Sometimes thinking you need alway the highest understanding or whatever can be a red herring to the practicalities of a good life. A lot of Leo’s followers I would imagine need more content around business, finance, habits, sex, cognitive behaviour, survival etc. All parts of this existence, when well understood and mastered create a conscious person. Counterintuitively people judging this content for being low conscious, are being low conscious if they ACTUALLY SAT THROUGH and considered all that was said in the series. Thus, these types of series actually make the teachings more balanced, holistic and useful for the big picture of the good life. We are social animals and sexual needs and it’s so so so important. How many lives will this series save? Thousands at least.

Just wait then hahah Its amazing

@Leo Gura Hmmm I think this is true

Sex is better much higher pleasure ceiling

To honour your life

Anyone here used to be an uncle now successfully dating?

Turn people off spirituality by being immature

Universal intelligence cuz

Stop expecting one teacher or system to have all the answers I like Tolle, but I am integrated many perspectives as I do my inner work I don’t fully agree with these guys interpretation. I think everyone will use a teaching differently. I appreciate Tolle, but it’s a partial perspective. will listen deeper later

You likely won’t be the first or original guy at whatever you do

What are genitals? what is an orgasm? what is pleasure? what love? what is fantasy? why would a good god give humans bad thoughts? do humans choose their sexuality? what is self control? what is attraction? why can sex hurt people? why is there sexual abuse? Why do religions fear sex? Can/ how can sexual abusers redeem themselves? how much of sexuality is illusion? why is there so much fear and shame around sexuality? what is healthy sexuality? How do people heal sexual trauma? Is trauma caused both by being physically abused, as well as how society bullshits itself into morals around sex, pleasure and attraction? How many suicides every year are related so sexuality? how many men have a massive sexual shadow they guilt, shame and hate themselves for because of the cultural narratives we have about what types of fantasy are normal? What resources are available for people discovering aspects of their sexuality people will demonize them for? what is humanities ACTUAL sexual history around age, and how can that be used for conscious shadow work. How does a conscious society work with its sexual shadow? how often do people lie about their actual sexuality? what is the quality of sex education that masses has received? what would the highest level sex education be? what is gender? what is being gay, or straight? why are people afraid of their sexuality? How important is secret keeping to survival? what % of kids today will grow up to have pedophilic/ attraction to teenagers desires when adults? how is survival connected to sexuality? Why is this topic so taboo for people? why are genitals ‘gross’ when other organs aren’t. What is touch? what is the metaphysics of sexuality? How do humans develop from birth to adult? What makes for healthy human development? How do we remove shame from sexuality without ‘okaying’ abuse or disgusting behaviour. Are people evil for things they discover which they can’t control? Why is finding something pleasurable evil if done alone? What are boundaries, what is consent? What is vulnerability? what makes pleasure dirty? How do we protect as many people as possible given the complicated nature of human sexuality and society? How do we end abuse? how do we end shame? in terms of sexuality: 1. What is understanding? 2. What is forgiveness? 3. what is healthy? 4. What is best? 5. What is actual? 6. What is illusion, delusion and bullshit? 7. What is advanced (conscious) and what is primitive? 8. what is justice? 9. What is the highest love/ perspective on human sexuality? Ive read that 38 million Americans have been sexually abused. The world has work to do.

What behaviours? Embracing your own thoughts instead of suppressing and shaming yourself over a fantasy? To me, if people do that that’s fine. People discover their sexuality… they have to live with themselves. If that helps them from harming others I think it’s okay. The problem is if people start looking for bad porn, or actually abusing others. For far more people than society wants to admit… peoples actual sexuality doesn’t fit into a neat clean box. Most people lie to themselves and others about what turns them on. Hurting others is obviously wrong….. How do we avoid problems like that is in the church? Clearly suppression doesn’t work. There’s some kind of shame strangeloop around sex in our society. I find sexuality very very interesting…. I think humans are mostly full of shit. It’s a fucking illusion. But, it’s also real and really important to humans. Whatever creates a healthy sexuality I am pro that. But, I’m not pro demonizing or hating others.

The Code Of The Extraordinary Mind - Vishen Laikhinai

Because you are finite, existing in a dream with relative constraints such as ‘linear time’ ‘biology’ and ‘aging’. I think the aging process is a feature not a glitch because you are here to live a human life, and to experience the difference stages of life which includes aging. ‘You’ are imaging these finite constraints. Time is something you imagine. It makes no sense from within the dream. You are here to live for awhile, and then to die to continue on with other dreams. IMO… You are currently a human, biological and constrained by the will of the infinite mind to be so. This is just the nature of this dream. It’s a journey. It’s almost foolish to ask “Well if this eternal principle is the case (example: there is no such thing as time, or time is created/ relative) then why the experience of time as a human in this temporal plane of existence. The temporal exists only as a projection from the eternal ‘Now’. Being and “I am” is eternal. All the finite relative aspects of a dream are almost arbitrary.

Lol so much for free is already there

Lol, Listened to the whole thing... My thoughts? These are important conversations to have. I am still contemplating. Sexuality is such a complex topic.

Bullet journal

Not sure if spiral dynamics is the right model for your mindfulness or meditation practice…

Was reading in a book about self forgiveness the importance of forgiving God. It was a good realization/ reminder that forgiving the universe, forgiving God is an important aspect of forgiving yourself and others. Lately, I’ve been dealing with a bit of an internal backlash about my failures, challenges and setbacks. I noticed how much forgiveness and acceptance work I have ahead of me. I have so much love to give. First to give it to myself. I will continue to forgive God, to accept reality and to create a beautiful existence. I also find there are a lot of great Christian stories (dualistic I know) but they carry good ideas about creating a relationship with Gods love despite all the suffering God created, or allowed.

This is how I have framed it, though people believe it's magic. Tarot is a pretty cool experience. I would not pay someone to do it though.

Read books by: Eva Wong Mantak Chia

God is an infinite dreamer. This level of meta “delusion”… one…you will not escape as long as you live as a human. 2. It’s not a bad thing but an aspect of the mechanics God used to create this right now Ego is ‘useful’ all that exists in the domain or pragmatism and survival is an illusion. But, illusion is reality. Because it’s made of Truth and groundless and infinite. sounds like you are contemplating transcendent morality? Focus more on direct experience than ego being illusion. Really, the word “ego” is a complex and nuanced word as is “delusion” so. Read read read

@Adamq8 I personally find that a bit dualistic. I appreciate Many Christian teachings however. God created everything because the creation and creator are one. … What some ‘saints’ have done i their time would be ‘evil’ to modern man. Evil is something you project o to reality because you are selfish and biased. Christ is something your imagining right now. Christ’s dying on the cross, unfortunately the way many christians act… is a shame if what you are claiming is true. Someone dying on a cross, will not enlighten you. I find many of the Christian parables very insightful and enjoyable. I consider Jesus a prophet, and I believe there have been will be many more prophets. All is one. An ego, finite and selfish being needs to forgive God. God understands.