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@Someone here I usually feel pretty great. Working on getting even better. I’m not shaming myself because it’s an illusion. However, I notice variance. Sometimes I think “I shouldn’t have ejacualted because I should have saved this sexual energy” other times I think “Wow, I feel great and renewed” So, it’s not one sided. Learning to orgasm in a high quality way seems ideal to me. Though, I’ve written some of my favourite songs and had some great insights right after ejaculating. How you feel after you burst? You masturbate, you feel shame and whatever and you assume it must be this way for everyone. I think you can learn to masturbate in a way that cultivates and grows your love, your sexuality and your energy. I suspect ejaculation does waste an energy that you could save and through Qigong circulate. Masturbation should be done with self love, and can be sacred if you do it with care.

I find it more fascinating that reality is so mysterious. But, these concepts are not things to place my joy or happiness in… Yesterday when I was feeling the sun, and the fresh spring air I simply rejoiced, and was refreshed.

@Ninja_pig It’s not one sided or obvious. But, I do believe for many men who are addicted to porn… less porn and more actions like meeting women and starting relationships would improve self esteem. However, there is no evidence that masturbation is bad for you. You can learn to do it in a way that improves health. It’s healthy..

Here are some of the books I’m reading to improve my attachment style. I recognize a lot of disorganized/ avoidant behaviour in myself due to my up bringing. No particular order. Since posting some other books came to mind such as “Guide to Rational living”

@A_v_E Hmmm there a definitely side effects to these substances… But I think they are overall safe if used responsibility. Your not gonna have withdraw from a single trip. Many pyches are anti addictive too.

@StarStruck I’m not talking about porn really

God destroys evil Karma with…. Infinite Love. If you do ugly shit, people will punish you. God will not. I understand, you and I are finite beings. We are too selfish to love God how it loves us. God accepts that. You think Hitler is evil because you are selfish and you don’t understand Hitler, history, how trauma works, ideology, finite beings etc. Every person who hitler killed? They all received Gods infinite love. All is One. To condemn hitler is to condemn Gods will….. Now, as a finite being I condemn these evils. But, I understand it. Actually infinite forgiveness is fair. If you were born in hitlers situation you would have done the exact same thing. You live your life judging others because you don’t understand them. Then you judge yourself and turn your life and this planet into a hell.

You make mistakes because you are finite and ignorant. This is very normal. What’s to judge?

Because, God is all possible possibilities and whatever you have done was already one of its thoughts. And was equivalent to nothing. Your idea of Sin, is a mental construct. It doesn’t exist out there in the world. These ancient texts were written by unconscious people, people at lower spiral and developmental stages. They project their own judgments and fears into God. God is infinity. It has nothing to lose. It completely understands, loves and forgives. Forever, for everything. Because the highest intelligence would have to be an idiot to judge. the lower your consciousness the more you judge. God is the highest consciousness.

God doesn’t judge. If anything God wants you to forgive yourself the devil on the other hand? not all sacred texts say this lol only finite beings judge

Fully feel it let it go don't resist lay down and completely relax your body. Do some purging Qigong to Purge the energy transmute it into self understanding of your values. Every mistake reveals your values and how to do better. Journal your thoughts down and don’t filter be kind to yourself And give it time. It will pass.

Which Buddhist tradition? There’s many. what are you healing?

@StarStruck I agree there is no path, the only who doesn’t walk it is a fool

“He was never born never died”

We are one being pretending to be many ive had experiences where it is clear to me I am all alone for eternity. But, still open minded

I see it

Lol, You act like your a machine just acquiring beliefs be spontaneous and live! Neither materialism or spirituality conclude your ability to enjoy life. you do.

Reality is infinitely open ended. Taoism and Tantra are well established and respectable spiritual paths (both which I am a novice in practicing) and sex and masturbation practices are done for spiritual purposes. Ive spent a bit of time around sex shamans, Taoists and tantrics… sacred sexuality is a big field to explore and I hope some of you do. I heard Osho say something like “Lust is the dirt/ soil that the flower blossoms from” Reclaim your sex, your Eros, your sensuality, your love, your body, you genitalia and don’t let a sick society shame you for your God given gifts. This flower sits right between you legs. Enjoy it. There isn’t just one or two spiritual paths or techniques.There are many. How something looks today it won’t look tomorrow. Allow things to reconfectualize over time. Ive had trips when I totally realized “My penis is meaningless” And then I laughed and laughed and laughed because it’s fucking none sense all this shame and fear.

The way Leo describes meditation “the same old breath counting technique”… I think if he began exploring Qigong, meridians and tan tians he would see that even meditation have so many variations. I admit he likely acknowledges this but. There is more than just boring sitting and doing nothing meditation out there.

They do ketamine therapy in my city if you have a referral. I’m considering it… but, it’s not likely a priority

Take it easy dude

A bunch... There should be threads on this and Leo has a whole video. They are very dangerous and require maturity and responsibility taking.

Can someone tell me why they think masturbation is a bad thing to do? Let’s say you lay down, massage your belly, nipples etc and then you explore your own sexuality, build up a few times a send bust into a love filled joyful experience and then go about your day. What is wrong with that?

Porn is literally just people naked or fucking. There is a difference between healthy shame and toxic shame. Can you tell the difference? Porn is related to the point about the church. Whether you can make that connection or not is up to you. Your body is designed to feel good when you do the right things. Shaming masturbation or sex done in a healthy way just seems foolish to me. It fils your whole body with a joy, love, vitality when done properly. if you abuse it and do it in a low quality way you drain your life force. @Something Funny I’ve linked a book and 2 videos in the thread. I have done it, but it takes practice. I’m rather novice at it. I practiced today, didn’t ejaculate and used some Qigong and filled my middle Dan tian with a vibrant love. I’m saying this. Don’t shame your body, don’t shame pleasure. When you own your sex and enjoy your sexuality, your pleasure etc I think you can reach higher levels of spirituality, relationships, and creativity and business. Sex is a pretty personal thing so. Find what works for you and whatever your greatest self love is. I’m just sharing my view. Do you boo. Im always learning, updating and changing my views. My current view is: Sex is sacred and pleasure is holy. There is a difference between healthy pleasure and toxic pleasure and it’s up to you to make those discernment’s.

@A_v_E projection 101 You live your way. I am also doing many of the things you are because I agree with them. However, sexuality is my birthright.