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Apparently audiobooks are popular right now and you can sell them on amazon? They Narrate them for you

I love these types of apps, this may get removed because promotions are against forum guidelines

There’s many reasons to write a letter (metaphor)

Yet both are now

Non-duality low quality post

I’ve realized that if I am going to love myself fully and deeply given the harshness of the world, ie 1. ignorant selfish people, finance, one life, pain, suffering, survival etc Then being nice and goodie two shoes just isn’t going to cut it. I need more thick face black heart style of spiritual understanding than the “Do Gooder” new Agee. Now, I’m going to build of life of balance, health and integrity but I’m not nice, and I’m not your friend. Im going to serve and create value for others because I Love reality. But, I know you don’t give a shit about me and I’m going to live in accordance that I am all alone in a brutal world. Im going to speak my mind even if it offends you, I’m going to live in my truth, I’m going to put my survival before yours and I’m going to honour my life. Most people are selfish devil assholes. Most people just want to serve themselves despite you. So, I’m fully acknowledging this and no longer living in a fantasy that by being nice to you people is going to help me. While also balancing my holistic understanding and values of well being in the world.

I’m not saying go around like an idiot blabbering the hard truth to others. I’m not saying throw away social intelligence or awareness. I’m actually saying develop the highest social intelligence and awareness. Im also not saying be completely selfish, cold, or unloving. I’m saying develop true compassion, warmth and love. But, because I’m broke and in debt and kinda got suckered into to some shit this year I wish I hadn’t… I am going full survival mode. I mean, totally accepting the truth within myself. Not people pleasing. When it comes to survival and my material goals, while remaining in relative alignment with my values I’ll do whatever it fucking takes to escape wage slavery and create value in the world. Im not saying go around like an asshole fool. I’m saying, I’m not nice to please your ego because I don’t love myself enough to do so. I master acting intelligently in the social sphere. Intelligently!!! It means saying No when I mean know, yes when I mean yes and not being a weak doormat. It means Thick Face, Black Heart. Read that.

What are you ha ha ha’ing? Are you laughing at me for being a fool?

@Breakingthewall I’m also learning yes. Be THE BRUTAL TRUTH. Wishful thinking makes a fool and a shitty life.

Be Conscious of it

@Dodecahedron Probably need to bite the bullet of that pain. Personally, I’m slowly getting back it o dating as I address my own trauma and attachment style. Which can be another important factor to accepting and embracing rejection.

Not sure if I said this but, don’t be one of those guys who verbally abuse women who say no or turn them down. That’s cringe af

Yes, I mean men practicing being horny when they would masturbate and practicing not getting satisfied. This may help when they are truly horny with girl, so they can maintain integrity. Somehow, men can learn to be in integrity when horny texting, or when alone with girls or girlfriends. For many men this is hard to do.

Perhaps, practice being horny by yourself and then rejecting yourself.

Think of it like this: 1. You may be a great guy at your fullest and she may not like you because of personal preferences. It’s not personal and not worth being upset about 2. If you are not that skillful with a woman who would like you had you have the skills, it’s really on you and you need to take each experience as a learning g experience and not the end all be all. Overall, don’t take it personally. Feel the feelings with grace. Don’t be one of those guys who verbally assaults women because they aren’t into them. Be cool,

@Vincent S it’s probably not black and white at all in practice

@michaelcycle00 Being nice, means people pleasing. Not being nice, means being authentic l, assertive and strong. It means holding your values. it does not mean being a dick or being aggressive

I find after awakening I’m still asleep

I think he has put out so much free content and most of us haven’t even began to fully comprehend it. It will take years. He is also working on his relationships I think.

Things fall apart. We gotta hold others accountable and need others to hold us accountable. We all have our limitations and biases. Sometimes we can't see where we are ignorant. It's a double whammy. I occasionally need to be moderated but I usually do pretty good. Sometimes I don't agree with the Mods, and I am pretty open about it with them. But, give it some time and I come around and theres usually a fix.

Hope I can hold myself accountable and avoid any issues.

My ear has rang for 3 years or something now. Get used to it. It's not likely to go anywhere. If you cure it, give us all a call. I've learned to accept it. It doesn't affect my sleep, and I forget about it while listening to music. For whatever reason, even though our body can go from single celled, to complex human without a single ring.. the body can't correct itself despite consciously recognizing its annoying. God? Is that your infinite creative ability? Thanks. Learn to love the unlovable. 1. Ear ringing 2. Not likely to be the musican of my dreams 3. Balding 4. Recovering from trauma Thats me. Thanks God.

@Vincent S Niceness to me to is akin to people pleasing. I cannot fully self actualize if I’m a nice person. I must be madly in love with YOU despite what you say and think about me. Despite the hell you put me through. You, God. You created me, and I’m going to love you despite the suffering you allow me.

God loves a challenge