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@Ulax Disagree with what? I read what you say and agree ahah Though only relatively so. Masculinity contains in it masculine and feminine dualities as does femininity. Sort of infinite spiraling thing going on. Sometimes the most masculine thing to do is embody a feminine quality. Like, sages and Buddhas have historically been men… yet, these are very feminine ways of being. Plus there is this social construct thing going on as well. Different cultures have relative expressions and understandings of these dualities.

@Inliytened1 Maybe. I just think there are degrees and qualities of fear. Types of fear. The human organism has safety mechanisms at play to keep it alive. At least, this person is to be cautious. That’s a quality of fear. It’s unlikely an enlightened wise person would be suicidal or brash. But, they may do whatever. I’ve experienced death as an illusion many times. Yet, I still have a healthy fear.

@Ulax yeah idk. Masculinity and femininity have various degrees, layers, dualities, contexts, and mixtures. Hard to say what a really masculine man is. A masculine man, may actually be feminine in ways. These things tend to go full circle.

@Alta I resonate with that too. I think even a masculine leaning woman, may still want a masculine man. Her masculine energy may still be feminine masculine compared to a man.

@Ulax Yes, that’s what I meant to say

I honestly think this is a little unlikely. If you are sober, walking around… even enlightened people can and will feel fear.

@Alta I agree with what your saying. There is a healthy balance of your feminine and masculine energies as an ideal. However, a masculine leaning woman would want a vibe with a masculine leaning man. Likely. Obviously healthy expression of the dualities, healthy balance, etc None of this is simple

@rd5555 Probably relatively scared and cautious

@Razard86 I totally might get in trouble for this… But, I actually think there is a correlation with sex and gender. Though, I am aware all dualities collapse and there are exceptions. I think your physical, chemical anatomy has a role in your personality, cognitive function and preferences. Though, as humans we are varied. I don’t think it’s as simple as “all men and woman are just acting out roles” I think this is an over simplification and case of making sex/ gender and case of making ones personality, taste, identity etc overly arbitrary. There of course elements of social construction. And, the lines between all these things blur because they all aspects of finite existence is a construction. Like, how should a man eat, act? Dress? Dance? Speak? Etc… there is construction here. Yet, idk. It’s not just arbitrary. Humans exist as generally male or female leaning for a reason. It’s not just all arbitrary social convention. It’s obviously what humans have enjoyed and use for survival… However, when someone naturally falls outside of the norm, then, they would be acting just to maintain social norms… But, yeah it is a construct. But, people are not just pretending to me masculine or feminine to fit it. There are male traits, there are female traits. They may not be absolutes… but this is something I think is important to include in this.

Yes, Theres nothing wrong with being with a beautiful woman. Life is meant to be enjoyed. That’s why I created them.

@emptiness dancing Me as well. I was told to love beautiful things and to built up my capacity to handle it

I think yellow isn’t the most spiritually developed stage nor is spirituality what spiral dynamics is measuring

@Alta Sure, but 99% of people won’t be construct aware ahah Welcome to the void

Wut Anyway, I personally think people can be more open to relativity. Doesn’t mean everyone has to be trans, non-binary, gay or whatever. People can be themselves. To me , you being authentically you without harming others, and others being authentically them without harming you or others is ideal.

I agree with Alta about promoting an accepting and loving society. But, I stress that… that’s not going to be a linear thing in reality

@Ulax because I was thinking about what you said. These “woke” identities are actually very flimsy. Not really woke.

I’ve noticed people are Cisphobic lol Most these woke people ain’t Woke… just relatively liberal in areas.

@Alta for 99% of people though, these boundaries are is if they are real. For sports, relationships, roles etc… For a lot of people, these dynamics are so real that if they get caught up in all this identity ambiguity they can become mentally ill and confused. Men for example, feel lost an confused with all this messaging.

To me this is obvious, but there’s a bit of paradox at play. I am playing devils advocate with you folks. people are mostly just constructing new identity. Which is fine, but don’t judge people who believe there are two genders. It’s all a construct whether there is two or more…. There IS good reason for the constructs that exist… that should be noticed too.

Okay then I now have a vagina like a physical hole with a womb and everything. I can give birth and the whole jam. Just cuz I socially changed my identity.

Idk, there is socially constructed aspects to these things but there is also differences between men and woman. A vagina isn’t a social construct. Nor the natural strength of men compared to women. Gender roles, clothing, etc are constructs to a certain degree. Identity is a construct. There is nothing wrong with being trans, or Cis, or non-binary.

@iboughtleosbooklist Okay, enjoy or not or whatever. But, I’m telling you you haven’t awoken to solipsism your in a dream. There is no fear when you actually realize it. No being a victim.

At the same time, if she isn’t good looking I get bored and just want to be her friend

@Elton he gave up on it after tripping apparently. Alien God doesn’t need to make courses.

Usually, the day of I: 1. Eat little, but we’ll not less than 4 hours before 2. Clean place 3. 30 minutes Qigong 4. 30 minute meditate 5. read and review safety sheet if all is well…