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A good leader knows when to do nothing

@jimwell Leo is a big boy ahaha, he is welcome to ask for a lesson when ever he wants. I trust in his sovereignty and intelligence to do what is best for him. Qigong is a great practice. Happy to hear you have had such good experiences with it.

@Eternal Unity Because I am studying our toxic culture. I am putting my foot down that I will live a life well lived and not waste life in addiction, suffering, trauma and pettiness. Life is to be lived well.

Anyway, just one particular rant. I don’t normally rant.

@Fluran Well, are you saying or doing?

It’s a good goal to heal your trauma and develop healthy motivation. The life purpose covers stuff around healthy motivation. Trauma can be healed through many ways.

@Eternal Unity crucified by the romans not his own disciples

@Eternal Unity Not counting Judas I guess. But, I also know little about Jesus’s death

@Eternal Unity it wasn’t his followers who did jesus in

9. Use high quality communication and conflict resolution skills 10. Have a deep understanding and implementation of critical thinking and systems thinking skills 11. They are an apprentice of life and human nature. They are always learning 13. They take 100% responsibility for their lives. 14. They lead through example 15. They know how to be decisive 16. They have a clear, sober, grounded and mature mind. They have a high level of emotional mastery. 17. They use long term thinking. 18. They have a sovereign mind 19. When everyone is is complaining, moaning, addicted, traumatized, self deceived, corrupt, devilish, petty, etc they focus on purifying themselves, developing a clear sober mind and deep roots in their understanding and embodying of the highest principles. Once achieved they see others for what they are and are unmoved and unphased by the fools around them. 20. A good leader has a deep acceptance of reality. Deeply loving, willing to see truths others fear or shy from. Rooted in truth, oriented towards truth, embodying truth.

Different situations, contexts require different leadership styles. There are many different leadership styles out there and I suggest you take time to discover what your leadership type is. Here is a video sharing some potential types/ categories of leadership styles. I am going to list some qualities I think make a good leader. However, what a leader is can range from big and grand, to mundane and ordinary. To study and explore leadership is a caste area of study and contemplation and I recommend you make an effort to lead yourself in this regard. Small list (still in progress will be edited over time today) 1. Someone who is a visionary. They see something others don't. They are a creator not a competitor. A leader is self motivated A good leader is aware of his own self deception mechanisms and potential for corruption and actively works to self correct. A good leader self reflects A good leader see the potential in others a good leader has developed a level of integrity and wisdom and is an example to others a good leader makes decisions with imperfect information a good leader is a starter finisher, and a closer. This means they begin and finish tasks without having to be told or reminded. A closer is someone who is able to win the game, or bring a project to completion while others are scrambling. They close. A good leader leads others through the desert. (more coming)

Some fears are not important, others are part of wisdom is knowing the difference and how the mind works

I don’t know. Some of the deepest awakenings are so profound and paradoxical I still don’t know what to say about it. Everything you see is your creation already.

@mmKay What’s the difference?

Locking. Remember to be respectful guys. When you create a thread you are offering something to the forum. If all you wanna do is bully, cause drama, swear at others then just take a break. You aren’t fooling anyone.

People are going to live their lives however they want, grow at their own pace. To really build a life takes time. It’s a young community. It’s hard to gauge what people do when aren’t on forum. A good sign that someone is mature and developed to me personally is when they display their wisdom through how they embody themselves and how they see the potential in others.

@Nilsi Try not to put other forum members down. Why not lift others up instead of putting yourself on a platter. Why don’t YOU go do something beautiful instead of trolling here, putting others down? I don’t get it.

Acquired taste

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@StarStruck You are creating a good life by being competitive right now that’s good

@Nilsi what u mean?

That’s a cartoon.

@bmcnicho Id like to add that yeah, Neitzche lived a miserable life where he boredered on madness much of the time. I think he also had extreme pain and suffering from Gut issues.

@The Blade Most people fail on the path At least they fail to impress others