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https://finance.yahoo.com/news/gen-z-treating-employers-bad-121633798.html So this article says job and date ghosting is getting more and more common, and the younger the group of people, the more often it's done, the less guilt the individual would feel. Why is this? How come an older individual would generally flake and ghost less? And if they do they will also feel more guilt? But then a younger person generally tends to feel less guilt and ghost dates and employers more often? What's changing in the world that's causing this?

Sorry to hear. But the more you complain the even less attractive you become. It's the same as when a woman complains. No one likes negative energy and it can really damage your vibes. But I don't judge. Just around women make sure you are in good vibes.

Not always true. I have a male friend that sometimes doesn't feel much for a woman, and then when he gets to know her better, he begins to appreciate her and feel attracted and falls in love.

So many generalizations on here. It can take me more than an hour to feel attraction for a man. How can anyone know anyone within a few minutes? It can take years to know someone! Just don't over invest. Hope this helps.

Were you just joking or actually serious?

You said most men are low value and most women are low value. Can you please define what's high value or low value for each gender? Thanks!

I see what you are saying, but saying women are attracted to assholes is a very sweeping statement (please read my other responses). It's like saying women are instinctively attracted to tall guys. But how tall? And tall to whom? I've had female friends That are 5 foot 5 say they find a 5 foot 11 man and above too tall, and then friends that want a guy only above 6 foot 3. I have a female friend that's 5 foot 4 and doesn't mind if the guy is an inch shorter to ideally about 5 foot 7 to 5 foot 8. And even if it's instinct to say we like tall men or "assholes". Many of us are probably willing to change our perspectives for other qualities. Even if there are general observations, everyone is different. I shouldn't try to talk like I know everything either. But here is an example. my brother is in comp sci, he's super nice, has been called beta male by many throughout his life, and his wife whom they're happily married together said she "loves nerds." Is that instinct too?

Yes thank you. Exactly it's like assuming every man will be attracted to young supermodels. Probably many men will be. But that's just one type. There's many types of people out there. I had a male player tell me he gets super attracted to promiscuous girls, but wouldn't take them seriously. And then you just stated that you aren't attracted to promiscuous girls. We are talking about an emotion here. So that proves your point and Meta's point as well. So everyone has different tastes even if there are specific instincts here and there.

I know you are trying to talk about the survival protective vibe and asshole may give off and just pure instinct. But there is too much of a generalization here. Yes there are an alarming number of women that do fall for assholes, especially in North America. But not every girl falls for them. It's kind of like assuming every man likes supermodels. But I've met many men that might find them too skinny, too tall, too high maintenance etc Maybe some men don't feel confident enough to approach a supermodel and is content with a less good looking woman because she has other qualities a supermodel may not have and he sees that. Maybe the guy is simply generally not attracted to the majority of supermodels. This goes for women too, not every woman is necessarily attracted to an asshole even if instinctively you might think that's the case. Plus initial attraction is just one factor. There's a lot of factors, it also depends on if the girl is just looking to have a short term fling or long term commitment. It depends how developed the individual is. I've been to Asia and in many parts of it, the question of women being attracted to assholes there isn't even discussed. It depends on where you are and you also have to go into the specific experiences and history of each individual. So your statement is still too general. Each individual has different wants and needs based on the life-stage or timing or situation they are in. And some people are better at controlling themselves or making better decisions than others. Some may not even be tempted even if a supposed instinct was there.

I think it goes both ways. A great woman ultimately needs a good man too. It's simply the way nature has intended for survival.

Yes you definitely have a point, because it does take self control. I think of it as choosing to eat white chocolate vs eating vegetables. In the long run, vegetables may not taste as good, but it will obviously benefit the individual to eat it more often. And obviously the individual knows that. If they eat white chocolate, sure it's exciting, it tastes good, but it's bad for the individual. Women must train their minds to eat those veggies (be with a less dangerous/nice man) and learn to appreciate what it does over time. it takes discipline and work. This is why sexual liberation is probably not a good thing. It's almost like we live in a society with a negative kind of freedom! It tells women to be free, to be independent and sleep around like men do. But it's not uplifting and enlightening. If there was a positive freedom introduced, the media would tell women, "YES! You have the freedom to find a stable loving high quality man that respects you and is loyal, kind, hardworking and sincere."

Lets make one thing clear. We DON'T like jerks. Who likes to be treated badly? Do you like it?

My brother is in Vision and a senior software developer. He mentioned that one day, it's only a matter time that artificial intelligence will kill all human beings at some point. Is this actually true? He said no one can defeat his argument so far because he's saying there will always be someone in over 8 billion people on this world that will want power or money. And the individual will accidentally develop and set off an AI unintentionally and it will end all human life. The individual that will be responsible for this probably won't even know it until it happens. He said of course it's not going to happen anytime soon, but he says it has to happen eventually and it's inevitable. I argued that humans will be overall more conscious by then and hopefully we will smarten up and not chase power. And he said "but there will always be some individual that will never listen and be power hungry. No amount of teaching or warning will get to each and every individual on this planet." Anyone on here disagree? And can you try to defeat his argument please?

You actually serious that you believe this will work? It's not even counterintuitive. That's just obnoxious and disgusting to say the least.

Exactly. Besides, a stock is something you watch and it's out of your control, you can only decide to sell or buy it. A individual can be much easier to influence based on how you treat them. An expert stock player can't even predict what a stock will do or everyone would be wealthy and wealth will have no value. An expert that has studied humans can likely have a very good guess on what a human or woman or man for that matter might do. So the video isn't even correct.

I don't fully agree with this video when it says investing all resources in one woman is like investing in one stock. How can you compare a human/women to a stock? In short... A relationship or people have emotions, a stock is logical and rational. Just because a man invests everything in one woman doesn't mean its a bad choice. And just because a man diversifies his investments doesn't mean it will do him well. I've had a friend play AMC and cash out when AMC reached it's peak and she made more than 200k USD from it. Putting all one's eggs in one's basket is not necessarily a bad choice if you know what to look for. A man can learn to spot if a women will be good. But a stock is less predictable because the company can change to the world. A woman will always be what she will be. She can change her mind too, but there are cues to look for. I believe a stock is far more risky and gambling because no one knows what it will do. A woman can be predictable if you have enough knowledge and experience on what to look for. Yeah I respectfully disagree with this guy.

Very deep high quality response!

If there is a being that has 1000 times more consciousness than me or the average human being, what would they experience? Feel like? How would they see the world and the universe? Would they be able to explain to me in forms of words how it's like? Tough question I know. But i wonder what it's like. Thanks.

It will actually take our lives and be far more intelligent than we are. And it will see no use for us humans. How exactly my brother didn't have an answer. But if it's power spiral's out of control, it won't be good for us.

Thank you. Have you ever reached many times consciousness than your normal state? And would someone with 1000 times more consciousness be able to explain it to an average person if the average person is indeed open minded enough? Or is it simply impossible?

A lot of dating coaches are not fit to coach in my humble opinion. Not saying what they do won't work for themselves, but everyone has to find their own path. There is no faking being a high quality individual. I think at most someone who's been reasonably successful with the opposite gender can give a struggling individual a few pointers and some personal opinions on what works for them, but ultimately everyone has to find their own style and be authentic about it. Tough question, hope there is some value in my answer.

Falsehood is part of Truth. Truth includes everything. Including falsehood

How come the liberal cities and states have more homeless? I thought Liberals in general are more spiritually developed. I thought they'd be more compassionate and loving. Doesn't this prove that stage green and above are only possible for a select few talents? Even if someone tried their hardest they at most can be stage orange because they simply don't have the talent nor ability to to out work everyone to even make it to stage green. If so why are there so many homeless in stage green states? Anyone can easily learn not to do things stage red people do, anyone can transcend dogma in stage blue, anyone can get a job at a starbucks and work in stage orange. But only a select few can build a successful enough business and then transcend stage orange to be stage green. Stage green and above is only an ideal. If everyone tried to be stage green and did not have the finances they'd just go broke. And not everyone is capable of chasing their life purpose.

My friend gets these mood swings, some days he's less chaotic and feels calm and peace, and some days he feels less confident and then gets anxious and freezes up when his boss just gives him instructions for work. There is trauma. Obviously meds, and counselling doesn't stop it because it just comes up automatically. Will psychedelics for raising consciousness fix this?

My friend is 55 years old. He signed up for a dating site called ChristianFilipina.com which was 700 usd a year. There's no real profiles in North America, they're all offline. So then he had to only speak with ones from the Phillippines. He sends money to real women from there. He never had to ever work for his money because his parents are very generous and left him hundreds of thousands of dollars and he still lives with them. He's had over 200 rejections from women here in North America, just in the last 10 years itself; with 0 success rate. Just one or two dates where he ran into gold diggers, he's tried every race, every religious background, and women between aged 18-80, He hasn't even been close to success, because right when the women see he's still living with mommy and daddy or that he's only a mailman, they get put off. Or the younger ones just find him plain creepy. He's even sent thousands of dollars to scammers from Georgia and Tennessee pretending to be good bible Christian girls saying they need plane tickets to travel to see him. So he's getting even more desperate now and thinking Filipinas are more loyal. This has been ongoing for two years now. He already visited the Philippines twice to see two women he met on there, and one of them just turned him off. So basically wasted a trip and he came back to America. Now he’s still sending another woman money and she’s been chatting with him for almost 2 years. He thinks she’s genuine… And he also went to go see her in July this year. What’s the chance he’s being scammed? Both women are single mothers and they keep sending him photos of themselves trying to entice him. This week she came on strong to him and kept calling him when he didn't answer. Anyone have any insights or experiences on this? He had already told her, no more money, next time I give you more is when I see you in person. Then when he went to see the first girl, the second girl never even met him, and then somehow she convinced him to keep sending money… now he's already gone see the second one as I said earlier in July. She’s like “comfort me!!! There’s mosquitoes here!!! I need to buy nets and insect repellent." She met him in a tourist hotel. And he says they're gaining trust for each other. But he spent many thousands of dollars on plane tickets each trip, and never even got any commitment nor final word yet. Met each woman once. Yet he keeps sending this current one money, and she keeps enticing him. Even saying "my 14 year old son thinks you will be a great fit with me as a couple!!" " I will keep you here :)" "You are 55 but you only look 40!!" When he was over, he paid for all her groceries and met her entire family, and paid for all these women's vacations. She's 39 and he's also paid for many of her surgeries and medical expenses too because medical coverage isn't covered fully for citizens there What’s the chance he’s being scammed? And what's the chance he's getting genuine love or that this will actually work out for him?