Byun Sean
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Byun Sean replied to Someone here's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Happiness is a changing state based on acceptance of the present moment just as it is. Happiness is your natural state. some kind of soul separation or pain has to cause you to be resist the present moment in order for you to not be happy. Long term fulfillment is the product of consciousness work/ expansion overtime. So in a sense its both a destination and something that is a never ending work in progress since you as existence are exploring all levels of consciousness from all possible perspectives in infinite detail. -
Byun Sean replied to QandC's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
cant wait to get high on some good old alien hyperbolic geometry lol -
Byun Sean replied to QandC's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
@Leo Gurabut Leo. doesn't alien intelligence just mean encompassing all beings in the universe since the duality between humans and alien is imaginary? or maybe you just mean they are way more advanced than us? Did you get a direct consciousness glimpse into another alien's consciousness? That would be pretty sick lol. -
Byun Sean replied to QandC's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
what was the context of when you woke up to this? was it on psyches or just sober? -
its really not that complex. If you're into someone, you're into them. Penis, vagina, attack helipcopter it doesn't matter. The point is that you're into them and they are into you lol. If the relationship is legit, they won't leave you just because you like both sexes. If they do leave you, the relationship wasn't legit in the first place. So there really isn't a way it can go wrong here unless of course you lie. Then you're pretty screwed lol. Just don't say anything about sexuality. You don't ever need to bring it up unless they directly ask u. All they need to know from the start is that you find them attractive.
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I would say take a break from your stuff. you are probably burnt out. your motivation to climb higher will return after you've rested and recovered.
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i mean it is his blog. What do you expect him to do? Say something like "Trump is acting quite unethical and with a high amount of ego wouldn't you say? hmm quite undoubtedly yes" 'adjusts pipe and beard' No, obviously profanity was the best way to put emotion into his message. Children are not likely gonna be consuming his content and blog so it should be fine.
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Byun Sean replied to Razard86's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
i'll just feel like self reflection, introspection. meditation, etc feels more beneficial in the moment. Its not that socialization feels bad per se. I can enjoy it too. Its just that there is a different level of growth that can only blossom within a human being when they are alone sometimes. And Leo is right. There are tradeoffs to socialization. You cannot do solo spiritual work / introspection work as efficiently when you are engaging with the outside world constantly sometimes. The chatter has to die down a bit and then the flower can blossom with more ease. There have also been phases where I've felt called to socialize more to grow my social awareness or become more open. Its all situational in the end. -
Byun Sean replied to Razard86's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Yes thats all very important to note, but that doesn't deny the drawbacks as well. The solution is not to come up with a one size fits all saying everyone should always be 100 percent social or everyone should be isolated. Rather we need to spread awareness about the potential benefits and drawbacks and help people choose consciously whats right for their development at the moment. Its all about conscious choice rather than compulsive. I've personally observed in my own life I go through phases where I socialize a lot. And then it becomes beneficial to be alone more for the growth that Im doing. You can observe this alternating sequence in many developmental psychological models as well like Spiral Dynamics where the stages alternate between individual and communal focus as they progress. -
Byun Sean replied to Razard86's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
I think its a good message. He's putting a flashy/ potentially offensive title to draw attention on purpose. People are quick to assume this means he's just being arrogant and judging socialization negatively. In reality he's making a very nuanced point to draw awareness on a lot of the drawbacks of socialization since the benefits are more obvious to todays culture. For someone stuck in the limitations of socialization. This video could be the major turning point for their life to explore more soloist aspects of self actualization. -
Byun Sean replied to Spiral Wizard's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
For long term growth, its not necessary that you change your behavior right away. Just becoming more acutely aware of whats happening inside you when you are making your decisions will give you a lot of clarity. I remember Leo had a certain video on this. It was called "Awareness is Curative" or something along those lines. I think the goal/ message of his latest video for instance is not to shame or judge ourselves for being selfish or having double standards. Its just to become aware of our double standards so that we can link our selfishness to the limited results we are getting in our life. So in your example with skipping the line at the club, its not hurting your development to keep doing things the way you are now. The message/ theory is that there could be a more beneficial way of being/ living for you to discover through your own inquiry and that it will be more selfless rather than selfish. Or maybe not. Its your job to discover your own answers in the end. The solution is awareness. No one else can give you your answers in the end. They can only guide you toward awareness. -
Byun Sean replied to Heart of Space's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
I don't know what you're going through but I hope it gets better for you. The spiritual path is not for the faint hearted. -
If you've been feeling like this the whole time I would say its a sign of incompatibility and break it off. Find someone who you have no question in wanting to spend time with in the ways you want.
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Anxiety means your mind is projecting a future reality that evokes fear in you that may or may not happen. You labeling it "anxiety" already shows that you don't fully believe that those situations you are anxious about will happen. Otherwise you would be calling it reality. A good tool for this is to journal or sit down with your thoughts and try to describe to yourself those exact situations in as much detail as possible. You can use images, writing, color, shape size, sounds, etc. Your goal is to get a clear handle on what your mind is afraid of. Then start asking yourself some questions. On a scale from 1-10 1 being these will never happen and 10 being they will happen for sure, where do I fall? How true are these realities for me really? How urgent/ important is knowing these answers to me right now? What are some alternative ways these situations could play out that would actually feel great? What would be my ideal scenario for each of these situations instead of how I'm imagining them and what can I do to increase the chances of those ideal scenarios occuring?
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No you Weren't cold and rude for no reason. Situations with him made you feel used and hurt! This was you standing up for yourself. No good relationship will ever make you feel used and hurt. If he wants you he needs to expect to give fair value in return. Otherwise the relationship is not stable. If he doesn't give fair value find someone who will. Imagine there are guys out there that would give you what you want and way more simply because they care. Until those guys come into your life I would say focus on yourself.
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It sounds like you should move on and find someone else. I don't know the details of the situation but it sounds like hes a player that just knows how to talk to girls to have sex with them. "Specific lifestyle" were the key words for me that you mentioned that tipped me off. Players always have good reasons and rationalizations they have for living the lifestyle they lead. They tend to be unconscious and careless on how it affects others even if they don't mean to be. Thats what I see based on what you said. However, you know your situation best and I don't know this person personally so use your best judgement in the end I guess. You got this.
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In this case I think there is a more meta issue of communication. Ask yourself why you cannot discuss this stuff that your saying on the forum with him? If it feels awkward or unsafe question that. The more you cannot discuss certain topics with your partner the more you will keep guessing and the further apart you two will be no matter what. You cannot control his money tendencies or how he may react in response but you can control if you communicate with him openly or not. If you don't communicate your mind will likely just keep projecting the worst case scenario onto how he may react which is usually far away from actual reality and then you'll never communicate ever.
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Byun Sean replied to actualizing25's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Which one feels more motivating right now? If not why not pursue both? You should look at consciousness work and relationships as long term projects that involve transforming you into your greatest version. Thus, you don't need to settle or choose one or the other. You can have it all! -
Immense spiritual work will be the most impactful in this. When you learn to love yourself enough you won't get angry or confrontational anymore in a compulsive way because you know your own worth, you love yourself, and don't need any validation or external source to fuel that for you. When you carry that kind of confidence through your presence you not only experience love directed toward yourself but radiate it. People can feel that vibe off of you just like you have been feeling it off of others. Its the exact same for men and owning their healthy masculine side and learning to love it.
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Byun Sean replied to PataFoiFoi's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
you never incarnated you only imagined you did (evidence comes with a direct awareness from massive spiritual practice) -
Byun Sean replied to Karl-Heinz Mueller's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Spiritual work and self actualization work is not Leo's beliefs exclusively. You can find hundreds of thousands of books, videos, and courses on this stuff from a wide variety of sources including leading edge scientists. Theres a reason for that. Its not a religious cult against academia. This stuff can do wonders to your life. I've been through the American education system and to a university. I know what they teach and how they teach it. I used to have a materialist worldview too. I did for a good chunk of my life. Was I an idiot for buying into materialism? Of course not. Could I have been limited by it in some ways had I clung to those ways of thinking? Of course. Its not leading edge stuff and it won't get you to the most fulfilling points in life. When you cling to any belief system: material, religious, atheist, spiritual, etc, you limit yourself because you won't be open to exploring possibilities of reality being different then that finite image of your belief system. Its totally fine to have beliefs. But there is major benefits to staying open minded and unattached to our beliefs too. -
Byun Sean replied to Karl-Heinz Mueller's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
materialism is so tricky because its so common to buy into it given the education system and the level of consciousness of our culture. Its important that if we don't want to be limited, we don't take any model or worldview for granted and question all of them. Material, spiritual, etc. If you cling to materialism too tightly you can close yourself off and miss out on aspects of life outside the materialist worldview. This goes for any worldview. That is of course assuming you are interested in Truth. Side note: Leo can be a bit blunt with his responses which can turn people off of what he says but I have to agree with him here. Higher consciousness reveals to you that reality is not in fact material but spiritual in nature. But the nature of consciousness is such that we have to raise our level of consciousness before we can know what it is. By becoming more conscious. Its not a belief system or an ideology. Its just being. Which is very different from regular ways of knowing we picked up in school and what most of society teaches which is mostly just belief systems and memorization. Your level of consciousness is the number one determining factor on how fulfilling your life is. That is why people care about self actualization work so much. -
I kinda just take a break. Rest. Do something relaxing. Take care of myself as much as possible.
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Byun Sean replied to OneIntoOne's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
hmm interesting post but if I'm gonna be honest it seems like your'e the one that has not reached the end. If someone did reach the end I feel like they would be way more chill about everything and wouldn't be acting like they have it and everyone else doesn't. Just saying. -
I don't need it, but i'd prefer it ok didnt you answer your own question?