Loving Radiance

@yiyinspired Have you got the message from Nahm?

@ColeMC01 Looking good is of course an important factor. Rather than focusing on the content, look at the structure: What does constitute his being other than him looking good? You can look 10/10 and still be socially uncalibrated & awkward (through believing negative thoughts about yourself for example).

@Giancarlo Models by Mark Manson For keeping convos going... there are too many videos out there. Just write down the most important 3 points that you can implement right now and you would be good. The more you are having convos the more natural and free-flowing it gets. Pick any topic, like stars. What is connected to stars? A space movie you watched recently, the inspiring message a glimmer of a star can hold to mankind, your fascination with the sciency facts about our sun, what's your wish when you see a shooting star... talk about whatever you like what comes to mind, which inspires you and makes your heart burn. Make it authentic to you. Bring your emotion in it & be invested in the topic that it moves you (while being grounded & holding it loosely at the same time). Curiously, writing the contemplation journal that Leo recommended enabled me to feel that fire inside.

"my big Toe"

China was right all along ? "It's ours now."

@Danioover9000 Knowing.

@PurpleTree IME the pull of collective ego is quite strong in group meditation as it was easier to concentrate. We did anapanasati and vipassana meditation.

@roopepa It's not about working but you wanting to manifest that what feels good.

@roopepa Write world peace & the end of hunger & saving the world on it. Does it resonate; does it feel good

@Charlotte I could give you a long list of fears, but I assume you want to see the structure. Observations: Fear is future; the past is projected to be future. The future can be projected to the apparent present (& is then infused with narrative). Fear is a nice self-deception to distract from the maintaining/upholding of identity/character and reinforces the apparent validity of identity's existence. Fear is a direct pointer to the frame of reference: What you think you are is connected with what you fear. Personal findings: I want to radiate my being and in most times it is that what I was conditioned to be. Conflicts of authenticity & conditioning do not feel good as fear is created to act in accordance to conditioning. Fear is survival of what I belief I am. Letting go of fear is letting go of my identity. Letting go of fear is my death. Correlations / patterns: Fear is mostly there in relation to other beings be it humans, dogs, ... Staying in the personal narrative is 99% of the time not triggering fear as I am comfortable.

@neutralempty How did it go?

@Raptorsin7 When reflecting back, how did it evolve?

Do you mean this thread here? I feel like Martin misunderstood you that he should apologize. I asked again if he acknowleges Leo's point and still he was convinced. I feel like getting lost in content. Gotta stay present. Rationalizations are dragging someone into conversations and then using everything as a steppingstone to project on to and then denying to have done so by 'dancing around' that what would hurt the character?

Looking forward to hear how it goes

Does that mean you start to practice communication & being in social setting through online video chats after the regulations loosen up?

@Preety_India ?

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How can one see anything efficiently? Do you mean objective like at no. 6?

@SamC There is already good advice here Sam. I might also add that the voice never looses or wins, it just does so if you think so. Be with the voice. Don't react. Stay with yourself.

Try & error amirite?

I read Elder Scrolls and clicked on it expecting to read how the lore of TES connects to spirituality Do you feel you have more value knowing to be a lvl 6 soul? Forgetting / letting go the narrative of lvl 6 souls just for this question, does it feel natural for you to teach and to elevate humanity's condition? Why create a label, if you already know the depth of your being?

Is it the one about spirituality (in a scientific way of course)? (I distinctly remember you saying the course synthesizes spiritual systems which you have had direct experience of) @Martin123 What do you think of Leo's response: Do you still accuse Leo that he victim shamed George Floyd? This is a serious matter in my opinion.

Connecting with their being which entails fully accepting, being present with and creating a being space for them (What I just love is to stay present with them even when they seem to be lost in their head/narrative... just that I stay there.) Looking them into their eyes without needing to give or to want anything from them. Being with me in emotional ups & downs through knowing the experience and letting go the narrative - really feeling it fully. Being understandable for appearing judgements and accepting this moment. On a side note, how is "personal life" separate from "yourself"?