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Just curious, why is that? In what ways specifically psychedelics interfere with your career?

@integral Yes, when doing your own thing. I meant when you're searching for employment opportunities, not in marketing sector. As far as your own business goes, I think it's always been the case that getting attention was the hardest part. Even without AI, the trickiest part in solo projects was marketing, not building the actual project.

Roger that 🫡

What do you think, how can we transition more and more into product development in practice, when before the role was clearly defined as front-end developer or backend-developer or whatever, that roles and distinctions are being blurred more and more, and I expect that to continue further. So when you think of career advancement, what skills are you targeting to master? Like more clear communication with business? More managerial positions, or what?

I just finished watching The Pitt, and it was unexpectedly good, got me thinking into many things. It's a tight medical drama, very realistic, no unnecessary filters and bullshit. It's fast, tense, grounded and very easy to get into, doesn't drag like typical hospital series You'll get a realistic look into what happens in ER, the chaos and intensity of it. It'll get you to appriciate the work that medical professionals do daily. I've read reviews by doctors and medical staff and they say everything portrayed in the series is very realistic. Also it touches on the topic of how difficult and intense the workplace can be for doctors, and their mental health. You'll see what it takes to be a quality leader in a very tough situations, and how easy it is to snap in environments like that. The work these people put in their daily jobs, which is saving people is crazy, it really inspired me to use my available hours each day more consciously. Check it out https://www.imdb.com/title/tt31938062/ Season 2 was dropped recently, there will be season 3 as well next year.

Nice. What would you do if you had a year or more to prepare before attending a retreat like that? Would you focus more on manual practices, try psychedelics to get a sense of altered states, or something else? Is there anything we can do to be better prepared for what might be experienced under your guidance?

Good luck to everyone attending. Hopefully it will be helding in Europe too since I don't have US visa and not sure if I'll be able to get one. I'll try though. Thanks for doing this, hopefully everything goes well and retreats will continue in the future. @Leo Gura I assume it will be more expensive if it's held in Europe, right?

Happy birthday man, wish you the best! 🎉🎉

Oh Leo come on don't make me reactivate Instagram 😅😭 Are you also planning to post those as YouTube Shorts? I think that's gonna have bigger reach. Or maybe on the blog as well. The reason I deactivated account is exactly the one you're mentioning in the reel. I felt my brain boiling alive like a frog, and time limits wasn't enough.

That's already the case, manual coding is becoming obsolete more and more. But building products isn't all about writing code, there are other aspects as well. Not sure if it's a good idea to learn now, because AI really disrupted the whole industry, but give it a shot if you feel like it. Getting a job as a junior has become very competitive as well. There isn't a lot of vacancies available.

@Basman https://www.amazon.com/Psychedelic-Therapy-Revolutionary-Restoring-Reclaiming/dp/1645476049/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&dib_tag=se&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.KKcat-lCU79ir5DDkinXEocFSb7aX8eCMjbJVZpG4t5bMo-wz28NmOucAWPO_lH-3_T2CSuAT4jbTRrJLzsQf46Kjaokg6gSsPhy8cKeofxxZYjf0We5UzftaNGA6RYYAwk8NjUfKvxaJyvwiJ7wx1nh78oheiIVKWtpxcwroWcpocEDX8ALWLIIVQv7UH6GJcGCSMwfM7MFG2XR-c5hSeeUzymqga2P9_9se-1RWA8.uzzze_hsars6gaqPhvZW1XJGilerlbKWtIY1BzhGVGM&qid=1776938353&sr=8-2 This book came out last month, haven't read it, maybe you'll find your answers there.

Made this new one with Google's latest model Lyria 3. The Slop Song v2.mp3

Yes I agree, that's what makes relationship juicy, that's the whole point of a relationship, to do that, and to enjoy doint it. Yes, on many levels, including emotional, physical, intellectual, or even experiential, creating the shared meaning can also deepen intimacy. But sometimes that comes of as avoidance, which is percieved as unhealthy from a woman's perspective, but for you it may not be avoidance but a genuine state. For some women it's important that you show your weak spots and vulnerabilities so that they can express their love and caring to support you, they have a need for that and if you don't create opportunities for them to do that, they think something is wrong. But if you're used to fix everything yourself or be okay with some stuff unresolved for some time, that can become a bit annoying as well. Personally, I tend to keep some stuff to myself, not because I avoid vulnerability, it's just that it doesn't even occur to me that I can share some stuff, I don't see a reason to.

What the fuck

Oh yeah, been there. She also had this tendency that she needed to care about me in an emotional way, and I'm generally used to care about myself and be self-sufficient as much as I can, even with my emotional life, because, hell, in the end it's just me, girls (or anyone who can support you for that matter) come and go and you can't be depended on anyone ultimately in that matter, and since my aim is towards developing that capacity more and more, it interferes with intimate relationships because girls expect more openness and sharing, and if you don't do it, they think something is wrong with you (at least the ones I've dealth with) But part of connecting with someone on that intimate level is emotional connection, so maybe the uncomfortable thing for me is the correct thing to do to succed in this.

https://www.actualized.org/insights/being-done-with-everyone I relate to this so much, but also, this can be used as an excuse to avoid socializing out of fear, when you feel the need to build that skill, but it's scary. Also, that's harder to do when it comes to intimate relationships. What if you are in a long term relationship or a marriage with kids and you realize that now you need to lay it all down and isolate yourself and that it's not avoidance, disfunction or something to fix, it's just wnat you truly want at that time. Social matrix tells us that all this is avoidance and disfunction, and it can surely be that, until it's not.

https://www.actualized.org/insights/two-sleeps When I was practicing lucid dreaming, I was waking up after 4-5 hours of sleep and staying awake for some time, and that small window was very insightful, I was in a contemplative mood, more than usual, if I didn't disturb myself with artificial lights, also I was awoken from REM sleep and dream recalling was much better and I imagine if I lived that way, that 1 hour window in the middle could be used in resourceful ways because it's like you're in slightly different state. So yeah, two sleeps make sense.

So basically he plays himself in the series?

Where are you from originally?

Go for it, it's fun. I ran a half-marathon last year and it was fun, physically challenging but I trained for it and I'll probably do it again this year. I think there's nothing unhealthy or something to deconstruct about running a half-marathon, you'll get fitter in preperation for it. Just don't run half-marathons daily or weekly, is the point.

Like in what ways? I found his video useful. Dating advice doesn't need to come from an enlightened guru.

https://www.actualized.org/insights/gaia-ambient-music This is beautiful, thanks for sharing! @Leo Gura Do you really do your pranayamas while listening to it? Doesn't it distract you?