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I have Honda CRV 2014 for the last 2 years, no issues so far. More recent models must be better. I also like Toyota RAV4, considering that one for the next car.
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Exactly the same for me man, having family and kids will be such a survival pressure for me that I know I won't be able to do all the stuff you mentioned which I'm also passionate about. Maybe some people can, or even don't care about those things but I do to the point that I will be very miserable if I didn't have alone-time for extended periods of time. The best thing I did for myself is I started living alone at 22 and I wouldn't trade that for anything. I don't think that's because of some insecurity or that it's some coping mechanism or avoidance, I think it's just my personality, I've always been this way since childhood. So yeah, having family and kids would disrupt that. I have friends that can't stomach being in solitude. I have a friend who I was talking to about the lifestyle in general the other day and he told me that he isn't alone 98% of the times, either his wife is with him, his coworkers, etc. And he is happy about it. For me personally, that would be like hell, thinking about that gives me the same feeling I get when I look at videos of cave explorers stuck in super tight caves suffocating. So yeah, maybe family and kids it's not for some of us. I already have a nephew so I'm also on the path of becoming a cool uncle, lol.
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https://www.reddit.com/r/UFOs/comments/1wul3xo/grusch_describes_nhiversusnhi_conflict_left/ This is a clip from that new Rogan podcast. Soo, the guy says that the reptilians and the grays were fighting in the skies, reptilian tic-tac shaped craft got crashed and reptilians killed US soldiers, then soldiers killed reptilians. What do you guys think about this
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All of them? oh man, that sucks, sorry to hear.
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https://www.actualized.org/insights/alien-planet-documentary @Leo Gura There's actually a Netflix series like that: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt13464340/?ref_=vp_close I haven't seen it though but looks cool.
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Looks delicious! Is that chicken on top?
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What are your thoughts on one day having a family with children? Does all this dating stuff culminate with that in your vision of your life?
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Yes I rotate between buckwheat, rice, potatoes. Some mornings I eat some bread with honey for energy before exercise. I eat 90% the same food each day so planning doesn't take too much time, I plan and then follow through for 2-3 weeks, then change stuff a bit when I'm bored and repeat. I'm in the middle of caloric deficit so losing fat while building muscle, once I get to target weight I'll ramp up calories to 2.8-3k and that will let me have more variety in a diet.
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Interesting. Did you develop that through practice from scratch or it that something you always could?
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bazera replied to AtmanIsBrahman's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
I remember (if I'm not mistaken) you saying in one of the older videos that it wouldn't surpirse you to see a monk levitating. What made you change your minid? -
Good points. The idea of development should be attractive to a guy even if he doesn't date. Yes it's true that dating, mating and seeking sexual gratification can become the motivation to improve yourself in many ways, but if the motivation comes from other places like for example if you want to be healthy for the sake of health and feeling good, if you want to be financially independent because you value free time and being capable in the world, if you want to be humorous because it's just a fun way to be! etc, you find that you're naturally becoming more attractive to women as well. Yes you're right in that modern men and women have a unique challange of navigating postmodern western dating market, and many people cling to old ways. Like for example in my country many people still think in rigid men/women roles, especially older folk, but the reality is that the provider role has shifted from mainly men to men/women and that changes stuff, as you mentioned. If in the past man's main motivation to become a good provider was the wellbeing of his wife and children, now women can also take care of that (which is a great modern achievement).
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https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/16098910-letting-go I think this can help you a lot, read it. Also, why do you think a book can make you lose awareness? What do you mean by that? It's just a new information, it's up to you how you use it.
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bazera replied to tvaeli's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
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Do you think it's fine to spend 20s and 30s experimenting with stuff, even 40s? If you hadn't found your passion earlier in life, would you feel urgency in your 30s to finally find it?
