bazera

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  1. That's already the case, manual coding is becoming obsolete more and more. But building products isn't all about writing code, there are other aspects as well. Not sure if it's a good idea to learn now, because AI really disrupted the whole industry, but give it a shot if you feel like it. Getting a job as a junior has become very competitive as well. There isn't a lot of vacancies available.
  2. @Basman https://www.amazon.com/Psychedelic-Therapy-Revolutionary-Restoring-Reclaiming/dp/1645476049/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&dib_tag=se&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.KKcat-lCU79ir5DDkinXEocFSb7aX8eCMjbJVZpG4t5bMo-wz28NmOucAWPO_lH-3_T2CSuAT4jbTRrJLzsQf46Kjaokg6gSsPhy8cKeofxxZYjf0We5UzftaNGA6RYYAwk8NjUfKvxaJyvwiJ7wx1nh78oheiIVKWtpxcwroWcpocEDX8ALWLIIVQv7UH6GJcGCSMwfM7MFG2XR-c5hSeeUzymqga2P9_9se-1RWA8.uzzze_hsars6gaqPhvZW1XJGilerlbKWtIY1BzhGVGM&qid=1776938353&sr=8-2 This book came out last month, haven't read it, maybe you'll find your answers there.
  3. Made this new one with Google's latest model Lyria 3. The Slop Song v2.mp3
  4. Yes I agree, that's what makes relationship juicy, that's the whole point of a relationship, to do that, and to enjoy doint it. Yes, on many levels, including emotional, physical, intellectual, or even experiential, creating the shared meaning can also deepen intimacy. But sometimes that comes of as avoidance, which is percieved as unhealthy from a woman's perspective, but for you it may not be avoidance but a genuine state. For some women it's important that you show your weak spots and vulnerabilities so that they can express their love and caring to support you, they have a need for that and if you don't create opportunities for them to do that, they think something is wrong. But if you're used to fix everything yourself or be okay with some stuff unresolved for some time, that can become a bit annoying as well. Personally, I tend to keep some stuff to myself, not because I avoid vulnerability, it's just that it doesn't even occur to me that I can share some stuff, I don't see a reason to.
  5. Oh yeah, been there. She also had this tendency that she needed to care about me in an emotional way, and I'm generally used to care about myself and be self-sufficient as much as I can, even with my emotional life, because, hell, in the end it's just me, girls (or anyone who can support you for that matter) come and go and you can't be depended on anyone ultimately in that matter, and since my aim is towards developing that capacity more and more, it interferes with intimate relationships because girls expect more openness and sharing, and if you don't do it, they think something is wrong with you (at least the ones I've dealth with) But part of connecting with someone on that intimate level is emotional connection, so maybe the uncomfortable thing for me is the correct thing to do to succed in this.
  6. https://www.actualized.org/insights/being-done-with-everyone I relate to this so much, but also, this can be used as an excuse to avoid socializing out of fear, when you feel the need to build that skill, but it's scary. Also, that's harder to do when it comes to intimate relationships. What if you are in a long term relationship or a marriage with kids and you realize that now you need to lay it all down and isolate yourself and that it's not avoidance, disfunction or something to fix, it's just wnat you truly want at that time. Social matrix tells us that all this is avoidance and disfunction, and it can surely be that, until it's not.
  7. https://www.actualized.org/insights/two-sleeps When I was practicing lucid dreaming, I was waking up after 4-5 hours of sleep and staying awake for some time, and that small window was very insightful, I was in a contemplative mood, more than usual, if I didn't disturb myself with artificial lights, also I was awoken from REM sleep and dream recalling was much better and I imagine if I lived that way, that 1 hour window in the middle could be used in resourceful ways because it's like you're in slightly different state. So yeah, two sleeps make sense.
  8. Where are you from originally?
  9. Go for it, it's fun. I ran a half-marathon last year and it was fun, physically challenging but I trained for it and I'll probably do it again this year. I think there's nothing unhealthy or something to deconstruct about running a half-marathon, you'll get fitter in preperation for it. Just don't run half-marathons daily or weekly, is the point.
  10. Like in what ways? I found his video useful. Dating advice doesn't need to come from an enlightened guru.
  11. https://www.actualized.org/insights/gaia-ambient-music This is beautiful, thanks for sharing! @Leo Gura Do you really do your pranayamas while listening to it? Doesn't it distract you?