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@Girzo you could try it with a probiotic that contains e-coli of a certain kind it`s the only one i know in that direction that is used in chronic diarrhea. it`s called mutaflor. additionally you could try it with neem but that you can`t take for too long. also cinnamon seems to be a good helper.tumeric. coconut fat should work as a fat.

it still feels discriminating. and if i had to second sigmund freud for the term penis envy i would bet that the history of all grand religions is based on one single lie, it`s obviously another envy. you could say the whole of civilisation is based on birth envy or in another term creators envy. it`s still mother earth and humans can`t survive in outer space. a true pantheist reconnects to her/his female part (unfortunately there are much less examples of such) denial is just another monotheism - then go search for intelligence in outer space. pantheism is no monotheism but it is. it`s very difficult for males to be true pantheists and there are even more genders than we thought.

@Austin Actualizing really nice! thanks a lot, well sometimes the comparison needs to go deeper than only comparing the obvious, although the george w. pic was legendary.

@mandyjw yes you are right unfortunately they are oftentimes gay.

@mandyjw there is a thin line between stupidity and intelligence, if people still don`t learn to discern between a vacuum cleaner and a human they will hopfully eradicate themselves from this earth by mating with a vacuum cleaner. actually there is a reason why sex toys exist - didn`t look into it for a while but i see more vibrators than vacuum cleaners on their websites. the real problem though is the self bias indeed. that`s why so much bullshit and sexual violence still happens. by the way maybe a vacuum cleaner with some learning effect would be nice, thinking about small electro shocks or so. men who use that will probably have a lot of sex. attractive men have a lot of sex.

mhh what`s swimming in the middle?

it`s not that conclusion always means end, it`s only that a conclusion is not a fixed solution, if you would rather handle it as a hypothesis. men tend to want to solve problems for women, what would spare the woman going through the process herself, it is an infantilization process - while funny as it sounds behaving like children takes away the infantilisation, it is not just the speach it is the openness and playfullness of the conversation, which makes room for creativity. much more room for exploration there than to conclude (pre) maturely. @FuriousGeorge also the emotional part if you don`t understand it yet then try to listen and ask questions until you understand, after a while it might be that you learn her language better.

well it all depends on the mood doesn`t it - so playfull, childlike is nice and deep talk is also nice - although deep talk means not science in the classical sense as if you would have chosen another topic like maths or dinosaurs she would have had to be in a very special mood to reach that point to maybe even identify with you. so you can`t really say it was the scientific part of it.

god excludes women pineapple would probably work better

i didn`t read about how he introduced the word pantheism to the world, making it more tangible - but naming something that already exists makes it easier to grasp. recently i rediscovered spinoza in a different way, as i came to the conclusion that "i think therefore i am" does not really fit anymore for me because to really think i need to think with all senses so i wrote down: "i feel therefore i am" and googled it and there was this cool article (from 2003 quite old already) in the new york times that talks about spinoza already being the first one who introduced the bodymind, mindbody but was a little bit forgotten because of descartes mind theory. it`s cool to discover these things. doesn`t matter if he put that into western language first, it`s discoverable in hindu religion and yoga and in the vedas, by experience every god you want to experience you can learn a lot. real pantheism means that you feel into it. and discover for yourself if it suits you. i feel therefore i am. https://www.nytimes.com/2003/04/19/books/i-feel-therefore-i-am.html as a side note: be aware that every theory is exploitable and can be used for the wrong reasons, what makes a weapon out of a pen, is not the pen itself it is the motiv/ation.

yours maybe, mine tries to be a culture, mostly, but let`s not split hairs over it. although in europe are really less cults because some religious sects wouldn`t be allowed here as oficial churches so they exist but much less. we have of course some street cults but not so much in a spiritual sense like what you would call spiritual (probably). but of course there is body cult and object cult (some are more fetish than cult) and so on. and a lot of people like us movies and of course netflix. but we also have a really good channel, they have some content in english (and it`s for free): https://www.arte.tv/en/

i`m absolutely for starting a commentary to introduce a commentary field where people can evaluate which cult one is belonging to. then it would be out of the discussions. so we could maybe apply ego or devilry or like in this example (sorry to use you as example bro) the bro cult. (women excluded. just for the sidenotice) it`s a reference about how thick two guys are because of their gender. next time i will talk about the brlo cult - we also have to step up the game.

maybe there is no black and white here but multiple shades of cult behaviour and tendencies. we were not talking about the taste of the art. maybe that`s sometimes also a trap. watched it and find it very informative especially in the section where eckart tolle and teal (wanted to write tilda) swan are mentioned. maybe we are a pancult. what makes it pretty difficult because we never know what exactly that might be. pancult would also already have some negative connotation as pan could easily be confused with the greek god, but i meant pan as the greek meaning of pan (in sense of you never know which cult is speaking to you at the moment exactly).

well yes, even an atomic bomb would probably not work on that kind of bugs.

i love you you know the fractal oftentimes is just an image of reality, although the forum claims to be more elevated... the development in purple and red is still mostly underedeveloped. the good tone sometimes doesn`t serve the purpose. if we only learn to develop our minds and the upper chakras we remain monkeys with a polished speech.

sorry i had a self agenda with that. and for this self agenda i didn`t care what anybody might think about me. everyone has from time to time, and no one is completely immune to that. and i didn`t just quote him, i changed a word that can mean so much. there is a lot of toxicity to this forum i agree with you in that, and there are always phases where it undergoes awakenings to that as a group. detoxing from social media, including actualized.org is probably one possibility to leave that non self inflicted part behind. wish you good luck if you really decide to go - so much potential in you, super creative mind and your heart is also where it belongs. if you can`t hear it maybe you can buy a stethoscope, i just thought i should do that.

bretharianism is only in so far possible as you only do that for a limited amount of time and not overexagerate it. there is a case of a guy in germany who hungered himself to death. it`s a myth, or it`s the decision to die willingly not living on the cost of the earth, therefore it`s like a hunger strike until physical death.

are you teflon to your own recommendations?

i dare you, so you could give an answer, instead of hiding.

sorry to chime in nothing against you - i know a couple where she is much taller than him, it doesn`t matter, just see it that way if it`s a problem for the woman, she`s not the right one anyways. so tall or not it doesn`t matter if you find someone aproximately your age. not true i even know more than one couple.

well sometimes it`s better to not imagine probably, as imagination would be to threatening to ones perception of what love really is. sometimes truth and love and the absence of that what we could still call conciousness are separable. sometimes we must admit that conciousness, even if everything seems to be conciousness and love, doesn`t mean that it can`t be absent from a space, then truth is the only way to keep us sane. then love=truth but love is not the absence of love. no thing is prior to nothing.

some of them would start pulling the sticks out - and snarl.

if it`s a specialisation being a generalist, i`m giving my best. thank you, i enjoyed dipping into this memory.

@JustThinkingAloud it`s ok to make a link to current thinking. current thinking is also intertwined with memory. although for me this exact topic has more of a fascination touch to it, than a personal - while that probably is personal as it is something i have a memory towards with a good feeling to it. so identification and abstraction are not really disconnected but as the memory of it spanns over a long period of time i`m able to see it more abstract, while i asked you to follow me with feeling into it, what will of course interfere with present identifications, if you go through some spiritual work right now in that direction. but it can also help you find out about some emotions or images of yourself - so identify and then disidentify. maybe like that .