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already did. if there are more and you’d want to ask me, we‘ll see.

@High-valance there is no whole without the sum total of its substance. i like the way of how you describe influx.

delusion comes in different degrees, always.

staying a fool for the starter, might be your best choice don’t confuse idiotism with foolishness! its arrogance and idiotism to do so.

@High-valance would be interesting to get an answer from you about what causes you to think the way you think. after all there are no causalities. so how would you respond to that? would you even give it a try? aren‘t you thinking too linear? there is no tree!

sociology can have a systemic relativistic view but doesn’t actually go into the personal so much - so @Artsu it’s the opposite it’s more transpersonal than individual or personal. green either gets stuck in the personal orange/green or in the systemic green/yellow which is only a definition of the component and way green manifests. in some sense yellow transcends into a more active form of less theory and a more practical integrative approach - yellow in some sense also synchronizes the personal with the systemic.

@FlowerNote buddhism does not focus so much on imagination - buddhism focuses a lot on elimination and recreation of suffering. if the world as such becomes an illusion it’s not about buddhism it’s about your own suffering. buddhism transcends it all - that’s why it’s the missing link. don‘t confuse nihilistic philosophy with buddhism, its probably christianity and western culture within you which keeps you from really closing the circle. buddhism is the gatekeeper and the missing link.

its called kryptopyrroluria (or pyrroluria in engl) and then what’s missing is vit b6, mangan and zinc. you can measure it via a urin test. but he already tried everything so its basically impossible to help. i‘d also recommend him to look into ayurvedic treatment, well already recommended that a long time ago, but i’d do a real one in a trustworthy ayurvedic clinic, probably in sri lanka or india, not home remedy stuff. the massages can’t be done at home diy, and also the meds can be different, like the ones for purgation for example - i got two different ones in two different places. the problem with this is that it’s relatively expensive - people usually don’t want to pay that money because they don’t trust in it. just as a trigger point: i had high blood pressure additionally to my rheumathoid arthritis, the blood pressure was back to normal after three days, the rheumathoid arthritis significantly better after the purgation day and also the ginger tablets i take instead of rheuma medication is sth i found out through reading through several ayurvedic recommendations. for autoimmune there is no better medical sector.

like your dad basically. or like you if you‘d ever have a family. they come into your house with basically nothing and then expect you to feed them wipe their ass and do all sorts of things for them these useless bastards. you can send 20$ dollar over to my account because i spared you the experience to ever even think about having a family - and let your twisted words move through my head. its pretty obvious who lives in yours.

like the guys who always get good grades, but never learned for it magically.

hehe that’s because of all these vortexes, better you learn swimming upstream.

@mandyjw it’s very difficult to go against the main stream.

that’s because, children are yet neutral if they don‘t get fed by toxic ideas. the problem is rather that they would maybe not make the differences, but circumstances and society does.

no it’s not different - it’s a gender phenomenon with social darwinistic tendencies you can find everywhere on this planet - would be interesting if aliens may have three genders or how they would make differences directly after birth deciding which will be the social status and such. its not even possible for women to become president of the united states. in a lot of families even children have a higher status than the woman who delivered them - its still systemic.

yes toxic femininity is when women support toxic masculinity. for example don’t stand up to toxicity, play mean games, talk about others behind their back without confronting them, playing cute while being calculating - there is a lot of toxicity in women, too. yet speaking up a against toxicity is not. the devil likes to deny. there is even misogyny amongst women. women can also be toxic towards men, although i know a lot more women who can handle criticism and admit toxicity than i know men who can. and by the way the playing all cute while being calculating a lot men do that too. although toxic femininity is not that systemically supported as male toxicity is.

the most favored approach of toxic masculinity is to stop criticism - what is not uttered cannot be heard. what is ridiculed and socially lowered in status is not taken seriously. best approach for women is still secrecy.

oh nice the inevitable „unsuccessful-male-that-actually-really-doesn’t-fit-my-taste-nor-ideology-because-of-biased-agenda-so-it-is-really-toxic-masculinity-not-just-for-one-woman.-toxic-males-want-to-make-the-rules-and-can’t-handle-truth-kind-of-guy“

watch your projections? who’s bitterness? bitterness is a taste oif you ate food. its not bitterness if it’s spoiled. i was not even interested in spiritual stuff except in my own spirituality - you crack people up and leave the empty shell somewhere you can’t even locate. this is not spirituality it’s spiritual warfare, which is far from spirituality.

@Hello from Russia yup, kiddos mower days go with a map full of manga inspired works to enroll into art school and wonder why they say: try again next year... that’s real.

@Hello from Russia a lot of it is orange with some blue aspects - depends on the genre. it’s quite funny! although what’s the difference in painted big brests and silicone ones? anime can break tabu’s where the watcher is not able to in reality. there is def controversial stuff going on in anime it’s often enforcing blue because blue can have a tendency to impracticality. in that sense it’s controversial like the picture.

either two directional absolute or consensus. which makes it a three directional absolute. utilitarianism contains a paradox in how it solves itself.

in some sense this skin beauty paradigm of fairness has existed since some centuries - in some sense it even was problematic in europe where it probably was created, although i think i remember it also has roots in india and china and some other countries. originally it was a discrimination of upper class against working class. i guess because it was already existing in some cultures, colonialization was even easier in some parts of the world - like the white god theme in south america. it’s interesting how many facettes skin discrimination can have. i mean on one hand you had the white european lady in her corset locked in against sun exposure and on the other hand you have the people who make that possible through enslavement or half enslavement who are discriminated for getting sun exposed. fashion has always been quite political.

@Buddha WRX hehe i’m also a fool - i even was really deeply thinking about the use of talking about symbolism and condemning symbols and streetnames from the past while racism happens in the streets or against all kinds of strangers everyday, does not matter where or what kind of stranger you are. racism is not really about race it’s about the fear of the unknown. at least that’s where it always begins, denying differences would mean to deny that racism exists, where visual aspects create visualities, even if i rost in the sun for weeks i cannot top it. (which is pretty unfair) but i try to never turn into a lobster.

which is basically true, but probably then almost the only way of expressing that. i also realize that i used to show much more appreciation when i entered the forum - we don’t really have a good thank you culture around here ?

@Preety_India mhh yes. although the selflessness part is def affected if you experience narcissism in a relationship. its a really difficult combination of selfishness and selflessness, i guess it stains a bit - at least it feels like that. maybe it’s the guilt and identification part, and taking responsibility 100% which no person can do. mhh edit: i mean it’s difficult to stay selfless when you experience a narcissist day in and out, while on the other side its triggering selflessness - see i can’t even say it’s about me, i use the possibility to generalize it.