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If you want her in order for you to feel love, it is needy, and it is ego. If you want to share the love you already feel, you give, and it’s God. Best approach without wanting someone, just want to share your love with someone. ( travel bum productions is a great non dual Pua). As long as you’re tricking, you’re playing devil ? games, it’s not ❤️. Last 2 sentences you’re correct, it’ll take a lot of inner game tho ??. Once you’re in a place of abundance? it will not feel difficult at all.

Imma use this one ☝? Stunningly simple

Namaste brother ??

@Gesundheit Yes, needy is keep talking to her while nothing real is happening @aerox1988! It gives the impression that you’re not on your purpose and wasting time.

@aerox1988 I think @Username means forget about self worth. If she wants you it’ll work out somehow. There’s no price, just an intimate relationship’s possibility. Offer to meet if it don’t happen move on

@Username Yes, if she’s talking she’s attracted, no need to convince anyone. It’ll flow towards its natural destination, so no need to worry. Now, how do you escalate things up? I believe he wants to know how to game through the phone.

Here and now, eternity and infinity, absolutely ?

That’s how it works for our Self, so actually all of “us”, Self. “We”, I, God plays hide and seek. None can be separate from the experience.??

Weren’t we all? Like actually, deep down. Alone as separate islands of feelings, sensations, and thoughts. Apparently not one with God. ??

Be there for them, yet don’t feel forced to be what you’re not. Namaste ??

Dear Yuliya, “Two objects can never meet. Two people can never meet. What we call a meeting or a relationship is only the shining of this shared love. It is my experience that when a loved one departs, love shines even more brightly that usual. All that remains is the pure love in which and as which we truly meet. The same is true of the great parting called death. The apparent other is no longer outside. They now reside in our heart as pure love, which is in fact where they always resided. Why would one feel sorrow or regret in such a case? The particular means of celebrating that love that we had become accustomed to over the years may no longer be available, but the love itself will be present and available as always. In fact, death is simply the dissolution of an object, a person, in its source and substance, which is love. So death is not the problem. It is identifying ourself as an object, as a fragment, and thereby identifying another as an object or fragment, which seems to obscure this ever-present, all-pervading love. Our friend is the face of this love. Their parting is the great gift of love to itself, as was their presence. Death and love are one and the same, but from two different points of view. Death is for the person what love is for the self. Therefore, we never lose a friend.” - Rupert Spira You are not suffering, my beloved. What you’re actually feeling is the immensity of absolute universal love. Namaste ❤️

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My brother is going with cinema after he started studying psychology + was about to go into law. My advice is stop thinking just be, follow god’s will and meditate to get inspiration will help Much love ❤️ Namaste Sista ??

@Preety_India It is unconscious indeed. Beta could be healthy obviously just won’t turn her on the way an alpha will. Isn’t logical attraction an oxymoron, thus trying to change nature? Sounds funny tho I’ll give you that, and will use that terminology in the future. Props for acknowledging hypergamy, many would dispute it.

@Display_Name Great answer, sense the same thing going on. Recontextualization, that’s what awakening is about, yes. @Preety_India Read up on hypergamy, which is what drives female attraction, that’s what he alludes to here. And it’s also completely natural for women to go from instinctually falling for an alpha to try to engineer “logical attraction” towards the beta providers. Yet women, like men will always remain under the control of God, it’s nature, it’s survival, it’s part of reality. Be aware of nature, don’t try to change it, that’d be akin to teaching a pig to fly (it’ll bother him & won’t amount to anything, in this case you’ll be bothered, God’ll keep loving, I always do ?? ).

@Danioover9000 Sexual Transmutation??

@Etherial Cat Don’t be too quick to make such assumptions my beloved darling?

@Etherial Cat I’ve been attracted to someone in almost all cases at first sight and no matter what they said the attraction wouldn’t vanish. I am self realized (if by that you mean aware of, and identifying with Self), yet my attraction is not besmirched by that (it’s polarity after all).

@Etherial Cat All is Self. Dating and attraction are two separate things (I’m making a concession here, All is actually one), I am attracted to a specific type of woman (physically speaking) and expanding my sense of self hasn’t really changed that, yet that doesn’t mean I’d enter a relationship with them based on the attraction (it tends to fade away).

@Preety_India Sexual attraction is based on physical cues for health. You seem to be taking this quite personally. There’s no such thing as logical attraction, you can’t train yourself to be attracted to specific people, you’re simply either attracted or not. Attraction is unconscious, that doesn’t mean it’s unhealthy. You will get attracted to beautiful people (beauty is a sign of good genetics). Now, wether you get into an intimate relationship with someone is a completely different subject, such a relationship will best be based on love, rather than attraction. In that case, when deciding to enter or exit one, applying logic can be useful to some extent, although a mutual understanding of what a healthy relationship is coupled with love + intimacy is best. In the end don’t over complicate it, follow god’s will & all your actions will spring from love towards more love. Namaste ??

Beautiful ? as always from Alan Watts!

@Preety_India Reality is most people will still be operating on the basis of sexual attraction regardless of how enlightened It’s important, sexual attraction is a sign of health, when playing the reproductive game, health’ll be the number 1 priority.

@Megan Alecia Amen ?? brother, sexual polarity is the universe’s driving force ☯️

So how young could someone go for anyone 25+? 19 seems to be too young, is 21 fine? What age difference would you guys consider top?

Good job being on the journey, you will get it as you go on. Helping you is the best way to help others. Easy and effortless is best! Considering you asked for THE BEST WAY, it’s also called the direct path.