With them you gotta be gentler and sweeter. But still, don't shower them with compliments before sex.
Definitely don't ever make fun of a girl's weight unless she is skinny like a toothpick.
It takes a lot of trial and error to calibrate your teasing to make sure you don't go overboard. Most girls are insecure and easily offended, which will kill rapport. Only do enough teasing to get her attracted. Then dial it way back to build rapport.

Turn that shit on it's head!
Tell her that she reminds you of a pig. In a joking way.
"Okay, okay, I guess you're kinda cute, but I bet you snore like pig."
"Awww... Look, you have little hairs on your leg. Reminds me of a pig."
The hotter the girl, the less you should compliment her beauty. Hot girls get complimented ALL THE TIME. What the hot girl really wants is a guy who has the balls to call out her bullshit and who is not impressed with her hotness. You have to be strong enough to be able to own her.
You must treat hot girls as though they are not hot at all. She must feel that her hotness does not impress you.
My general rule is I don't compliment women, and if I do, I try to do it sarcastically. Mostly chumps compliment women. It's a low value move. Make her work for a compliment.
She's not the prize. I am the prize! << That is the proper frame of a high value male.
Attracting hot girls is deeply counter-intuitive. You're doing everything backwards, which is why they run from you.

So I found this website where a guy ranked spiritual teachers according to his understanding. I did see quite a few unknown and lesser know to me. Makes me wonder why many enlightened people aren't becoming public. Is it the lack of charisma?
Anyway here are some videos I found interesting:
Sorry for the long vides. Just scroll a bit until you find something interesting. Sadly, I found only a handful of women on the website but no decent videos of them.
What do you think? 
Any thoughts? 

Shrimp, squid, sardine have the lowest mercury levels.
Basically the smaller the seafood the less heavy metals it will have.

Stainless steel.
Never buy non-stick or ceramic.
Ceramic pans are a gimmick. They are not truly ceramic, they have a cheap ceramic chemical coating which chips and puts toxins in your food, just like teflon.
Your pan must have no coatings. Any coating will chip.

Everything he says here is accessible through 5-MeO-DMT, and way more that he doesn't say.
This idea that 5-MeO-DMT does not take you to enlightenment is pure horseshit.
Now, does it make it permanent? No. It is supposed to be a short trip. 5-MeO-DMT gives you 60 minutes of enlightenment. That is the promise and that's what it delivers. I'm sick of people misunderstanding and misrepresenting 5-MeO-DMT and other psychedelics as if they are not genuine Absolute Truth and Infinite Consciousness.
There is not a single thing that any meditator or self-inquirer has realized which could not be realized through psychedelics. The only difference is how stable it is. And guess what? Since time is an illusion, the stability of consciousness is totally irrelevant to the fact of consciousness. If you are in an enlightened state for even 10 seconds, it is still Absolute Truth.
Also, no-mind is not at all necessary to experience Absolute Truth or enlightenment. You can experience it with a fully active mind, and that does not diminish Absolute Truth one bit, since mind is part of Absolute Truth.
All these enlightened teachers think they are saying something special, but they are saying basic shit which you can realize by taking 2g of mushrooms. Nothing special about your self-inquiry or Ramana Maharshi or Buddha.

@kras Dude, she clearly wants to fuck you, she's just shy and uncomfortable. You are the man! It is your job to make her feel comfortable.
This situation could have been avoided with proper kino escalation. Google kino escalation ladder and follow it next time. You need to get her comfortable with your touch from the first second you meet up with her, otherwise things will get uncomfortable. You also need to charm her with humor, music, etc. And don't give up after one rejected kiss. Just butter her up some more and try the kiss again in 5 minutes.
Also, you need to bounce her around to multiple locations. The more locations the better. Don't close at the same location you meet and date.

It doesn't matter. Pickup will increase your social confidence permanently across the board. You will become better at talking to strangers, barbers, taxi drivers, clerks, shopkeepers, etc.
Never

You need to find yourself before finding a partner. What are your values? Visions? Needs? Way you want to move the world? Do you understand your body? Your mind? Do you know how you want to live without a partner? What house you want? What state you want to live in? 
When you find yourself, you don't go looking for people, you look for how to give to the people you stumble upon. Being in the right places at the right times come naturally, as the things that stand out to you are the things that align with who you are. 
When you find yourself, you transition from a bee to a flower, a thing that gives, rather than looks. And the right people, due to the frequency you emanate, find you. 

Sounds like your technique is very noob.
Having the best profile pics is EVERYTHING in online dating. You must hire a professional photographer to take your pics, not some selfie bullshit. Pay a pro $500. Get really good casual pics of yourself. And you need some pics of you being social, not just a loner.
And yes, you text game sounds like it sucks too. Takes lots of practice to get it just right.
Key practicing. These things require lots of failure before success.

Dude, when you date, you don't get all philosophical about it. You keep things fun and easy. Don't start whipping out actualized.org lectures on your date. You relate on a much shallower level.
On your profile you could mention that you're into spirituality and meditation. That should pique some girls' interests. The smart girls. Girls love spirituality stuff. It's like chick-crack.
If I'm socializing with a girl, I act like a total goofball. It's not serious. Stop saying anything logical. This is the #1 rule of game. No logic.

That's exactly the problem. You want to turn Goodness into a dumb mechanical process, but it cannot ever be that because Goodness is Infinite Consciousness/Intelligence.
Goodness, Consciousness, Intelligence, Love, Truth, and Infinity cannot ever be formalized into any finite system of rules or methods.
Which means...
If you want to be Good, you must constantly be conscious in every situation. You cannot coast your way there. If you try to create a formal mechanical method for Goodness, you will instead create evil.
So what you are asking is how to create evil. Which all the religions have done. A religion is a mechanical method for reaching Goodness. Which is actually evil.
The whole point of being Good is that there is absolutely no reason why you can't or shouldn't kill a basket of puppies. And yet you choose not to. Which makes you Good.

Both gender and even sex are socially constructed.
"male" and "female" are something you invented.

You don't need to use cockroaches as an example.
Just go to your local bar/club and hit on some women. See how ruthlessly they shut down your attempts at love. They don't give a damn about your love unless you make them wet.
The only way to get to a woman's heart is through her pants. But of course this is never spoken of in polite company. This is something every guy must learn the hard way. Try to get a woman to love you without getting in her pants first.

What you have to understand is that that is your agenda based on your needs as a woman.
Guys have a different agenda.
It's just that simple.
You must also consider that for guys to attract girls, the guy has to take the lead and do the work. It doesn't happen passively for guys as it does for many girls. If the guy doesn't go out and hunt, he starves.
Hunting is not predatory in some evil sense here. The guy could be hunting for his dream girlfriend/wife. In fact, that's what most guys probably want. But to get her, they must first learn how to hunt in general. You can't just land your dream girl with one attempt. It takes a lot of work and practice. Hunting is not mutually exclusive to romance and love.
Dating can be done unconsciously or consciously, and many shades in between.
And don't forget, just because a guy doesn't get into pickup does not mean he don't abuse or manipulate women. He certainly will as he will be even more desperate and lacking the hunting skills. A starving limping wolf is more dangerous than a strong well-fed wolf.
Also, pickup is not merely about hunting girls. It's most about transforming oneself into a better man in order to attract and keep higher quality girls. In the end the guy will discover that tricking girls doesn't work, so the guy is forced to grow himself to get the best girls.
None of this makes much sense from the girl's perspective because you are not tasked with the burden of approaching. You should be thankful that you don't have to carry that burden because it's quite heavy.
Do some guys abuse it? Of course!
See, the thing is, women LOVE a strong guy. But they don't love the process which a guy must go through to become strong. Women only want the end-result of the work. Women expect that strength to be effortless, natural, and free, without any work. They don't want to know how the sausage is made.
Also, you should realize that what you call "real love" isn't real love. It is selfishness and survival. Women do not love men unconditionally. You are attracted to strong men who fit your survival needs. You are attracted to weak, needy, humorless men.
Men will love women unconditionally the same day that women love men unconditionally. Which is never. All romantic activities are highly conditional, biased, and selfish.

Most rich people ARE more competent, conscious, and productive than most poor people. This is especially true if they have self-made wealth.
But that only goes so far. As 99% of all people in general, rich people are terrible at questioning the self-serving nature of their own worldview because one's worldview is built from the ground up to serve one's survival.
Rich people are not masters of their minds or their psychology. Obviously. Since they spend most of their time climbing the ladder of success, which has nothing to do with self-awareness or moral development.
What poor people do not understand is that being rich does not solve the issue of survival whatsoever. Not at all. It only transforms survival into a more complex and abstract domain.
You will have exactly the same number of problems when you're rich as you did when you were poor. They will just be a different set of problems. This is hard for most poor people to understand since they like to blame their problems on material conditions without realizing that problems are a deep core function of the ego-mind, not material conditions.

How can Hitler kill Jews?
How come you step on ants as you walk down the street?
PTSD is a serious dysfunction of the ego-mind.
If I had to bet what would help cure a PTSD ego: 1) A series of Ralston's contemplate workshops, or 2) a series of MDMA trips, I would pick #2 without hesitation.
MDMA does not just cure PTSD via some brute chemical reaction. It heals it by expanding consciousness and getting the ego-mind to realize Love. This process is not merely one of feeling good. It's a process of consciousness: the very thing Ralston is supposed to teach.
The healing power of psychedelics is precisely that they reveal Truth and Love.

There actually is almost no historical evidence.
The only evidence of Jesus is from the Bible and the various Gospels, none of which are objective or strictly historical records.
Atheists don't doubt it because they are materialists and they don't understand how mystical teachings could be transmitted through highly metaphorical teachings. To an atheist the easiest explanation for Jesus was that he was some cult leader or charlatan.
A) He might just be a myth assembled from many other such myths common in ancient Egypt and Mesopotamia
or
B) He might have been a super-naturally gifted mystic what was born with a very high state of baseline consciousness. If he did exist, I don't think he was an ordinary enlightened human. He was in a state of consciousness inaccessible to 99.9999% of humans.

@zikzak I have vaping experience with various substances but not 5-MeO-DMT.
Analogous to what you said above about dosing, you can plug as high a dose as you want until you pass out. It's not like plugging is limited in potency. It's just gonna be a smoother and longer trip rather than a sledgehammer to the head.
To me the biggest downside of vaped DMT is how short and jarring the trip is. If I could plug DMT, I would. I only vape it because plugged doesn't work. And also vaping is bad for your lungs.
I never have a problem with my 5-MeO-DMT trips being too weak. Not once have I come back from a 5-MeO-DMT trip and been like: "Well, that was nice, but I wish it was stronger and hit me 10x faster for 1/5th the time." Even plugged 5-MeO-DMT is too short for the kind of work we're interested in here. We want trips that are 3-4 hours long. Vaping that much DMT wears out my lungs.

It's counter-intuitive: the chasing of bliss is the very thing which prevents it.
Bliss is a consequence of fully facing one's fear and not needing to manipulate your experience.
It's problematic to be doing psychedelics with the expectation of bliss. I would drop that expectation and instead aim for Truth and understanding. Bliss is the fruit off the tree of understanding. Focus on watering the roots of your tree rather than jumping like a thirsty monkey at the unripened green fruits.

Hi guys and Leo,
I remember in one of your videos I had seen last that you were talking about wanting to heal people. Have you come across Orgone Energy that was discovered by Wilhelm Reich? Btw, orgone/chi/prana/qudra/torsion fields/zero point/etheric energy all different names for the same thing. Basically organic materials absorb orgone  and metal absorb and then immediately reflects it. Wilhelm Reich was using his Orgone Accumulator Box (the walls of which incorporated layers of metal and organic material (cotton)) to heal all sorts of cancers and illnesses in people. The FDA came in and shut him down, burned all his books, barred anyone from using the word “orgone” in any publications, threw him in prison where he later had a “heart attack”.
Long story short: people now create devices (commonly shaped in pyramids to amplify) called Orgonite which produces healthy orgone. Don Croft came along and found that adding crystals made it so that even stagnant/dead orgone energy is transmuted into healthy orgone. This is all technically unnecessary as we can activate it within ourselves (the iron in our blood) but many don’t know how to do this so getting the energy from outside in helps to balance things until you can tune back into alignment from within. 

To learn more of the science behind all this check out this website (they just recently made all their coursework free): https://www.resonancescience.org
Watch this for ways to begin to feel the energy for yourself: 
 

Watch this to see the implications this has for the world at large: 
 

Check out these websites to buy some for yourself to protect against harmful radiation (5G) and accelerate your spiritual growth:
https://www.orgonecrystals.com/product/nano-lemurian-hhg/
https://www.etsy.com/ca/search?q=orgonite
If you benefited from anything written here then please send a prayer to my mother who just recently passed. God bless ??
Love ya Leo ??❤️.

 

The mind is dogmatic because it has to be in order to maintain its sense of reality. If the mind wasn't stubborn, your reality would literally fall apart.
The mind is stubborn sometimes. The mind is stubborn 95% of the time.

Yes, proper note-taking takes more time than reading the book itself, which is why most people never do it.
But it can also get several times more value from the book, and you can return to those notes years later without having to re-read the book.
Usually I just underline passages in the book. This is very fast compared to true note-taking, and it allows me to re-read a book very quickly, within 15-30 minutes by just reading the underlined sections. I never read a book without underlining it. Via underlining I basically condense a book down to the top 5% of its insights. Since most of the books words are just filler. You want to extract that 5% which is gold.
Once a book as been properly underlined it becomes 10x more valuable. To the point where I've even thought about how I could sell my underlinings to you guys. But it's not practical.
If I had an ashram, I would have a library of my underlined books which you guys could browse.

There are healthy and unhealthy aspects to every stage. There are healthy aspects to stage red and there are unhealthy aspects to stage red.
Developing unhealthy aspects of a stage can keep you from getting to higher states of consciousness. But so does not developing healthy aspects of said stage.
Just keep an eye on the different aspects that come with stage red and see if you can make out any unhealthy aspects.

Lol. You are confusing things.
The notion of "large" is what is relative. Nothing in the universe is "large" unless you specify some other thing RELATIVE TO which it would be large.
So, for example, if there only existed one object in the universe -- like one elephant -- it would be impossible to say whether it was large or not, since that notion is literally meaningless without some relative comparison.
Likewise, nothing in the universe is bad, or expensive, or upside-down, or ugly, or powerful, or hot, or fast, or heavy unless you compare it next to some other thing.
To put this very broadly: it is impossible for God to know what anything is other than by comparison to something else.
So, God himself cannot tell you how old God is because God is the only thing that exists and therefore there is no outside comparison which it could make to determine its own age. Hence God is timeless and Eternal.
Which is precisely why God is Absolute. And since God is everything, that means everything is Absolute. Which means that the relative and the absolute are identical.