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Great replies everyone. That was good fun 😂

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I dont think that is true. Many men rank poorly compared to Brad Pitt but still get laid. So accessibility is something to be accounted for.

All the best to you on your adventure bro!

I agree to an extent. The Leo example is a good example in some ways. However, I could see how someone could do 1000 approaches plus and still get unpromising results. Key reasons being not following good pickup theory, or not following good skill improvement theory. For example, Leo talks about having studied pickup theory as part of learning pickup. Imagine he'd just winged it.

https://www.cheetahhouse.org/ These guys might be able to help. That sounds dreadful. I'm sorry.

2500 approaches is very impressive amount to have done. So respect for that. That shows the block isn't effort-based. Don't let people gaslight you otherwise. My guess is you need better theory bro. What is your current pick up strategy? Even if that strategy is being yourself And I agree that Escort could be good idea. And Todd V could be very helpful pickup wise.

That was quite something to read

I'm not sure whether I love or hate Dean lol

Is interesting you say that. I recently having working on a tonne of Todd V stuff, and one of my biggest changes is focusing on qualification as a sign of attraction from the girl. Aka her giving unnecessary clarifications, excuses, explanations when she talks to you. Or just trying to change the perception you have of her. And I realised women actually qualify quite frequently to guys but I didn't pick up on it. Not only with me but I also watch a lot of more normal dudes in conversations with girls and see girls qualifying themselves too to them. But I bet a lot of those dudes don't think she was into them. But actually the girls were to some degree!

Ankara Messi! Ankara Messi!

Conversational skills are part of pick up for sure. But that isn't enough, you also need to know how to make things man to women for example.

I get where you're coming from. For example, pickup is based around having success in casual dating usually over a one or two night period, and relationships over a much longer period and there are many more serious parts to it. However, every relationship also has a beginning period. A first meeting. A first date. And pickup is all about making that first period go really, really well. And making that first period go so well, means you have MANY more options, and are able to choose someone who is more of an actual match.

Good tips, but Mark conveniently leaves out the pick up journey he went on to be able to have a very good dating life.

I remember Todd V talking about speed dating. He said it was sort of like cheating after you've done cold approach. And can be a good way to practice. Think he said some other stuff too. Speed dating sounds great.