Ulax

Also, a great boost for social circle is using "I love" or "I hate" statements in conversation.

That's like telling the high school QB to just stay on the high school team because there's always a better team

Wild. Is this a hot country thing tho?

Depends on the situation

I like Cal Newport's philosophy

I'm guessing you miswrote that first sentence. If that were true, prisoners of war clients wouldn't be standard examples used in CPTSD treatment manuals.

I meant its part of trauma's cause. No. Living in a culture that shames male virginity means not being a virgin makes the world less hostile. Hence, less trauma.

That is different from what you're saying I said. For example, it can help with virginity wounds

I'm confused. Where did I say trauma is just a lack of orange? And it will cure some wounds

I disagree. Unless you integrate stage orange well you will be in a state of trauma.

It is a spiral stage. Orange is about personal effectiveness. A large part of trauma is lack of effectiveness.

I get the ideas you have with regards to this. But you can't skip spiral stages.

@Sincerity Thanks

Yes. 'Inner game is the answer' has got to be the biggest load of bs i've ever heard.