Ulax

You gotta chillout

Loool there should be a little animation each time

That's called being codependent

lmao

Weren't you the one criticising game as shallow. How does that makes sense when you're a freaking salesmen lol And ofc its gonna be way easier to chat people up if your career resembles the exact thing you're trying to do.

@Emotionalmosquito Respect for all the action taking bro. Sounds like you need to buy a pickup program though. Who are you getting advice from atm?

Yes, i get you re the interesting thing, and I agree people can, at least on occasion, naturally approach you/ make it easier to talk to you. I would disagree about the pickup community treating human connection like a limited resourced. I'd say its exactly the opposite.

I agree that not giving a fuck is about being detached from outcome. But if you didn't care about outcome you wouldn't ever approach anyone. Its better to have an outcome that isn't about just getting some sexual result. Like I want to have fun and connect with other cool people, and if that ends in sex then that's cool too.

@LordFall Sounds good man. But being dodgy and giving effective advice aren't mutually exclusive. And nice work on the hot girls. How much did you pay them to be there?

Depends what you mean by attraction. Some mean attraction as emotionally aroused, and some mean attraction as the image of the other person you have in your head.

Yes, I've heard that guy is dodgy too. I know someone who said he mocks his clients

You're throwing the baby out with the bath water. Unless you're lucky enough to have had a good formative social experience with women, you can't generally just rely on authentically connecting with women and get a girl you're not settling for.

You got me. I actually just got helicoptered to the hospital because I had three heart attacks out of fear of being banned. Luckily the pilot let me use their phone to reply to you now

I understand the curiosity. But I'd rather not talk about that.

Leo spoke about this before. Essentially, he said he is willing to make the trade-off of allowing less mature people so that actualized can be more accessible. I'd personally prefer a more liberal use of the ban button.