Ulax

Interesting

Maybe in the past. Nowadays he is very much of the idea that confidence comes from competence.

Makes sense. I'm following Todd V's school of thought atm though.

You are noticing an impulse to qualify. Qualification is where you speak to please, impress or change your perception in the eyes of the other person. Its a common impulse.

I find it challenging

I'm ENTP Though my personality irl fluctuates a lot based on who I'm with and my confidence levels

It has its pros and cons

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That's part of why I want to get good at pickup. You actually have options and can be selective

You're right, I did win psychopath of the century last year

Issue is many women these days want to have their cake and eat it too

People aren't that unique

Why did the parrot fall out of the tree?

i'm confused. You asked a moral question and now you complain about moralising?