Ulax

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  1. @Zenterus How you deal with the stress of cold approach? That was one of my big sticking points. I could see myself progressing but my nervous system was totally haywrire from the stress.
  2. Where did I make the claim that they kill people? Edit: Oh i guess you mean the implication from the video title
  3. You make some insightful points but I think you downplay the severity of the threat he makes.
  4. Nice! I grew up in London, Uk. And I enjoyed going to restaurants run by people from different cultures too.
  5. Bro come on 😂 The bruddah said he was gonna chop his head off 😂 --- Fair point about the molesting dude though. Stage reds be everywhere. Instead, i'd argue there are numerous societies where the dominant culture is less developed than in western democracies, i.e. much more stage red, blue, purple etc. So, i'd argue that disproves your argument that other cultures are just as civilised.
  6. Its not only about racism, its also about reasonable fears about what type of characters share your community. I'm sure you will agree that it is very important how citizens are socialised from birth, i.e. what they are taught is right or wrong, whether to respect those different to oneself. The issue with immigration is you are letting people into your country who you haven't had a chance to mold into the type of citizen you want. And that opens up the risk of letting in poorly socialised people into your country and that causing problems.
  7. Most people too poor to care about this sort of thing. Raise standards of living and i think this issue will be helped more.
  8. I liked some aspects of her works particularly her view that mental health issues are really just adaptions. (Maybe she puts an exception too, not sure though)
  9. I lost my actualized.org premium plus subscription so i lost laughing privileges
  10. Greater than sum of our parts, or no bad parts is a good start
  11. @amberlight Yep, work on polarisations, aka conflicting parts. Change the strategies parts they use to try and protect you
  12. IFS therapy comes to mind
  13. Because of effect on my brother + parents. I'm curious to see what happens in life. And, courtesy of Owen Cook, I think: I have all of eternity to be dead. Why not just stick around and see how this plays out? Because you never know what might happen.
  14. I'd take advice from people who've been through the process of successfully learning how to get good with the ladies. Like Leo and Miguel. Everyone's opinion has value to some degree but there's a lot of bias's and people just theorising when it comes to what people thinks works in dating imo.
  15. What is your opinion on what ages are appropriate to date? Besides the obvious