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Perhaps care about the implications for democracy in America

I agree with Vexler. This moment is not a time for buts re political violence. Instead it’s a time to denounce political violence.

@DocWatts I’m curious why do you notice similarities between now and 1850s US?

Will probably start watching it soon

Love watching your philosophical journey mate! Inspires me to keep aspiring for my own self actualisation. I appreciate you for gifting that to me!

I appreciate the forum btw man ❤️. As well as all your work with Actualized.org ❤️ I’m lucky to have you as a mentor in this life.

Was just making a playful joke by the way aha. I get what what you’re saying here though.

We’re not like other forums 😎💅

Annoyingly this simple technique gave me more relaxation in 20 seconds than any meditation technique has ever done 😑. Anyone know any other techniques like this please?

I am curious about answering this question of how to think when answering questions. I have seen Leo’s video on contemplation (thank you for that Leo). However, I would like to hear some more perspectives. For example, how to think when describing something?

@Judy2 Try this: Put a chair on your bed. (Can also do this on the floor). Lie down and put your feet on the seat of the chair. I tried all sorts of random techniques for years to relax and this did more for me in 20 seconds than any of that other stuff. Kinda pissed me off actually lol

Why not? Think how exceptional a pro athlete’s skill is compared to the average player of a sport.

Avengers assemble 😎

I think it is accurate to focus on labels like conservatives and liberals when trying to understand the dynamics of Nazi appeal. Why? Because Fascism (Nazism being an example of Fascism) and Conservatism have a very key similarity. That is that they share a same core principle that those who gain victory in a struggle are special, deserve their victory and deserve better resources in consequence. The difference is conservatives focus on individuals and fascists focus on groups. I take this argument from Jason Stanley. Conservatism has as a core principle the idea that individuals who attain victory in a struggle are special, deserve their win and deserve access to better resources. For example, conservative would see someone who gets better SAT scores as special, as deserving the score through hard work and as deserving the better resource of a better college. Those with worse SAT scores are deemed inferior, deserving of their lesser scores and as deserving of a lesser college. Fascism has as a core principle the idea that groups who attain victory in a struggle are special, deserve their win and deserve access to special resources. For example, fascists would see that white people are the most successful group in the USA. And from that they argue that white people are special, white people deserve their success and deserve access to things like better housing, treatment and medical care. And that consequently non-white groups are inferior, deserve their failures and deserve access to worse resources. So switching from a core principle of Conservatism to a core principle of Fascism is an easy step. You just replace individual specialness and deservingness with group specialness and deservingness.

I’d be wary of dehumanising people. Even those with very low consciousness beliefs. Firstly, because it legitimises the use of dehumanisation in discourse. Secondly, because when you dehumanise there is a tendency to attribute inherent nature as the cause of someone’s world view. Instead of thinking about how life experiences have shaped the development of that persons world views. For example, standard of education received, resentments they have, how bad faith actors have manipulated those resentments by telling them certain resonating narratives.

@Revolutionary Think Yep can definitely relate. Growing up I had my protests towards my parents dysfunctional behaviour constantly shamed and dismissed. And I carried a lot of shame and confusion. Then in 2019 I came across ifs therapy and entered the world of therapy. And learnt about alternatives ways of relating to parts of myself and others. I’ll acknowledge that I am still struggling with the challenges of such an upbringing. However, therapy resources have brought me a lot more clarity and validation around my parents poor parenting.

@Rishabh R Another post of yours that I’m impressed and motivated by bro 👏

@Leo Gura Do you have a way of speaking to yourself in your mind that helps you stick to your values? For example, maybe you ask something like ‘What would I do if I prioritised Truth in this moment?”

@Judy2 Hey Judy! Not sure where you’re at deadline wise but just saw this post now and thought I’d share something you might find useful :). https://www.phrasebank.manchester.ac.uk/ I’ve linked you an academic phrase book. Folks can use the phrases to potentially help them write in a more smooth and competent manner. Can help avoid the otherwise tedious process of having to keep coming up with academic language to convey your points in. I know myself I used to get kind of anxious about how to phrase things back when I was in university :). Anyways, hope this helps! And all the best with your thesis!

@Husseinisdoingfine I’d argue Religion is popular because it meets a lot of core human needs well. For example, needs for belonging, and meaning. Needs which can be hard to meet outside of a religious framework. And the meeting of those needs can really direct and corrupt a person’s thought processes. I also agree with Leo that all these academic titles doesn’t really signal that someone is highly rational and has thought about these issues in deeply unbiased manner. Someone could have a phd in molecular biology but never have seriously sat down and contemplated theological and philosophical questions at a deep level.

“The wrong way home” by Deikman M.D. A book about the cult behaviours in American society. Isn’t that such a fucking good way of describing cults? The wrong way home. Man I swear I have so much admiration for the intelligence of that book title. What is a book title that you guys think is awesome? And/ or really intelligent?

The yellowy/ systemic stuff I read the more black pilled I find myself getting. I don’t even like talking about it that much cos I worry about destabilising others

I’d disagree. Being nice/ people pleaser works quite well I’d argue. At least for living a more basic life. Lots of people are people pleasers. And why? Because their life experiences have shaped their brain to think that it is an effective coping strategy for life. And this is because at various important moments it has been an adaptive response to life challenges. I think the benefits of being a people pleaser can get too easily discounted.

Many Greens loves to complain about a society and all the dysfunction that society brings about. However, they scapegoat society by attributing too much blame to it when it is not the real cause for problems. The real cause of human problems is reality. All political problems are really existential problems. I use existential and reality interchangeably. I say this in the sense that society is just a collective survival response to reality. And reality itself dictates how that collective survival response manifests over time. So when a green complains about how society causes people to be marginalised they are forgetting that the real cause is reality. Reality is causing people to be marginalised. Because reality causes a collective survival response to be adopted that leads to marginalisation at that time.

You’re welcome! Thank you for challenging my arguments and giving me the opportunity to clarify, and elaborate my points of view :).