Ulax

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  1. I agree with that. I've been really disillusioned by therapy. The profession has a slick culture of avoiding accountability. You criticise a therapist and often "it just takes time" or "The model isn't a fit" or "You have to take responsibility for your own healing". Its a real shame. But at the same time, the profession attracts the more artsy creative feely types. Which has its positives, i.e. empathy. But these are not your star athelete types who constantly iterate on their performance levels, so they continuously get better. And so the standard stays low. I love the competent ones tho. They're stars.
  2. Ok I understand what you're saying now. And my mistake you were giving a perspective more than advice. Though with severe disorders, multiple years of therapy doesn't seem unexpected.
  3. I hate how therapy has become this sort of magical remedy for all emotional problems people experience. Especially in dating. So much advice about how if you're a dude who struggles with women you need therapy. And its mostly nonsense advice.
  4. Dude I get you're coming from a good place and i agree shrooms can be helpful. But you gotta watch it giving advice like that. Taking shrooms whilst having bad mental health issues can be a fucking disaster.
  5. LMAO this chick crazy af... and apparently... incredibly dyslexic. Also why not do what girls do to recognise the crazy dudes
  6. Cybersecurity, Dating, Siege 6. Might go back to Piano
  7. Bro is dating on veteran mode
  8. Yes, being called bad in the life purpose section of actualized.org is my no.1 kink
  9. Glad you see me as in touch with my feminine side
  10. Tell me again how bad I am 😈
  11. Well... that was quite something to read
  12. That makes some sense to me. For example, in 2000s a girl had the options of her social circle or whoever approached her. But now she has that plus the whole of fucking instagram. So, her options are much higher. However, if it is harder to get hotter girls via cold approach today, I suspect another likely reason is due to where a lot of game is today. Nowadays a lot of game is more natural and less technical. But I suspect the technical game was helpful with the hottest girls because it would allow for value adjusters like dis-qualifiers. Said value adjusters could switch the balance of perceived value in the interaction better.
  13. I get you bro. Its very understandable to skeptical of Pickup. It sounds like the biggest fucking scam of all time. "Yes, every dude can get game so good they can date the hottest models." and then you think of the dude from high school who used to lick windows and you think yeah fucking right lmao. But a lot of this shit makes a big difference in my experience. And you have "Aha!" moments. For example, loads of dudes think ok the girl is deciding whether to choose me or not, i better impress her. But with pick up you can flip that on its head and instead YOU become the decider, where she is trying to impress you. And then its a whole different ball game.
  14. My bruddah i think the advanced pickup dudes are... ever so slightly... outperforming your slacklining results
  15. @Valach That makes sense. All best with your goals man
  16. Hahaha that is a cheeky one ;). Remind me of one I saw on tiktok. "Would you date me if I wasn't gay" "Yes" "Well I'm not gay" SO FUNNY HAHAHA
  17. @Valach I have some confusion around your skill-level in game. Are you someone who got skillful via game then stopped?
  18. Most girls seem terrible at passing shit tests too. I learnt from Todd how to do it recently. I find it very funny trying out hot girl frames/ lines on women. I remember using "If you want to date me you need to wine or dine me for at least three dates" on a girl. It was SO funny to me
  19. If I can find it, I'll link you a podcast by Todd about this exact topic.
  20. How come people keep approaching? You wearing fake tits or something?
  21. Commit to something and commit to mastery in it. Once you have that mastery pick some missions. I've committed to cyber security so that would mean mastery there. I could do things like running cybersecurity for political candidates or critical infrastructure or all sorts of things. Hacking a terrorist organisation and stopping the next 9/11 would probably be a little helpful too lol. An example of the impact of cybersecurity on mature development is the Hilary Clinton email scandal. Just prior to the 2016 US election there was a large leak of Clinton's emails which caused a significant amount of reputational damage to Clinton, and perhaps swung the election. So a better cybersecurity team might have meant no Trump.
  22. Man, respectfully, I hate AI films