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@aurum @Miguel1 I understand you guys have positive intentions but I'm looking for frameworks, not evaluations on the pros/ cons of frameworks.

So I created actualized.org? Nice

Agree

You seem to have convictions, and a unique perspective. My concern is your potentially insightful advice is too vague to help him atm. Would be a shame if good advice were missed due to vagueness.

Peterson has been a great resource for me when I encountered evil fucked-up people. He could be a good resource in general for you. Just avoid his new stuff. He isn't the same guy these days.

Why would this be blame-shifting?

What actionable advice do you suggest?

I'm doing system by Todd atm. I love the game stuff. But I don't know so much how to go about the general conversational vibing. Any pointers? In the past, I've done self-amusing. But I end up dancing monkey. So I want to move on from it.

Flipping the script is such a wild experience when you first do it.

Oh my god. I'm gonna apply for euthanasia if he gets elected.

@UpperMaster In my life, the only thing that has ever helped me be less needy is abundance. Which is essentially just being more capable of having your needs met. These days I am more skeptical of these ex-puas who advise on being more authentic. Mark is one of them. It seems to me that they undervalue the importance of the skills they learnt through game. For example, they learnt how to withstand social pressure and have strong frame. Vulnerability without strength/ effectiveness seems overrated to me. David Tian and Neil Strauss had similar journeys, and say similar stuff about vulnerability. And I judge them the same way. If I'm open about by attraction to women, but I don't have the skills to seduce them, then I don't see how that will help my neediness in the way that really matters.

@Monster Energy Yeah religion gets put on a pedestal. My guess is this is because religious disagreement is so apt to lead to conflict. So, pedestalising religion makes society more orderly. Also, its probably just religious folk pedastalising their bs.

@Jirh lmao

Agreed. Great post

No judgement from me, bro. There is nothing wrong with you for feeling this way. I have had some similar thoughts myself before. We can help each other through this life

Siege 6. That game is the love of my life.

We don't have free will. So, everything is excusable.

Makes sense.

I get where you're coming from but i disagree. If i had an assholes life experience and genetics Id be an asshole too.

Interesting perspective

But if you're green i thought you value better things that say a red person. A red will value domination, whilst green will value equality.

I get where you're coming from. But classes of people often have generally shared motives. Or at least sub-classes of a general class do.

I agree. Especially if someone doesn't have sexual abundance.

Yep, just a few years ago he was very green. Was all about spirituality, chakras, leftist political causes. I'm from the UK, and growing up he was often in the news making some sort of leftist political protest.

I'd say its more of a he was red back then. Then evolved up the spiral to green. Then a few years ago, I'd guess he became aware of some allegations, and then regressed down to blue.