Ulax

Okay good to know you were joking

We can't go back to patriarchy just cos it might be harder to get laid nowadays

That's just rape

So your argument is he is a pervert for the following. Going out with a girl casually, where the girl had a similar job. And then calling things off when she wanted it to be more serious. That doesn't make sense.

I love some of what you say but also hate some too. Yes luck is involved. For example, not getting cancer whilst building your business. But being successful is also largely about building a killer skillset. And you can set yourself apart MASSIVELY. People are so blind to how deeply you can evolve a skillset. Pick up is a great example. There are many dudes who genuinely believe pickup is just a numbers game. Now, to anyone who's even made some progress that is obviously wrong, and blindness seems delusional. There are just so many factors you can level up in, that enhance your win percentage.

Why? The arguments I refer to are childish. Just referring to a society as being a total patriarchy, with no qualifications, is something a C grade 14 year old would do. I love some of your guys thinking but you just self-sabotage yourselves with these dramatic black-or-white arguments.

I hate how unnuanced some of these arguments are.

Oh my mistake.

Oxford. No. Completely fucked my life. But if i had better organisational skills it would have been a different story. Though, in some way it was worth it just to get in. Opened my mind up massively to what is possible.

Agreed

True.

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There are some reasonable points and genuine insights. But its also very cartoonish and unnuanced.

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Yep. Whole point of society is to meet people's needs. Entitlement isn't my argument.

Then they're bad solutions.

Until societies provides solutions to male dating issues, this whack-a-mole will continue.

Disturbing af

Jesus

Disagree

@HopefulMan Thanks bro All best to you

I found setting and achieving goals helped my identity change for sure. Setting small goals that you can achieve in a few weeks of consistency helped me. Also, i'll tell a brief story. I used to have my life feel completely out of control because of procrastination . I failed out of a dream university because of it and my life fell apart. Then I came across Dr K's (healthygamergg on youtube. Dw its free content) video on Procrastination: And it changed my life trajectory completed. Which i am very grateful for. The key learning was to focus on what I could do, instead of striving for the fantasy or the should. So, instead of pre-planning say 30 mins study at 8am. I would schedule study at 8am, and then at 8am i would ask "What can i do?" and then whatever that was i would do. Then likely a thought will come up of "This isn't enough", and you just notice that. Trust me, you can achieve impressive things by doing 'not enough'.

@Jacko nice point

I'd say, based on theory from Todd, Sacha gave a lot of his power away in the first interaction. It seemed to me the mutual understanding of the interaction was "I (Sacha) want you, and i'm trying to convince you to want me too". Todd would say you want the narrative of "You got the interview, now I'm assessing whether you got the job". The latter is a more attractive narrative for the girl, and more likely to trigger attraction. Its like a professor who gives out As to everyone, compared to a professor who is a hard ass and only gives As to a few people. Which grade are you gonna value more? I have a guilt complex around giving perspectives on things I'm not that good at in practice lol. And dating is something im not that good at. But i thought this could help.

Why follow Kezia Noble? She's never met a girl from cold approach and hooked up with her. How can her advice be trusted in comparison to other options?