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Oh my mistake.

Oxford. No. Completely fucked my life. But if i had better organisational skills it would have been a different story. Though, in some way it was worth it just to get in. Opened my mind up massively to what is possible.

Agreed

True.

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There are some reasonable points and genuine insights. But its also very cartoonish and unnuanced.

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Yep. Whole point of society is to meet people's needs. Entitlement isn't my argument.

Then they're bad solutions.

Until societies provides solutions to male dating issues, this whack-a-mole will continue.

Disturbing af

Jesus

Disagree

@HopefulMan Thanks bro All best to you

I found setting and achieving goals helped my identity change for sure. Setting small goals that you can achieve in a few weeks of consistency helped me. Also, i'll tell a brief story. I used to have my life feel completely out of control because of procrastination . I failed out of a dream university because of it and my life fell apart. Then I came across Dr K's (healthygamergg on youtube. Dw its free content) video on Procrastination: And it changed my life trajectory completed. Which i am very grateful for. The key learning was to focus on what I could do, instead of striving for the fantasy or the should. So, instead of pre-planning say 30 mins study at 8am. I would schedule study at 8am, and then at 8am i would ask "What can i do?" and then whatever that was i would do. Then likely a thought will come up of "This isn't enough", and you just notice that. Trust me, you can achieve impressive things by doing 'not enough'.

@Jacko nice point

I'd say, based on theory from Todd, Sacha gave a lot of his power away in the first interaction. It seemed to me the mutual understanding of the interaction was "I (Sacha) want you, and i'm trying to convince you to want me too". Todd would say you want the narrative of "You got the interview, now I'm assessing whether you got the job". The latter is a more attractive narrative for the girl, and more likely to trigger attraction. Its like a professor who gives out As to everyone, compared to a professor who is a hard ass and only gives As to a few people. Which grade are you gonna value more? I have a guilt complex around giving perspectives on things I'm not that good at in practice lol. And dating is something im not that good at. But i thought this could help.

Why follow Kezia Noble? She's never met a girl from cold approach and hooked up with her. How can her advice be trusted in comparison to other options?

Nah. I disagree. Pickup means different things for different people. Maximising your attractiveness is just one approach to pickup.

Different professions have different average qualities

I get ya

Its also called caring about the society you live in

Learn thy push-pull

Be cool if AI had better outcomes than therapy. I mean tbf with the amount of wacky unproven therapies out there, AI therapy really isn't that bad. Aside from the psychosis risks. What we need is more science on what actually works in therapy. Especially regarding trauma.

Agree. Feminism is much more cognitively advanced than manosphere. Though there is also much displaced anger, distorted thinking within some women identifying as feminists online. And its important to take into account algorithmic drift.