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Yay actual flirting. love to see it. Most people flirt by complimenting which isn't even flirting. Flirting is all about that tension of "will they or won't they". Direct game is so boring and over-intense to me. This is all very Todd v btw.

Bro you are misrepresenting what they said lol

Lol nah. Women always be overrating how well they can see through stuff.

Hahaha true

That's more of an issue of skill level than pickup not working in a certain place. Pickup is just what works to get girls. The advanced guys just switch it up, and do what works in a certain culture.

@Natasha Tori Maru Respect

Fr who cares if it it just happens on the odd occasion

Ok that makes sense if you stopped now

You gotta chillout

Loool there should be a little animation each time

That's called being codependent

lmao

Weren't you the one criticising game as shallow. How does that makes sense when you're a freaking salesmen lol And ofc its gonna be way easier to chat people up if your career resembles the exact thing you're trying to do.

@Emotionalmosquito Respect for all the action taking bro. Sounds like you need to buy a pickup program though. Who are you getting advice from atm?

Yes, i get you re the interesting thing, and I agree people can, at least on occasion, naturally approach you/ make it easier to talk to you. I would disagree about the pickup community treating human connection like a limited resourced. I'd say its exactly the opposite.

I agree that not giving a fuck is about being detached from outcome. But if you didn't care about outcome you wouldn't ever approach anyone. Its better to have an outcome that isn't about just getting some sexual result. Like I want to have fun and connect with other cool people, and if that ends in sex then that's cool too.

@LordFall Sounds good man. But being dodgy and giving effective advice aren't mutually exclusive. And nice work on the hot girls. How much did you pay them to be there?

Depends what you mean by attraction. Some mean attraction as emotionally aroused, and some mean attraction as the image of the other person you have in your head.

Yes, I've heard that guy is dodgy too. I know someone who said he mocks his clients

You're throwing the baby out with the bath water. Unless you're lucky enough to have had a good formative social experience with women, you can't generally just rely on authentically connecting with women and get a girl you're not settling for.

You got me. I actually just got helicoptered to the hospital because I had three heart attacks out of fear of being banned. Luckily the pilot let me use their phone to reply to you now

I understand the curiosity. But I'd rather not talk about that.

Leo spoke about this before. Essentially, he said he is willing to make the trade-off of allowing less mature people so that actualized can be more accessible. I'd personally prefer a more liberal use of the ban button.

I can parrot some theory to you regarding this. But i only have one date where I've tried this so far. Went well though. But was just being more 'I love' 'i hate' when talking about my hobbies. Essentially, this is a third-party topic. (Isn't connected to you or the girl), and that isn't great. But you can connect it to you by talking about your emotions in relation to it. Firstly, can engage her by making strong emotional statements that use with words like 'love' 'hate'. For example, "I love thinking about how the world really works", or "I hate the idea of living my life without satisfying my curiosity about how the world works". (This i reckon could definitely be an upgrade for you, where you both get a better experience). Secondly, you can convey your views on the topic through a story. The basics of a good story are situation, interruption, change, and you want to include the character's inner experiences. - For example, When i was a kid I was always fascinated by how reality worked. I loved watching films with my dad about sci films where people would be teleporting or time travelling, and i would always ask why that happened. As I grew up those films didn't scratch that same itch anymore. And I found my interests moved more towards philosophy. I hated the idea of not knowing how the reality around me functioned, and my curiosity about what reality is and the nature of why we are here, were on my mind all the time. And still now, philosophy is a real love of mine.

@CARDOZZO Thanks man. Will check it out. Edit: Damn that post seems gangster, apart from the preachy and blue-pill replies.