Ulax

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  1. Unfortunately, leo used a lot of videos in his blog, and site that were powered by vimeo. Leo did a post recently about how vimeo essentially stopped powering the vids, and would only do so again if Leo agreed to a dramatic increase in subscription cost. Poor dude lol.
  2. Funnily enough, many people actually get attracted to avoidant people. It recreates their childhood. Trauma bonding is v common.
  3. @StarStruck What sort of things are you thinking about?
  4. I was wondering what people's perspectives were on what this means for me. I'm not currently involved in those fields. (I do law/ philosophy). However, I'm thinking it signals a disowned part of me that really likes those creative fields, but hasn't yet embraced those. What do people think?
  5. try do nothing meditation and check if you have adhd
  6. Dammmm sexy guy
  7. I'd start doing some body based mindfulness with labelling. I believe it will likely help you deal with the withdrawal effects. And, yes, coffee is a hell of a drug.
  8. @Forza21 I suppose whether you do or you don't, the result is god's will. Its kinda just about how far your character makes it, imo.
  9. Be like, 'you're the girl of your dreams' to every girl. its true
  10. Perhaps, see that it is likely that the issues that tehy have with westerners comes from a fight part of them looking to protect a scared, terrified child part of them that just wants to be safe in the world.
  11. @Lews Therin Nah dude, imo, a lot of those guys aren't serious about it. r/pickup is where its at, you have to join the discord tho.
  12. I don't like the move by meta (Facebook). I get the thinking behind it. However, I think it sets an unstable precedent. Silence on issues from meta will now become seen as more of a political statement.
  13. I find Marshall more orange/ green, personally. This podcast was fucking phenomenal. Have you seen Tian's Modern Mating explained?
  14. @Vision Here is the directory. It lists IFS therapists/ practioners. (https://ifs-institute.com/practitioners) I am personally doing my sessions online. Here is an intro vid to IFS: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DdZZ7sTX840
  15. I have done a lot of self-work with it. Am around 8 sessions into IFS specific therapy. And, yep, my profile pic was chosen because of IFS. It symbolises the model.
  16. I'd read this book: Harville Hendrix, Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples
  17. I get where you're coming from dude. Am a long term adhedonic myself. I think IFS would be valuable to look into for you.
  18. Body awareness meditation will help too. And, not tensing your muscles while you masturbate too.