Ulax

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  1. Sure. How does one individual spending their time on prac philosophy over spirituality change the world significantly for them or anyone else?
  2. There's so many things that could be going on with her psyche. She sounds pretty low self-esteem from your messages on here. Probably tryna rationalise to herself all sorts of things. A mad thing too is that sometimes your game can be too good, and she thinks you're out of her league. Some girls will then compensate for that by rejecting you to re-up their self esteem, when really they were pre-empting a perceived rejection. Girls are generally more anxious than us lads.
  3. @Raptorsin7 Goddard?
  4. @Tudo I understand there are a lot of things many will dislike. There are also some benefits. You say formality, another says ritual. The commitment to marriage is a ritual that can provide security, trust, and strength to the relationship and those in the relationship. For example, I believe people tend to be less likely to walk away from a marriage, which means they are more likely to put more work into fixing their relationship than simply moving on, giving the relationship more of a chance to thrive. Stage blue is important.
  5. Perhaps try this: I think its often beneficial to just get fundamental breathing techniques/ stress reduction things in place before doing meditation. You can get the relaxation you want in like 2 minutes using breathing techniques.
  6. Firstly, dude I wanna say respect for all the work you have put in. I understand it was probably really frustrating to have not got the promised results from those modalities. Also, it sounds like you're being smart about your issues, and looking for identity level change. Secondly, I haven't recovered from my traumas as yet. However, I have some things that have helped me along the way. Two in particularly. One is a coping mechanism that makes socialising much easier, and the other other is a lifestyle change that has helped. However, I want to respect the fact you didn't ask for advice, so I'll only elaborate on them, if you want me too.
  7. Daddy issues lol. Sincerely tho its pretty understandable. Actualized.org is a light in the darkness for many.
  8. Bro, they'll deffo think you bought a fake breathalyser lmao. I dunno, just calm yourself down by deep breathing whilst your in the queue.
  9. I'd buy Ag Avery's programme called 'The method'. Its a pick-up book. You can ignore the pick-up stuff. However, the magic is found at the end. There is a goal setting programme there, which I have personally found absolutely phenomenal! Tho, you might have more of a base integrity issue, where you can't commit to putting in work at specific times in the future and sustainably, and also in a way that does not lead to burn out. If that is so, I'd recommend the book atomic habits, and also just making small commitments and keeping them.
  10. I mean Trump became president. World's a crazy place
  11. I think that they just have differing perspectives on what actually is entailed in raising the quality of life. Also, I think Biden is far from centre-left, I'd put him as well within right wing territory.
  12. Also, is this more along the LoA type train of thought?
  13. @Raptorsin7 Ayyyy was just flicking through and saw this. I'm a 5w4, or 9w1.
  14. Do you feel a lot of emotions you'd rather not feel?
  15. I understand this post is from a while ago. However, @Leo Gura would you mind elaborating on why you class sociology as 'Green+'. I've always understood green to be peace and lovey, but without the robust, systemic understandings of how to actually get the love and peace they want in the world. The latter being stage yellow-esque. However, to my mind, sociology is the study of systems. If you still think sociology is not stage yellow, then please may you say why.
  16. If you think he is actually gonna fight you, I'd just leave the interaction and move on. If he is just hostile, I always thought you can treat him like a friend or you can ignore him. The latter is a bit more risky. Its effective tho gamewise.
  17. Leo's how to get laid series could have been made into a course that could have been marketed for hundreds of dollars, its crazy. The dude blesses us.
  18. Its a tough one. It really fucked with me a few years earlier, and that was in spite of being on summer break, so I had a flexible schedule. Black out your room completely to deal with the light. Tape black bin bags to your window if need be. Unless you can move your daily schedule around, I think it will be kind of tough for you sleepwise any way you put it, imo.
  19. You got this dude. Impressive stuff. Kudos!
  20. Great stuff, dude! Love the consistency from you!
  21. Right on, dude! Look forward to watching your progress