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Ye dude, I reckon all these guys have mental health issues. You become obsessed with status and hierarchies as a result of trauma, and a society that tells you that you can only get your needs met by being a player. Leo's vid on PUA is useful. All these guys are stuck in the idea that materialism will fulfil you. They need depth psychotherapy or meds (if they have adhd)

The IFS institute are the main IFS therapist/ practioner trainers. They have three levels of training. The most trained being level 3, and least trained being level 1.

Perhaps

Hiya, you might find more luck posting this in one of the main discussion forums

Its cool. nothing to change imo

Yep

I would probably explore alternative forms of healing. Emotionally I'm not sure how I'd react. Breaks my heart that its the reality of some.

Ye same. Issue for me is I wanna learn about things from people who have some level of success with said thing.

I'd do a depth psychotherapy, and also check for adhd

I did it about 5 years back. I think it could be useful if you aren't that traumatised, and you just need a paradigm shift. I.e. I need to take responsibility for my life. However, I don't think it is very useful if you are traumatised. I think it has potential to do more harm than good.

Nah, I 99.9% doubt he does.

Actually ye that's a good point.

Has anyone here a/ been a social worker? Also, has anyone got any perspectives on social workers they'd like to share? I.e. You had a social worker, who helped you a lot, or didn't help you much. Or, simply just opinions on the field in general. Thanks in advance.

OP i'd go watch David Tian, and do some depth psychotherapy. I think this fascination with red pill is just your trauma talking.

Another thing, is it wise to ask cult members if they are in a cult? They would probably say no because they are in a cult.

Lol come on, he was banned for giving really unhelpful, and contextually strange advice again and again and again after warnings. I get your point about the issue of Leo ego. I agree. Makes me constantly hesitant about my engagement with the forum.

Imo, red pill is devastatingly dumb. Go do pickup if you're in that sort of paradigm at least. I think that is even too toxic. Red pill is people jacking each other off to strange bedtime stories about the world.

Sounds healthy. I'd check out, 'When I say no I feel guilty' to validate your desired action

Anyone got any advice on dealing with dyslexia? Thanks in advance

@JosephKnecht Everything is a projection at a certain layer of analysis. To get to the inside you have to understand the outside sufficiently. I.e. Generally, you wouldn't do the necessary work, unless you heard someone tell you what the necessary work was.

I believe its because many people live simply inhumane lives. Without the drug of caffeine, people could not function adequately.

Transmission? What do you mean by that?

My dude, we watch the same content for sure. Was gonna recommend that first link too! Tian is the man!

@StarStruck What level is your therapist btw?