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@StarStruck Sounds to me like some well meaning co-dependent traits from you dude. I deal with similar thought patterns to. Essentially, other than if you are being abusive, you are not responsible for other people's emotions. If you don't want to dance with them, then you don't have to, and you don't have to justify yourself. Its toxic to demand that other people dance with you because then you are demanding that people deny their own preferences. If she feels sad, or angry, or whatever emotion, that no one wants to dance with her, that is valid for her to feel. However, it isn't your responsibility to fix it. Its her responsibility. To my mind, the above is the psychotherapeutic approach to boundaries. Also, this is why many incels are toxic. They feel angry at women, and that anger is valid (cos its an emotion. Note though this isn't me saying that they should feel angry at women). However, they then match with an entitlement to women, and things about how its unfair that women aren't into them. In dating terms, people don't each other shit, except non-abusiveness. Women sometimes do the same thing too in reverse.
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Hey guys, Thought I'd pass this on. I'd really recommend the book: The razor's edge by Somerset Maugham. It shows the story of an unfolding life of characters in Paris in older times. In it one of the characters elects to pursue a more spiritual path in life, and the story tracks how the path that character walks contrasts to those who do not choose that path. As a young man myself, I particularly resonated with this character (who is also a young man). It might be nice to have some literature recommendations on this forum. Its cool to read these sorts of stories that will resonate with our chosen paths. I find it quite challenging to find such reads. All the best people.
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@MarkKol These are core human needs. You have them too
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Art is often a political tool. There is access to the sublime via art. Also, it is an emotional coping mechanism for many. It allows many to feel seen, and validated.
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People don't tend to think with complexity, and nuance. And, also there is stigma against criticising islam.
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Someone made an actualized.org textbook a while back. Maybe they included the worksheet. Using the forum's search function I reckon you could check quite quickly.
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Remember tho, the law of averages works both ways ;). And, also I'd recommend seeing harsh rejections as a blessing from the girl, in some aspects. it really grounds you.
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lmao jesus christ can't believe she reported you. guess she must have had some shit going on. Law of averages is really on full display when it comes to pickup. One of my wingmen got slapped in the face by a random latino girl who was passing by whilst doing pickup. Some crazy shit lmao.
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@Hardkill To my mind, they just support trump because they want access to his voter base. To be a republican is to live in a state of perpetual cognitive dissonance anyway.
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@StarStruck Fair play for approaching at the gym btw dude. I've approached a decent amount, CA wise, and never did a gym one.
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Then WW3 becomes v v likely
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From what I understand, it seems Putin has given up some ground by allowing non-conditional diplomatic talks with a ukraine delegation, and this is his way of upping the stakes and putting pressure on ukraine. Scary stuff tho
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Awesome dude! Definitely fuel for the road ahead for me.
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Ye binural beats are legit
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@Yarco Doesn't seem like a big issue for me. Dude might be time pressed, or have a specific personal project he's working on. Also, bit of a waste of time to search through 500 videos if someone else has already compiled what you want
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@Yarco y?
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Sedona method it
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Yep
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Fair enough dude. What worked for me, might not work for you
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Ulax replied to mysticalninja's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Haha good vid. Sweet mum as well. Riley seems like a cool girl. -
https://aghayden.gumroad.com/l/thecompletemethod Nice one dude.
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Check this shit out, damn lmao: https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-60029508 "Legal documents, previously unreported, claim OnlyFans directed an unidentified social media company to disable accounts of performers by placing their content on a terrorism database." -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- I already had a big problem with OnlyFans because its a site that, i see to be, taking advantage of emotionally wounded young men. Sidenote: Notice how society would rather you be addicted to OnlyFan than be a PUA lol. There is good reason for it in some ways societally spekaing, but as an individual nah.
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Ulax replied to Anon212's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
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@Blackhawk Guess we disagree then
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Too complex a geopolitical question to give a quickfire answer too, imo