Ulax

@Thewizardking I reckon you probably have trauma, and its that trauma which is preventing your visualisation. Also, there's a good subreddit for aphantasia

@Yali I've always thought London and New York are the most renowned.

@Leo Gura If you're not great at socialising full stop aka hard case. Daygame is gonna be a killer to start with in my opinion. I started with nightgame with a group of about 6 or 7 guys who'd go and out, and it was fun af. We'd be in it togetehr, and there'd be a real lot of comradery with it. Some great memories from that time. However, i got into daygame last year and I was a lot more on it in terms of plnning my progression. Liek i learnt a lot about planning how to set goals and complete them in regards to approaching, and was just a lot better versed on things. However, it was toughhhh because you're really going against social norms there, and you can waste time standing around. I had a couple wings that i really got on with that made it pretty fun too. I had a point where i was really starting to see results and could see how i was going to really jump up a level. But i had to deal with another part of my life - more foundational, so had to leave pick up for a while. I'm 22, and had some funny fucking dates from daygame. Like this one date with a 33 year old russian girl was funny af. I kept telling her in a russian accent, 'i know you love me'. I love trolling, so my humor is just like that. Sometimes i forget im doing gae at all. its just fucking fun ?. What daygame really helped me with tho is realising most people are kinda boring, and live pretty ordinary, normal lives. Like girls who i thought would be really bitchy or intimidatingly charismatic were just other people trying to get by. I used to think everyone else was living these amazing, complex lives, but nah not really. -------- Also, people dont talk about it too much, but honestly imo the best way to get good at game is to know how to goal set well, and learn.

If you're wanting to be serious about it, I'd try and get hold of a university's reading list, and start reading academic journals.

@Nadosa Probably. But that's besides the point for me, I don't want to work on being okay with whatever it is in this thread. Instead, I want to understand what is going on.

Like if we were to have a conversation i wouldnt be able to comprehend that you would see a person that you would label as ulax.

Its so confusing to understand who is legit and who isnt legit

@Nos7algiK were you always like that?

Disorganized gang. Woop Woop!

What will the book be about?

@Anders Saether Statement of empathy will be useful. Also, daygame requires a lot less risky behaviour than nightgame. If you did some julien esque nightgame in the day, you'd probably get arrested ?.

This post: I want attention and i want control. I found this post annoying

@flume Your website is cool

You're good my dude. I'd recommend watching, 'Beautiful Boy'. The Timothee chalamet one. Life imitates art. I'd also recommend IFS.

@Raptorsin7 What if your son was abused by a paedophile?

@Federico del pueblo Disagree Disagree.

@RickyFitts did you try it yourself?

I'm addicted to fixing myself. There is the belief that something is wrong with me, and I am constantly trying to fix myself. Thing is I'm failing out of a very prestigious university because I can't concentrate well enough to study. And, that's with a hell of a lot of careful, deliberate and smart means I've researched and put in place to overcome this. I also am completely numb to the world, and unable to make connection with anyone. I constantly dissociate. Its very serious C-PTSD/ BPD. I had/ have very narcissistic parents, as well as a lot of abuse by 'friends', and authority figures over the years. Meditation, trauma therapy, healing, Pick up etc. for the past few years, working on being. And many more. I'm in the following dilemma: - The current way I live/ experience my life is not a life worth living - Nothing I do makes a meaningful change I welcome perspectives on this. I'd appreciate if the responses were explained in simple terms, and somewhat clearly :). Thank you in advance

@Lyubov wrong

@happyhappy gotta check their infields

@Federico del pueblo PUA is fucked, and hardly anyone admits it. I think everyone knows it deep down, and often not even that deep down.

@Loba I might intuitively get it. I don't know if I could explain it. I find the concept funny.

@Hardkill You don't. Watch Californiacation

Great dude! What is helping you the most at the moment? I'm currently focusing on wants/ needs.

@Iesu nice projecting there