Ulax

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  1. @BlessedLion Hey dude, I do IFS work weekly with a therapist.
  2. @Sugarcoat Sounds to me like those are depressive/ dissociative symptoms. Have you done any work with body scan meditation or yoga nidra?
  3. @Username Gotcha. All the best with it mate
  4. Can help calm the nervous system
  5. How would you approach something like legal reasoning?
  6. Ah I see. Well if he does it at the same location where the same people notice him, that goes against the need for anonymity to a degree. I mean the easy, and straightforward fix is to just go some other location. Or just mix up where you go. The fuck lmao. I guess depends on how your friend was approaching to warrant that or not. What did the flyer even say lol? "PUAs in this area! If engaged, Call 911!".
  7. How do you judge that something is more or less correct from within a given purposive context?? But how do you decide what constitutes an 'airplane' or what constitutes 'flying', without appealing to a transcendental truth?
  8. @simp Ah shit, yeah anonymity is essential for pick up. Its a reason why most coaaches recommend doing it in bigger cities. Sounds like he's doing it in a small town?
  9. I guess my previous question comes from the following question. How you can ever make an argument for anything if you don't believe in transcendental truth?
  10. Damn. Just read this, and loved this article.
  11. On one hand, you have to engage in deliberate practice to get good at it imo. Things like field reporting. A lot of guys don't do that. So lack of results can be due to that. On the other hand, I think a lot of dudes can just get retraumatised from it too. Hence the lowered self esteem and less results. Happened to me for sure. Really fucked me up for awhile actually. And the pua community isn't too understanding when it comes to that sort of thing lol. Particularly if you're a hardcase newb in the community.. Deep meditation and depth psychotherapy is a needed thing for a lot of guys in the community. I agree with Leo that most guys get involved in pua as a sort of neurotic overreaction to negative experiences in their lives, ie were bullied at school.
  12. How can you argue its necessary and valid, when you don't believe in transcendent truth? (At least i assume you don't)
  13. @Bobby_2021 Ah yeah thanks. Forgot about the different types of categorizations in EDT
  14. @Leo Gura Can you give some sub categories of construct-awareness pls?
  15. @Bobby_2021 I like your point about recognising the social constructiveness of any concept. But I think Destiny would probably agree that all concepts are socially constructed.
  16. Alex O'connor Aubrey Marcus
  17. @Username Burn out from untreated adhd could be a possibility too. Have you tried stimulant medication?
  18. Can get audibles and work through this book list: https://davidtianphd.com/recommended-readings/
  19. Bro Destiny literally is god
  20. Damn. Disgraceful behavior from mr gpt
  21. @HMD Because for the untrained mind, life is full of suffering.
  22. @Jesus Christ omg it really you?! I've read all your books and everything!
  23. @Hardkill 80s = Cold war, and AIDs epidemics, apartheid south africa, northern ireland 90s = Rwandan genocide, LA riots, Bosnian genocide, Oklahoma city bombing Early 2000s = 9/11, War on terror Late 2000s = Crippling global economic crisis 2010s = Mass shootings, Rise of isis, arab spring I think things are no less stable now. I mean you have the israel-palestine situation turned up in severity, people's purchasing power is limited, and divisive politics. But I don't think its that bad compared to previous eras. I mean our present issues pale in comparison to the events i mentioned above in the 2000s, and the cold war.