Ulax

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  1. @Something Funny I think it’s great you want to use reddit more responsibly mate. It’s a sign of your good character that you want to progress in this way imo. So kudos for that 🤙. Id say maybe be selective in what subreddits you sub to. Maybe you struggle unsubbing to some which you feel have negative effects. In that case I’d just add more higher consciousness ones, like maybe r/positivity. Or fun ones like r/beamazed. Also you can do a thing, say once per day, where you go wish, say 5 people per day well or compliment 5 people per day. You can do it on random subs or subs like r/kindness and r/toastme. That way you can turn your Reddit use into a sort of daily metta practice! I hope these are of value to you mate. And all best to you 🎉.
  2. Bring back the fantasy pls 😭🥹 I don’t like the darkness
  3. Oh which one lol. I didn’t know which one you were referring to when you made your comment to me lol. So I got confused but didn’t want to ruin the fun by saying I didn’t understand ahaha.
  4. I think it was 2023 at least. Some dude was trying to recruit people to a discord server and there was like a group of them there instead of on here lol. I think they had a Minecraft server too lol. Pretty sure they all got banned for here eventually
  5. The 2023 actualized.org rebellion will never be forgotten
  6. Yeah but they can just go back in again after they get the hostage back no?
  7. Yeah I’m glad to hear they are safe now. Hopefully they have expert mental health and general health support for them. I know they seem to have the latter but don’t know about the former.
  8. That vid of the Israeli hostages being released to the Red Cross is fucking nuts. I can’t get over how terrifying that must be holy shit. Must all be dissociated as shit by now but still.
  9. I think the older you get the more you should meditate because the ageing process is pretty stressful. And as you age the more you have to handle your own mortality and people inevitably die who you know. Meditation allows you a way to cope adequately with that.
  10. I think the argument was more that through hardcore meditation you could get to a state of unconditional happiness. Not just via that green ideal you talk of. I see it as that which Leo moves away from. Though I don’t understand why seeing as Leo admits himself he isn’t the greatest meditator, or at least did in one video. But maybe he has just come to conclusion to suffering is just much more difficult to overcome than he previously thought. But I am just guessing. I would like to think unconditional happiness is possible via meditation. But I don’t know. Obviously that Is just a preference rather than an argument.
  11. Imo everyone can win using their method. But only like 5% will have the dedication, perseverance and ability to self reflect that allows them to get the serious results. So I sorta agree and disagree. And yes I did just pluck that 5% figure out my ass
  12. Just wanted to say thank you for the blog recommendation re the spatula. It’s truly changed my relationship with this guy. For the longest time my relationship with him has been strained but he seems to have a newfound respect for me. Used to just ignore me when he came over. Now it’s different. He’s calls me spatboy with a grin. We even watched Leo’s video on overcoming adversity together. And he lets me know when he’s with my wife so that I can put headphones on. So yeah thanks again Leo.
  13. I get the confusion. Self development can be hella counter intuitive.
  14. Happy belated birthday bro 🙏🎉
  15. Let’s gooo
  16. @NewKidOnTheBlock Hey bro, unfortunately Saturday she is busy pegging me so she no can do. However, on Sundays she has a free slot.
  17. Thank you for sharing mate. Interesting read 🤙
  18. @Sugarcoat Seeing overcoming adversity as a hero’s journey helps me. As well as keeping in mind the mastery curve and being patient. I watch Leo’s video on patience from time to time to help me. I just keep experimenting, reflecting and plodding along my path. And I trust that eventually I will get results. I think what also helps is I’ve had some journeys where I have seen noticeable progress such as boxing and pick-up. And I can see the mastery curve and hero’s journey elements at play there. So I can relate my present stage of my journey now to when I was at that stage in those other journeys if that makes sense. So that is what helps me I’d say. All best mate 🤙.
  19. @Flowerfaeiry I mean Aubrey Marcus put out a statement endorsing Trump and described him as a loving person lol. These people are not immune from delusion. That said it sounds like a tough situation to have those you look up to take a path which you didn’t expect. And have that choice of path cause you to question whether you can trust them as you did. I think is commendable that you are willing to reflect on this change and not just follow them. I’d take some time to be extra kind to yourself as I think inevitably this may bring up some challenging things for you. All best.