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I like this advice. I'd add in getting involved with a depth psychotherapy and checking for neurodivergence too, i.e. adhd/ dyslexia.

I'd go do a depth psychotherapy and/ or check whether you have ADHD

I'd personally move out asap

I mean tbf dude its all up to you regarding what you want out of life. If you don't see anything in need of improving, then you don't have to.

I'd recommend IFS. Particularly, Jay Earley's 'Self-Therapy' series

I don't see how I'm abusing your mental health disorder, nor do I quite understand what you mean by that. But, I'd rather park that discussion for now.

I disagree. BPD people can act like her. Some people with BPD can seem very normal, i.e. if you have quiet BPD.

She got regularly raped by an older man in her local community whilst a kid. So significantly heavier trauma than most

Agreed. I'd only follow dating advice from people who are talking from direct experience.

- Jumping around between different practices, and thereby not committing - Adopting non-mastery mindsets, i.e. obsessive mindsets - Spiritual bypassing - Assuming someone who is a known master in one domain is a master in other domains - Selecting non-expert mentors - Thinking certain practices will achieve results that they don't, i.e. believing pick up will bring happiness - Becoming dogmatically anti-mainstream - Becoming dogmatically anti-science - Becoming adversarial to ego; not recognising the importance of strong ego

tbf he went around saying he used to be an adventurer but took an arrow to the knee

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I'd get out and get a job you probably dislike the idea of. I.e. go become a full-time barista for 2 months. That'll ground you, and it sounds to me like you need grounding - if you've just been sitting and thinking about things. ------------- Then move out. Also, I'd start doing IFS therapy Edit: Also, fair play for making this post, I understand it might take quite a bit of courage to do so

To my understanding, Nahm is pretty aligned with the Neo-Advaita approach to spirituality. Hence, the perceived obscurity.

Quoting you re my question about Internal family systems. I personally think internal family system's teaching would be able to inform your understanding of reality, in the way you seek.

Thx for fixing the server btw leo. Appreciated

Talking of healing trauma and psychotherapy. Any thoughts on internal family systems therapy @Leo Gura?

@Razard86 Fair. I'm not sure myself. Could imagine him deleting and then doing an explanatory video on the main channel

Phew. Thought Leo had deleted the forum

Almost right. The entire thing leads up to the climax where Teal Swan is unveiled to actually be Ellen Degeneres

I know its annoying, but you really gotta watch the doc

Nice one dude Too right bro lmao

If you like sports, sports teams could be a good start. Theatre groups could be another. Then invite them to places you want to go to.

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