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Was he really trying to help, or was he more just advertising that he was at peace? I think its important to meet people at the spiral dynamics stage they appear to be at. Wtf is stage turquoise talk going to do for someone dealing with a (i.e.) stage blue issue, or person who is mostly stage blue, generally speaking.

I mean you can literally accuse any comment of being a projection.

Damn, sounds like a tough experience. You have boundaries regarding which type of people you'll fuck with, and which that you won't? I.e. if someone was this type of person, I wouldn't have anything to do with them.

I get you. First one = Second one = Learn how to identify toxic/ abusive relationships, and then move on from them by any reasonable means necessary I would recommend watching Dr Ramani's content for it: Edit: I keep trying to tag her narcissistic glossary playlist, but this random vid from it comes up instead. Hope it helps.

Lmao off dude. That's like something outta a movie ahahaha. What was their (the two girls) reaction? Also, I respect the respecting of the no.

Lool. If you want the t-shirt I say, why not. There's worse things to do. live and let live and all that.

Praise the lord. I wanted to call the dude out the other day, but I was afraid of getting warning points. I really respect this decision, and think it is a step in the right direction for the forum.

"Actualized.org is not a cult guys!" Three moments later...

@K Ghoul Night king

@K Ghoul Damn, I respect the mercy

@K Ghoul Fair play my dude

Leo, K Ghoul, the master of the skies, conqueror of all seas knower of all truths, has spoken. To avoid his wrath, you must increase your video uploads. Not even awakening can save you. K Ghoul, I beg mercy from you. Pls spare his life.

Why are you lot talking about hitting women lmao?

Also, tbh, you could end up getting her using PUA stuff. But you gotta value yourself, you really wanna hook up with a girl like this? I would be gone. There's plenty of PUAs who also value themselves in this way. I recommend always be willing to walk away. Otherwise, on reflection, you're just training yourself to be a really effective co-dependent.

Sure. How does one individual spending their time on prac philosophy over spirituality change the world significantly for them or anyone else?

There's so many things that could be going on with her psyche. She sounds pretty low self-esteem from your messages on here. Probably tryna rationalise to herself all sorts of things. A mad thing too is that sometimes your game can be too good, and she thinks you're out of her league. Some girls will then compensate for that by rejecting you to re-up their self esteem, when really they were pre-empting a perceived rejection. Girls are generally more anxious than us lads.

? I LOVE that one ahahhaha

@Raptorsin7 Goddard?

@Tudo I understand there are a lot of things many will dislike. There are also some benefits. You say formality, another says ritual. The commitment to marriage is a ritual that can provide security, trust, and strength to the relationship and those in the relationship. For example, I believe people tend to be less likely to walk away from a marriage, which means they are more likely to put more work into fixing their relationship than simply moving on, giving the relationship more of a chance to thrive. Stage blue is important.

Perhaps try this: I think its often beneficial to just get fundamental breathing techniques/ stress reduction things in place before doing meditation. You can get the relaxation you want in like 2 minutes using breathing techniques.

Firstly, dude I wanna say respect for all the work you have put in. I understand it was probably really frustrating to have not got the promised results from those modalities. Also, it sounds like you're being smart about your issues, and looking for identity level change. Secondly, I haven't recovered from my traumas as yet. However, I have some things that have helped me along the way. Two in particularly. One is a coping mechanism that makes socialising much easier, and the other other is a lifestyle change that has helped. However, I want to respect the fact you didn't ask for advice, so I'll only elaborate on them, if you want me too.

Daddy issues lol. Sincerely tho its pretty understandable. Actualized.org is a light in the darkness for many.

Bro, they'll deffo think you bought a fake breathalyser lmao. I dunno, just calm yourself down by deep breathing whilst your in the queue.

Why?

I'd buy Ag Avery's programme called 'The method'. Its a pick-up book. You can ignore the pick-up stuff. However, the magic is found at the end. There is a goal setting programme there, which I have personally found absolutely phenomenal! Tho, you might have more of a base integrity issue, where you can't commit to putting in work at specific times in the future and sustainably, and also in a way that does not lead to burn out. If that is so, I'd recommend the book atomic habits, and also just making small commitments and keeping them.