Ulax

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  1. But my lil rat brain likes these gimmicks 😝
  2. Content versus structure
  3. I think things seem worse than they are. I think it’s partly because of this talk of ‘post truth politics’. This talk of post truth politics is misleading because it makes it seem like this right wing rejection of truth and favouring of self serving narratives is something new. It is not new. This is just propaganda in the modern day.
  4. Anyone have a lecture series they can recommend regarding the Israel/ Palestine conflict please?
  5. Bro imo you are engaging, to some degree, in all or nothing thinking. It may not possible to do everything you want to do at the moment. But you can still implement some of these self actualization habits imo.
  6. Meeeee. I’m 1200. What are you?
  7. We should hold an actualized.org chess tournament
  8. Thanks. Lets say describing the sport of football. I like your idea of asking yourself further questions.
  9. @kavaris @Princess Arabia Actually, I will change my question to two different questions. 1.) How should I think when describing something abstract? Ie describing what law is 2.) How should I think when describing something I am observing? Ie a game of tennis.
  10. Great share imo! I really like Dr K’s content myself. I think his content is a really good compliment to Actualized.org actually. Especially for folks dealing with mental health stuff.
  11. Epistemic Terrorist Someone who tears down the epistemic foundations of another person’s beliefs without adequate consideration of the destabilising effect it will have on them. Example 1: Leoella: Omg! I’ve just tried this thing called Cbt therapy. It has solved my two year long depression. I can’t believe it. Lionel: Pffffff… Cbt therapy that is such nonsense. Everyone knows there is no foundation to rationality. So any cognitive distortion you identify is arbitrary. Bradley Martin: Yoooo Lionel bro. You’re a goddamn epistemic terorrist.
  12. PJW (PUA Justice Warrior) Someone who believes pua is the solution to all life’s problems. And recommends pua as the solution to all problems without mentioning any other possible solutions. Example1: Person A: I can’t meditate. PJW: You cant meditate because it is just a way you are distracting yourself from what you know you need to do as a man… cold approach. Example 2: Person A: Bernie Sanders is seeming flustered and reactive in this debate. I’m not sure I can vote for him. PJW: If he learned pua Bernie would have strong frame and would be calm, collected and inspire support. Example 3: Person A: My Mum is having trouble learning Spanish. PJW: If you did pua your mom wouldn’t worry so much about your single ass, and would be able to learn Spanish. Meaningful because it’s a funny way to resist the shaming attitude some pua folk to those who don’t do pua. And can also be a funny way of pointing out how puas often see pua as the only solution to problems which actually have various better solutions.
  13. Lmao 🤣 I have deffo been guilty of that before
  14. @Santiago Ram I’d argue it’s, in part, because these places are often full of people who devoted their life to helping folks who have fallen on hard times. And to devote your life to that, generally, you have to be a very caring, empathetic and driven person imo. So those places are filled with many caring, empathetic and driven people. Then when you go back out into society you just experience the average person, who is quite a lot less caring and empathetic imo.
  15. Re the first two video time stamps you linked I watched that full video. I think the thing to keep in mind with Owen is he is talking about how to massive casual dating success with women. Like going from a guy who struggles to get a date let alone get laid, to a guy who has a roster full of girls who are very sought after and model quality. And his argument is that you can get girls by having amazing amounts of money or having an amazing physique. But loads of guys are doing that so it is very competitive and also physical physique wise your gonna probably have to steroid up and rely on genetics too. Howeverer, Owen argues, to my understanding, most guys aren’t willing to go the hardcore cold approach route to get those amazing causal dating results with women. And development of very high sexual charisma is also a path to getting these high level dating results. Therefore developing very high level sexual charisma via hardcore cold approach is the best option according to Owen. Because with cold approach you get way more bang for your buck lol. But yeah I can also understand why you might see Owen as sort of being pitying towards guys who try that gym route. But then again if Owen is right about Cold approach being way more effective, then it makes sense to me why he’d pity someone who tried the gym route. Cos they would be putting in so much time and energy for such relatively mediocre returns.
  16. Yeah my first thought is wonder to what extent they are ‘playing the game’ with this conflict. In terms of how much of Todd’s video/ blog is full of hidden rhetorical devices and strategy to get me to do what he wants. In the same way, in pick up there is the interaction as it appears to an ordinary person and then the calculated strategy a pua uses to actually guide the interaction.
  17. Thing is pua guys tend to use meditation in a different way than a monk or spiritual seeker would generally imo. Imo they tend to use it just as a tool to get better at game ie better eye contact and better state control.
  18. This still going on? I would like to hear a response from rsd before coming to conclusions though. But then again maybe the arbitrator’s decision can be seen as a reliable sign that Todd is generally making accurate claims. But I don’t think it’s worth my time to critically read through all the arguments so as to come to a conclusion. But I will see if I can help Todd with his search for information.
  19. Thank you for sharing your insights Leo. You the man/ infinite consciousness