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Show her that you really don't give a fuck when other men look at her. I mean ice cold detachment. The only thing you should be doing is showing her with YOUR eyes that YOU dig her. Additionally compliment her on her bodily qualities and outfits. It's the insecurity and the fact you might bring it up with her that she should be more modest that could plant the idea in her head of, "Oh he thinks I'm a whore because of my outfit, and that he can control me and tell me what to do! Well fuck him now I want to flirt with other guys, or cheat if he becomes too much of a dick." Guess what happens if she does fulfill that? Nothing, you can't control what she does. You just walk and move on to the next girl.

If you want to do what I've always done, be blunt. If you're not an assertive person it can be hard. But just straight up saying your busy (true or not) works if they ask you to go out, or come over, or whatever. Probably but I wouldn't recommend it. Keep your head straight. Fuck buddy relationships rarely last longer than a month or two in my experience. One of the persons involved will ALWAYS catch feelings. It seems to be some kind of law of the universe. I guess two narcissistic sociopaths could probably pull it off. Just be honest about your intentions. Explicitly say you aren't looking for anything right now, and when they try to convince you just keep it up. People don't usually get the message the first time.

Well alternatively you could try doing a form of "pick-up" for making platonic male and female friends to fill that void in you. Instead of the relationships which typically are "given" to you or just happen because of family or co-workers being in your life. Go out of your way to create new relationships in your life. It's this kind of effort that will help remedy what you're feeling.

Have you sat with that neediness feeling before and really looked at it? Do you know what it is, where it came from, and where it started?

Practicing "pick-up" and trying to get with other women when you're married is cheating. So unless you want to divorce and strand your child you can't do this. Do you just want to get better at TALKING to other women? What's your goal exactly?

We are living in the peak age of materialism, gluttony, and hedonism. This is the perfect example of it. It's flashy, but ultimately hollow. Don't get sucked into it. This kind of thing doesn't facilitate or lead to happiness. I mean if you're really that interested you can try it. By all means go ahead. Just don't be surprised by the results.

Ben isn't a malicious sociopath. He just lacks the imagination to view things from the perspective of someone struggling. He has the silly Libertarian view that everything can be chalked up to personal choice regardless of the environment one is in. It just comes from a place of obvious bias because he's probably never had to overcome any significant obstacles in his life, therefore he never developed the ability to truly identify or understand them. He has traveled a lot for his work but it has been from a nested and privileged position. I highly doubt he's actually spent time in a truly impoverished area or talked directly and personally to really unfortunate people without a camera tainting the conversation. He just lacks life experience and it shows.

What do you mean specifically "the people are going to stop him"? Are you suggesting we have security guards outside every public restroom like some sort of bathroom police that will need proof of someones transition? Or vigilante justice? I'm a JP fan. I own every one of his books. I used the language because it was pertinent. Don't be so eager to jump to put me in a box with every leftist position because of a disagreement on a single issue. This is exactly why discussion doesn't get anywhere these days with everything being so polarized. You say "anybody" but you don't really mean that. What you really mean is yourself. And you know it. Don't worry I don't need to convince you just the people on the sidelines who get to see the stupidity exposed and then come to their own conclusions.

I'm Canadian. I haven't ever voted for Justin Trudeau but I'm happy he's our PM during this time. There has been competent and decisive leadership during this pandemic. There may be a lot of things you can pick at him for like any politician he is no angel, but you can't deny he at least with him and his party there is a positive vision for this country with some integrity behind it. Canada would have been fucked with Andrew Scheer and the Conservatives in power right now.

lol *facedesk* A sign on the door, no matter WHAT it says about who is aloud in or not isn't going to be the straw that breaks the camels back. A malicious predator that wants to go into a bathroom to spy on some women or some kids isn't going to stop to have a moral reflection on what some sign says and if they should enter or not, so the content of what the symbols represent is irrelevant. They are going to completely ignore it and commit the crime regardless, because they are way past the point of such considerations. It's these kind of idiotic and semantic conservative talking points masqueraded as "morality" that just needlessly puts up roadblocks to marginalized groups of people getting the rights they need to feel equal in society. It's the same kind of dumb fuck arguments that are made to support criminalizing drug use and other obvious liberties people should have.

So sad seeing so many of these videos of people praying and begging not to die before anything even escalates.

It's the opposite dude, men do that. Women may have initial impressions, but an ugly troll a women wouldn't fuck at first sight could have a kick ass personality that makes her emotionally high will change her mind. Men are shallower and won't fuck someone less attractive than them with a great personality. Unless they are desperate.

My girlfriend and I split the costs of everything evenly at the end of every month. We decide together if there should be any discrepancies or if certain things are gifts. Anytime she wants to argue about the costs I remind her she's a feminist so if she wants equality this is what it means LOL. Anyways no not anymore. I think guys being the designated provider is now an antiquated stupid way of viewing the world. Couples should get decide together independently based off of their own incomes and roles they want to fill of who is the primary provider, if there even is one. Without any external social or cultural pressures about how men "should" make more money. This is a sexist idea that is thankfully finally dying.

Yes most girls do like assholes, because they don't know what's good for them. They are naive, hopeful romantics. Fortunately most usually wise up later on though after years of being abused and treated like trash. The really sad sight is seeing older women in their 30's, 40's who drift from place to place in the world, usually with a child at their side. Never ever get in a relationship with a single mother by the way, under any circumstances. There is never a larger possible red flag than someone with a kid. It means either their overall judgment is absolutely terrible (choosing an awful partner who left them with a kid), or it means they themselves were so awful a great partner left lol.

People are pushing back against the "All Lives Matter" crap because of what it is, a protest against a protest. The kind of people that say, "but yeah ALL lives matter! How can you say just black lives matter that's racist!" don't actually care about minorities or the suffering that any group goes through (unless it ended up being their own of course). They never have. It's never even been in their periphery. They weren't fighting or protesting for ANYBODY before this. It's the perfect example of subconscious/closeted racism. Think about it, black people can't even have their own protest about police brutality because some white idiots will think, "oh the blacks are getting all uppity again. Well since I'm annoying and I can't be blatantly racist like a southerner. I'm going to be a smart ass and hold up a sign to make THEM look racist!" lol.

20 minutes give or take, just make sure to do some foreplay and other positions first to build up the energy. (Don't forget lube or whatever you need to keep the friction low).

What should shock you is that it's not just "like". It actually is.

Think of missionary but then move yourself into a more of a push-up position with a sharper top down angle. The difficulty of doing that as the man will add a lot of intensity to the thrusts, and will turn her on even more. It's not just the technique you're doing but how she perceives it as well which will make her cum. Works every time. Have fun.

Leo mentioned the movie "Lord of War" in recent SD Red video. Was a good movie from what I remember so I went back to watch it again. There is a scene near the end of the movie with a quote that encapsulates toxic Stage Orange perfectly. The main character Yurie and his wife Eva are arguing after she finally discovers that he sells arms for a living. As the conversation heats up Yurie shouts; "There is NOTHING illegal about what I do!" Eva responds, "I don't care if it's legal, it's wrong!" This represents the epitome of rationalization that an unhealthy Orange persona will create. They will cleverly look for all loop holes they can find, and bend and stretch the rules as much as possible without (hopefully) breaking them. They are aware of the exploitation and collateral damage of their actions to a degree, but as long as they benefit and are far enough removed from the chain of causation then it's A OK in their book. "Strategic selfishness" let's call it. Is this spot on @Leo Gura?

Yes I'd really recommend you move to a more stable colder climate, not to mention all the other safety and economic perks. Israel is a decently developed country but it's in the middle of an area that is going to get strained heavily from impeding global warming (there is no stopping it, period). The region and those around it are going to experience ever increasing migratory waves in the coming years that will make the Syrian refugee crisis look like nothing. People don't realize a lot of those refugees were forced to flee their country because of lack of basic infrastructure caused not just by civil unrest but strains on water and food resources from climate change. Some places in the world and specifically in that area are already approaching unlivable temperatures in the spring/summer seasons which can last ip to more than half the year. And the heat is accelerating not steadily going up. Look at Basra, Iraq for example. https://www.timeanddate.com/weather/iraq/basra/ext Average temperatures approach and break nearly 50C. You're young and don't have a family of your own yet I'm assuming, so you have time. I'd really recommend saving up some money right now and working on your English, then when the time is right get the hell of there. 30-40 years from now most of that region won't be habitable unless you're staying inside for 95% of your waking hours. Not really much of a life to live without being able to go outside.

Just block him. Have you seen what he looked like before he changed his profile lol? He's a neo-woke spiritual troller with random synapses firing in his brain. As soon as you feel disconnects in a conversation where it doesn't feel like you're really talking to another person, just save your time and ignore it.

If having to wear a mask is tyranny, then I'm at least glad these kinds of people weren't born in Iran or the DRC. They would have a real hard time.

Is the pursuit of immortality (or as close to it as possible) in the form of cloning or uploading of consciousness to a computer the ultimate form of Ego/Selfishness/Fear for humans or any living thing? I can't think of a better example, because from the perspective of the ego trying to accomplish this, there is such a piercing focus on the selfishness of it that there are blinders on to literally everything else around it. I guess you could say becoming a "God" like Zeus or something would be better, but I'm talking about things that could realistically happen in our world. Curious to hear some thoughts on this, cheers!

Hah. Like clockwork.

If Ned Flanders is pure Blue @Leo Gura then there is nothing wrong with Blue! Ned Flanders is a dang diddily great guy!