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? My post in this thread was about men who would date single mothers.

@Eren Eeager Maybe you have low self esteem. Perhaps you give too much authority to other people to have better answers for things than yourself. Stay open minded and listen to people, just don't take them as seriously as you have been. You'll make yourself naturally inoculated from gaslighting this way. Even if you end up holding wrong positions on things that's ok, as long as you are always trying to grow those will correct themselves. Having faith in YOU YOURSELF is the most important first thing to do

Fate is nonsense. The universe is just "ISing"

I'd never date a single mother for me personally. I was just using immature redpill/pick-up lingo to flip the scenario being suggested upside down to show that people can find happiness in relationships with other people who already have kids. People need to start dropping the childish "Alpha, chad, beta, cuck" language and start treating people as human beings.

You answered it yourself friend

Straw man? Blyat! Communism is great comrade!

A real CHAD would get with the single mother and not care that she already has kids, because they are so successful they can pay for them AND also the future kids he has with her. He will also win over the other mans kids to his side with his great charm and fathering skills Checkmate Redpillers

I wouldn't ignore them. I would confront them. If you think he's at a point he can receive it well bring it up in a mature setting. Also strongly consider going to a sex therapist either alone or together if necessary. They might be able to help you through this. It does sound like this to a degree, but that is up to you and your values. This is a radical option and should be a last resort. A suggestion like this is very tricky and can spoil a relationship to end instantly. It could be, this kind of depends on you and your past. Do you have a volatile history of getting hurt or possibly hurting others? Did those relationships actually fulfill and grow you or were they hollow? Do you think it's time you "settle" and ground yourself a bit more? Sit down to be honest with yourself, analyze your flaws, cravings, bias'. Consider everything I said, contemplate, and wait 2-3 weeks to move through your thoughts and feelings. It usually takes such time to come to better clarity. I'll say this. It sounds like you've got a good thing, but you're a bit torn with yourself over going backwards to the past. I would try to understand and get in touch with those things about yourself first. Observe yourself and try to eradicate all the selfish thoughts and feelings you may or may not have. Then think about how you want to approach the conversation with him. It's important you're brutally honest. If you really love each other and there is a bright future perhaps this is something to work on. It IS possible for him to get better at sex and maybe exercise or groom himself better in order to be more sexually attractive. Most men while taking a hit to their insecurity at first will gladly look to work on themselves for their woman. It sounds like he is already the type of guy to be willing to do that. If all these options fail you have to consider finding someone new. If you can't comfortably have a sexual relationship he is basically just an extremely good friend. I wish you all the best @Clarity808

Reading into it too much, she probably just picked it up somewhere and is having fun using it. If you're really curious just ask her casually why she's saying it

Just for the sake of a thought experiment let's say all these critiques are true, it still doesn't change the fact someone is sitting there following Leo around trying to debunk and expose him because they disagree about some things. It's probably done to countless other people as well. That's the problem with critiques, reviewers, judges - Even if you end up being right, it's still such a bitter and toxic way to be oriented with the world. Like go create something positive for people. Trying to tear stuff down is an inherently negative game and a wasteful distraction from reaching your full potential. It's the intellectual equivalent of scalping/pawn shops basically, they literally leech off the creations and works of other people. It's a sad way to live.

This is actually more to do with her and how she reacts. As long as you prefaced your criticism in a mature, nice way then you did your job. Couples should be able to point things out to each other once in a while so they can improve, because they want the best for each other. It becomes toxic when it's constant nagging or a one way street. If you notice it's still bugging her and she's being self conscious just reassure her like @DaneV said. Tell her it's not a big deal and it doesn't change your opinion of her at all it's just something you noticed, that's all.

of what haha

The evil and corruption in China will collapse the harder it tries to grip to power. With a population of billions of people and those people getting access to better technology, connection with the larger world from the internet, education, and material wealth they will inevitably turn on their government. It's simply a matter of time. The idea that China is going to be a menacing totalitarian nightmare that's going to take over the world is laughable. Not that you're saying that with this thread, it's just a paranoid attitude I see becoming pretty rampant.

LOL I actually hate most people. I'm a massive introvert. Not truly hate, of course. Just hyperbole.

Nobody actually said that here, notice how your mind came up with a thought which could be a reflection of an attitude you might have. When someone > it means she likes you and is giving you an opportunity. Seize it. Women love it when you do that.

Next time you see her, you ask her out @Willie.

This emote is triggering my anxiety

This is me as of today. Are my eyes more green or blue? I've always thought they were steel, but people usually say blue.

The situation you just posted sounds a little confusing, but if I'm judging it based on what I just read this is one of those times you just "nope" the fuck outa there. I wouldn't see her ever again. No sex is worth those kind of games or drama. She obviously has stuff to work through, so let her do it alone.

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Take a few melatonin pills, drink some peppermint tea, and put on some meditation music.

Honestly I think you can come up with literally ANY opinion on ANY food and then confirm your opinion by finding supporting research for why it's good or bad online. There is an endless amount of bogus science out there. It's impossible to know what's actually true. The best you can do is try and cross reference a bunch of sources, and experiment. Remember everyone's body is unique, and reacts different to different kinds of food. What might be healthy for one person could be poison for another. Don't think a scientist, nutritionist, or someone like Leo can ever prescribe what food will be healthy or unhealthy for you. If you want to find out if coffee is good for your health or not. YOU need to actually drink coffee yourself, and then compare it to how you feel when you don't drink coffee. No article, video, or research paper will ever be able do that for you.

I'm really sorry for your suffering. I don't really know what's going on exactly for you because you didn't say, have you been to a specialist or therapist to dive deeply into what might be the root of it? If you have did that help?

It is possible, if that guy himself believes in that limiting possibility. Everyone is perfect for someone. Nobody is perfect for everyone.

If you're careful about what you buy, and only buy things that are absolutely necessary or make you really happy, spending that money actually becomes ENJOYABLE. For example I just moved into my first full apartment where I'm completely alone. I've spent about 2.5K furnishing and for other household things, and on a few fun things for myself. I don't even have a job either right now! Usually this would make me anxiety ridden, but I know the quality of my life will improve and that I'm gonna use this stuff down the road. If you have what you need, there is simply no reason to be fearful. The only time fear should come in is when you are actually in a dangerous situation of poverty, because then it's useful and that fear will motivate you to get out of it. If you're living comfortably that fear is useless and just makes you suffer for no reason.