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I guess I will inaugurate this new section with one of my favorite clips ever What is your favorite cartoon of all time? Futurama for me all the way.

I don't understand what you're asking, being fuck buddies is already an agreement of no commitment. So you can't really cheat on each other.

In my opinion the only time you should really consider staying in a relationship with a partner who cheated is if you're married and/or already have children. Take some couples therapy and work it out, as kids without stable parents or raised by one parents usually turn out messed up. Otherwise if a partner cheats I'm dipping, 100% non-negotiable boundary for me. If they got pregnant from someone else that's even worse, I'd make them get a paternity test. Not paying a bloody penny for someone else's kid. I don't think this is harsh at all.

Yea you don't have to be outright toxic about it, but you can keep teasing her and see where it leads. I did this a lot in online dating many years ago as I was trying to get experience. I would push every interaction as far as I possibly could to get practice and learn what works/what doesn't.

If she was really interested she would be hiding the fact she sells her body for money, until she brings it up in the relationship later. (Not a moral judgement btw if people want to do that they are free). Her business strategy is to fake interest and prey on female adoration.

I mean really just block/ignore/move on as there is nothing really to gain from this, she is a sex worker and just wanted to bait her next client. If you want to practice persistence though your only real play here is to pull her leg and neg her into getting laid. I would advise just staying away though, probably has STDs or is crazy.

Tell her your fuck is so good she should be paying you.

You answered your own question in your post.

School, work, friends, day game, online dating, even bars. Anything is better than clubs.

Then stop going to clubs. You are looking for fresh water fish in a salt water ocean.

lol

Whenever you get ghosted it's a good thing (though it certainly doesn't feel good), it means you dodged a bullet. People who ghost are usually emotionally underdeveloped/immature. All the women I've known who ghost are usually fuckin nuts.

If you aren't attracted to her, and didn't want to have sex. You did the right thing. There is nothing more to analyze or understand about the situation. Go find someone you're attracted to.

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Alright no more of this. Forget about each other and move on with your days, don't message each other either. Locking this journal, it appears OP has closed it anyways.

Most Americans are too stupid, apathetic, or dogmatically unwilling to make any meaningful change. This insanity is deeply baked into the culture. The shootings will stop when they run out of ammo, or you know, kids to shoot. Guns can't be banned or controlled effectively because Conservatives cry, so the simple solution would be to have 1-2 cops doing some sort of duty shift at schools, which would act as a heavy deterrent for the majority of these shooters. But can't even do that either because having cops at schools is "racist/scary/authoritarian" according to Liberals. So here we are.

No it's not very common in my experience.

You have to realize most women aren't that confident themselves, they aren't really encouraged to be and are usually culturally conditioned to be timid and feminine. So you don't necessarily have to be oozing yourself to a James Bond degree, just have enough or more than them and they'll see that. It's only the "hottest/highest quality" women who will shit test you and be very keen, to be able to "smell" confidence like you said. They have to get good at this because they need to sort through the tons of guys hounding them.

Loba please stop spam reporting. Also other users reading this, please stop posting in her journal or warning points will be handed out (1 per post).

Women are generally much more social/collective. They want to protect each other, but at the same time they want to hold each other back so that the collective can be maintained. It's perceived as a threat to that collective if one of the members "branches out" on her own. Men on the other hand are more individualist. They still operate in groups, but if a member starts doing things outside of it or transcends the hierarchy it's not taken as a serious threat. In fact men will encourage each other to achieve individual success. If a guy says they are leaving the group to pursue a girl they'll all say, "go get em!" We are animals and these are animal dynamics at play here. A single male moving around a bar or a club to find and choose a female from a group is analogous to a lion stalking and hunting a gazelle from a herd. Except instead of killing and eating them they just want to have sex

Huh? Yea of course, like an hour before you go to make sure you don't travel for no reason if they do end up cancelling last minute. I won't leave my house unless I get a confirmation message from them, that's just practical thinking.

Just some food for thought; The singer Adele got scorned in the media for losing extra weight and getting herself in better shape. If that doesn't ring a few alarm bells, well...

There isn't really much of any attraction to "lose" if you haven't even been on a date yet. Maybe text her the night before saying you're excited for tomorrow, or start some sort of interesting conversation or share a story that you'll finish when you meet in person to keep their interest. The real killer is texting too much and burning them out before they even meet you. If they agreed to go on a date and plans are made to be somewhere, it's unlikely they'll cancel. I've been on probably 100+ dates by now over the years, I can't recall a single time a girl has cancelled a date on me. Perhaps I'm just lucky idk.