Roy
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You are not in a place of wisdom or clarity to see that it won't. It may feel good in the heat of the moment, but you will reap what you sow later in ways you aren't aware of right now. I'm telling you it won't because I want you to be ahead of the curve and not needlessly suffer like a dumb fuck.
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First of all you care too much what other people - particularly women, think of you. Stop that. Don't outsource your perception and self-esteem and make yourself so vulnerable. You need to take responsibility for the ways you're causing your own suffering. Second, you won't heal by releasing your anger on the world. Venting onto others/hurting them won't make you feel any better, that's an illusion. The idea of justice is an ego game made from thin air. So make something else from thin air. Use that energy and motivation you feel inside you and direct it towards something productive. Getting back on your feet and finding work again is an obvious place to start.
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Live your life. Focus on hobbies and other things. Time heals all. Cry when you need to, don't resist it so much. Meeting and sleeping with new girls will also help. You'll realize that there are plenty of people out there that can make you feel good. No reason to get hung up on a single person out of millions.
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I guess I'll just post my profile pic in higher quality non-jpeg form lol. I'm due for 1 good picture a decade, this is it until 2033 !
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There are plenty of options for therapy. You don't need to get one that can prescribe you drugs. Just having a professional to talk to and work through your issues can be enough, and it is usually quite affordable. If you aren't making legitimate progress on your own (after months/years on an issue) it's an indicator you need help and there isn't any shame in getting it. Having the right people in your life to pry you out of your rut and put you back on the tracks is crucial.
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Says the Las Vegas/California native . You wouldn't last two weeks where I grew up!
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Why is EVERY generic Youtube cynic/skeptic bro some early 20's dipshit who hasn't accomplished anything in life, but somehow give off the impression they know everything ? They all have the same sarcastic, passive aggressive cadence in their voice too. As well as having this disarming charm that they could be your friend, but God forbid you ever hear what they say behind your back. The worst kind of rat. I swear this criticizing random people and bitching about culture shtick is the easiest grift you can do online. All you need is a decent mic and clever gamer tag and you could get 200K subs in less than a year. All your content is already made for you by millions of people out in the world trying to create something of this life (whether it's "good" or not). Also I didn't want to say it at the time, but I think enough time has passed. From what I read there wasn't any publicly available proof that that certain person committed suicide, unless they disclosed some evidence privately that I wasn't aware of. It all coincidently happened around the time Connor Murphy was having his psychedelic induced mental breakdown and hardcore trolling this forum and harassing Leo with videos. Connor literally said, "I am going to fake my own death". Then a short time later the suicide drama happened on this forum. I'm not one for conspiracy but that is just my theory. I'm completely open to that not being the case though.
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@onacloudynight It sounds like you need to take a break from relationships for a bit anyways. Consider this an unfortunate by necessary thing, "everything happens for a reason" as they say. When I broke up with my first serious girlfriend that I was living with, it sucked REALLY bad for about a week, and the future seemed impossible. But it turned out to be the best thing that ever happened to me. You can become "dominate" and "strong" without becoming a total dude bro douche. You have to develop that part of yourself in your own way, not just copying an unhealthy archetype out of resentment because of a bad experience. You'll just invite more trouble that way. Watch out for that rabbit hole. Also don't resent or waste energy hating your parents or how they raised you. They were just unconscious of their own flaws and doing the best they could. Take a step back into solitude for a short time and let your emotions pass, then start building healthy habits like going to the gym and asserting yourself in the world a bit more, like creating something, or pushing for a promotion/position of leadership at your work or school. Don't take what happened too seriously and think it's all about you. Remember other people can be and are traumatized too. Appreciate that. You're gonna be alright, Rome wasn't build in a day.
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Why do you care if other people reward scum? You should only care about what YOU are doing. Stop worrying about what other people are doing and trying to control them, you are only holding yourself back and causing the symptoms of why you feel exactly the way you do.
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Half the population are women dude. It's not that complicated, stop overthinking it lol.
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If she doesn't backpedal in every way possible you have to dump her mate. This is only something that should be brought up in a really long term (2 years+) relationship that is committed and stable, and something to explore together as partners. Sounds like she needs to go "find herself" lol.
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Excuse me while I go fap to the thought of Cersei dominating me in her torture room.
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Stop getting sucked into stupid culture games and worrying about so much. Live the way you want to, you're gonna die.
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Curiosity killed the cat.
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Demonstrate to him that you are a responsible person, and his daughter is in good hands. He will ease up. I would mostly learn to live with it though, it's not your business to interfere in your partners familial relationships unless it becomes toxic/unsafe. Parents are just natural protective, it's normal. One of the least chill things you can do is try to change or manipulate a girls connection with her family. Women HATE that shit. Be very careful about walking in that minefield. You don't want to make her upsetti spaghetti.
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Girls are built to be attracted to value (personal preference/objective value), for whatever reason the kind of value she wanted she didn't see in you, or discover it from your short conversation. Bad timing, bad interaction, w/e. However she must have valued your confidence and lack of insecurity, because as soon as she saw you move onto another girl it triggered some attraction in her. It's also just hypergamy. Women want to feel like they are being chosen from your many options, if they know you don't have a lot of options then counter-intuitively they won't feel special because they don't have anyone else to be compared too. Every woman of course wants to feel special. If you make her feel special, she is yours.
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It's evolution baby!!!
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Roy replied to onacloudynight's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
You aren't going to go from being a liar to telling the truth all the time in a single day. Don't have such silly expectations. You gain more awareness a little bit at a time and catch yourself more often. Until you become more truthful, or at least as truthful as you want to be. -
Follow their wallet and you have a pretty good idea lol.
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It sounds nice in theory, but in reality we'll get bored and stir crazy. We need a good war once in a while! Think of it like rearranging furniture! ..... except instead of furniture it's human civilization.
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"Man discovers what it's like to have a woman in his life, more at 11." But seriously dude did you not know what she was gonna be like before you moved in together? How long have you been in a relationship? You should have a pretty good idea of their habits and lifestyle from all the weekends you spent over at each others place before moving in.
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I couldn't get through the first 5 minutes without getting too stressed out from the stupidity. As I get older I'm starting to resent democracy more and more - the fact a complete morons vote counts the same as mine or yours. What a fantastic system! I see mouth breathers on the road daily in cars and as pedestrians, utterly disregard traffic laws even a toddler can understand, because they think they are the center of the universe and their time is more important. It's actually amazing to me civilization has held together and gotten this far.
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Andrew Tate puts the CELL in inCELL. Hope you don't get bored in there! There's no women so he should love his stay with hairy Romanian thugs. They'll be watching and waiting for him to drop the soap like IIIllllllIII
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Gotta do what you gotta do! I've always been athletic and thin so weight loss is not my problem - it's putting on healthy weight. I can eat like trash, or eat healthy. Exercise or no exercise. My body stays in this stupidly consistent range.
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So close but yet so far
