Roy
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That's your body relaxing and releasing built up tension. It's a good thing. Sex is supposed to be therapeutic and enjoyable. It sounds like you're resisting that a bit, I mean at least from what I'm discerning from this short post. Why would you need to have energy after sex? Sit there and cuddle with your girl, they want that. You don't have to go back to work doing chores 20 minutes after cumming lol. That's a very normal Ego thing. We are men and our reptilians brains are wired to fuck everything we can and spread our genes everywhere. I see at least 20 women a day I'd like to bed wrestle with, but I don't act on it. Of course this isn't sustainable and or stable for raising families, so we can't satisfy that urge. It's selfishness that you have to watch out for within yourself. That's where the work is. To identify those selfish thoughts and feelings and manage them appropriately. Is it healthy or unhealthy per se to want sex with different people? That's really up to what kind of lifestyle you want to live. Observe how it makes other people feel though. If you are having sex with women and discarding them from your life quickly, their reactions should tell you all you need to know. Is your personal gain coming at the expense of others or your environment? What are you offering back in return? That's your criteria.
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Don't rob yourself of a potential life where things can get better. You have no idea how things could be, they can be better than you are able to imagine right now. Bad times are temporary, it doesn't mean you will have a bad life. If you are thinking of harming yourself in the immediate future or have plans please contact a suicide hotline for wherever you're from; https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_suicide_crisis_lines If you need to talk or vent PM me, I think I could understand I've been where you're at.
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Rapid fire suggestions; - Ask your roommate (politely or aggressively) to stop being loud / - Ask them to go to their girlfriend/boyfriends place more often - Getting better headphones and crank the volume on music or other stuff - Ask your roommate to let you know when they'll get it on so you have an idea when to go for a walk or go out - Spend more time away from home - Accept your jealousy and integrate it, find out the deep questions of why you are feeling jealous and address them - Don't accept your jealousy, be petty and sabotage your roommates funky time - Beat them at their own game. Bring people home to shag so THEY get jealous - Suggest that you can join them - Suck it up buttercup it's only 3 months and you're outa there Mix or match any of these as you deem worth trying. Results not guaranteed, advice provided without warranty™.
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Andrew Tate dissing Eminem?????............. lol we are going to get a biblical dismantling of Taint from Em within a few months.
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Don't get back together. It's not healthy and you will regret it. Good luck, but don't say you weren't warned.
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You should never get back together with someone unless you have children, which is the only exception where I think you're obliged to make it work. Going back to an ex is way more unhealthy than coping with new people, which I agree can also not be great. It shows a lack of self-respect, neediness, and is literally the opposite of personal development. You grow by moving forward in life and absorbing new experiences, and learning lessons from old experiences. Trying to re-spark a relationship (that ended for a reason) is under bellied with desperation, and a pathetic acceptance of not being able to change as a person. It's like throwing in the towel. As I said, that would be the one golden principle of relationships I would urge people to follow. Never go backwards. As for meeting and sleeping with new people - be sensible. If you are still in emotional turmoil don't do it. Wait at least 1-3 months before trying to get intimate with new people.
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Myself because I'm entehllagant
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An unrestrained ego is like a cancer. It will multiply, assimilate, and consume until it cuts the very branch it's sitting on. It's pure stupidity and complete lack of awareness of sustainability. One of the most simple staples of intelligence is ability to appreciate long time horizons, and preparation. Of course someone like Tate was doomed to crash and burn, he was on top of the world and had everything he wanted like you said. But he just didn't think far enough ahead that this explosion in attention means more eyes to look for his vulnerabilities, the vulnerability in this case being a woman beating sex trafficking degenerate
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You are not in a place of wisdom or clarity to see that it won't. It may feel good in the heat of the moment, but you will reap what you sow later in ways you aren't aware of right now. I'm telling you it won't because I want you to be ahead of the curve and not needlessly suffer like a dumb fuck.
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First of all you care too much what other people - particularly women, think of you. Stop that. Don't outsource your perception and self-esteem and make yourself so vulnerable. You need to take responsibility for the ways you're causing your own suffering. Second, you won't heal by releasing your anger on the world. Venting onto others/hurting them won't make you feel any better, that's an illusion. The idea of justice is an ego game made from thin air. So make something else from thin air. Use that energy and motivation you feel inside you and direct it towards something productive. Getting back on your feet and finding work again is an obvious place to start.
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Live your life. Focus on hobbies and other things. Time heals all. Cry when you need to, don't resist it so much. Meeting and sleeping with new girls will also help. You'll realize that there are plenty of people out there that can make you feel good. No reason to get hung up on a single person out of millions.
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I guess I'll just post my profile pic in higher quality non-jpeg form lol. I'm due for 1 good picture a decade, this is it until 2033 !
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There are plenty of options for therapy. You don't need to get one that can prescribe you drugs. Just having a professional to talk to and work through your issues can be enough, and it is usually quite affordable. If you aren't making legitimate progress on your own (after months/years on an issue) it's an indicator you need help and there isn't any shame in getting it. Having the right people in your life to pry you out of your rut and put you back on the tracks is crucial.
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Says the Las Vegas/California native . You wouldn't last two weeks where I grew up!
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Why is EVERY generic Youtube cynic/skeptic bro some early 20's dipshit who hasn't accomplished anything in life, but somehow give off the impression they know everything ? They all have the same sarcastic, passive aggressive cadence in their voice too. As well as having this disarming charm that they could be your friend, but God forbid you ever hear what they say behind your back. The worst kind of rat. I swear this criticizing random people and bitching about culture shtick is the easiest grift you can do online. All you need is a decent mic and clever gamer tag and you could get 200K subs in less than a year. All your content is already made for you by millions of people out in the world trying to create something of this life (whether it's "good" or not). Also I didn't want to say it at the time, but I think enough time has passed. From what I read there wasn't any publicly available proof that that certain person committed suicide, unless they disclosed some evidence privately that I wasn't aware of. It all coincidently happened around the time Connor Murphy was having his psychedelic induced mental breakdown and hardcore trolling this forum and harassing Leo with videos. Connor literally said, "I am going to fake my own death". Then a short time later the suicide drama happened on this forum. I'm not one for conspiracy but that is just my theory. I'm completely open to that not being the case though.
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@onacloudynight It sounds like you need to take a break from relationships for a bit anyways. Consider this an unfortunate by necessary thing, "everything happens for a reason" as they say. When I broke up with my first serious girlfriend that I was living with, it sucked REALLY bad for about a week, and the future seemed impossible. But it turned out to be the best thing that ever happened to me. You can become "dominate" and "strong" without becoming a total dude bro douche. You have to develop that part of yourself in your own way, not just copying an unhealthy archetype out of resentment because of a bad experience. You'll just invite more trouble that way. Watch out for that rabbit hole. Also don't resent or waste energy hating your parents or how they raised you. They were just unconscious of their own flaws and doing the best they could. Take a step back into solitude for a short time and let your emotions pass, then start building healthy habits like going to the gym and asserting yourself in the world a bit more, like creating something, or pushing for a promotion/position of leadership at your work or school. Don't take what happened too seriously and think it's all about you. Remember other people can be and are traumatized too. Appreciate that. You're gonna be alright, Rome wasn't build in a day.
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Why do you care if other people reward scum? You should only care about what YOU are doing. Stop worrying about what other people are doing and trying to control them, you are only holding yourself back and causing the symptoms of why you feel exactly the way you do.
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Half the population are women dude. It's not that complicated, stop overthinking it lol.
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If she doesn't backpedal in every way possible you have to dump her mate. This is only something that should be brought up in a really long term (2 years+) relationship that is committed and stable, and something to explore together as partners. Sounds like she needs to go "find herself" lol.
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Excuse me while I go fap to the thought of Cersei dominating me in her torture room.
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Stop getting sucked into stupid culture games and worrying about so much. Live the way you want to, you're gonna die.
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Curiosity killed the cat.
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Demonstrate to him that you are a responsible person, and his daughter is in good hands. He will ease up. I would mostly learn to live with it though, it's not your business to interfere in your partners familial relationships unless it becomes toxic/unsafe. Parents are just natural protective, it's normal. One of the least chill things you can do is try to change or manipulate a girls connection with her family. Women HATE that shit. Be very careful about walking in that minefield. You don't want to make her upsetti spaghetti.
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Girls are built to be attracted to value (personal preference/objective value), for whatever reason the kind of value she wanted she didn't see in you, or discover it from your short conversation. Bad timing, bad interaction, w/e. However she must have valued your confidence and lack of insecurity, because as soon as she saw you move onto another girl it triggered some attraction in her. It's also just hypergamy. Women want to feel like they are being chosen from your many options, if they know you don't have a lot of options then counter-intuitively they won't feel special because they don't have anyone else to be compared too. Every woman of course wants to feel special. If you make her feel special, she is yours.
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It's evolution baby!!!