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Cold approach is one of the harder if not THE hardest ways to get results and get laid. You have limited opportunity to communicate your personality, your value, and build rapport with women because of the circumstances of approaching women while they are working or walking on the street going about their day. Even if you get good and witty, most of them aren't going to care about some guy asking for their number. You can talk for 10 minutes but really you're still just a stranger that showed up randomly and it won't click for most of them to be bothered to want to invest in a date. The only thing that's good about cold approach is it's free and it builds a lot of confidence and experience. You don't have to be going to school, at your job, or paying to be in a club or bar. I'd recommend expanding the places you are meeting women so you get more bang (results) for your buck (investment). Online dating and parties with friend groups are good places to cut to the chase and make things happen if that is what you are after. You might get laid 1/100 cold approaches which could take a huge amount of hours, while you might get laid 1/10 parties for less than half the time spent. When I used to party as a young adult I could find some girl to fuck in about 25% of the parties I went to if I really wanted it, and my game has never even been that good. I was a shy introvert then and still am now. You just have to stay focused and remind yourself not to overthink. This isn't rocket science, there are billions of humans. If that many people can get results then of course you can to.

Now you're speaking my language!

We are biological computers.

The ethics are rooted in the guilt and empathy of seeing a reaction from something when attacked or damaged. When something is resisting pain and death, and recoils in an attempt to survive - whether it's biological or mechanical it falls within the foundation of that ethical framework. We understand the urge to survive because we want to as well. We are running on "programming" just like these robots would, we've just been doing it longer that's the only difference.

Stability and the ability to build a life together that is otherwise very difficult alone is probably the core reason why long term monogamous relationships are most superior. Being able to have someone to share experiences with and having good company all the time is just *chefs kiss*. If you click with that person it's like having a best friend and a lover at the same time, a 2 for 1 deal. Most relationships I see the couples aren't actually friends that have things in common with each other and share interests, they are just romantic partners that are "with" each other but not together. Going in between short relationships is interesting but also exhausting and chaotic, and most importantly difficult.

Nearly all cryptos are fraudulent scams and look how fast they grew . A lot of people still haven't caught on, even after literally billions upon billions of dollars has been stolen and laundered.

Perhaps the language of aggression is a path of communication that she could understand. Ask her to set some time aside for a serious conversation, one that you "will only have once". Threaten that you will not ever give her money again when she needs it, and she will not ever be able to live with you unless is she is deathly ill. Tell her you are extremely serious and to get her shit together because she is doing this to herself and it's not your responsibility. Either that or she finds some poor man to put it all on to deal with lol. Sometimes people, usually of low development (sorry to say but you said it yourself) only learn things the hard way and from a difficult painful lesson. Perhaps in the grand scheme her being evicted or something else terrible could be the shock to the system she needs to change. If you keep enabling her emotionally and financially that might never happen though, and then it will REALLY be too late. As hard and as out of character for you as it may be, you may need to act extremely cold and harsh about this. When nothing else works sometimes you need to pick "The Nuclear Option".

Men make up most of the internet and online spaces, because women are actually out in the world living life

Going from communism to capitalism (which is what China did) is like the economic equivalent of going from severe bulimia to following a bodybuilding regiment. "Oh look at all this weight I've gained! Things are working now!" Yeah.......... no shit. Of course the gap they made up was huge because they started in such a bad place.\ What's scarier still is if history went differently and they were a capitalist country from the start we would probably all be speaking Mandarin on this forum right now instead of English lol.

In before we get lazy and plug AI into the grid and ask it to "solve world hunger and climate change", then it nukes everything because nobody can be hungry if they're dead and the world would be instantly colder for decades to come with a global nuclear winter. If we obsess about efficiency too much this could be a real outcome.

Is this the longest thread in the history of the forum? Damn.

She belongs to the streets. Find yourself a higher quality woman. Remember the hotter they are the crazier/more difficult they are. So you want to aim for a sweet spot where you are physically attracted but not so infatuated and blinded from their looks that you will put up with shitty behavior like this. A high quality person won't tolerate abuse and bullshit from people. If they don't adjust their behavior quickly during the early phases of getting to know each other, they probably never will. Remember people will only do what you allow them to get away with. I NEVER cowtow to women. I make it explicitly clear and I won't let them abuse my hospitality or make compromises to get some snookie. So all my relationships that form go great because I'm setting a good foundation. There needs to be the implicit threat that you will leave in a moments notice and cut them out of your life completely if they start manipulating you. It needs to be an apparent thought in the back of their mind so they aren't tempted to play games. Because believe me these "toxic brats" exist and will pull your strings for money/favors/etc. if you don't keep yourself principled. The problem is most guys are drooling for any pussy at all so badly they will let women walk all over their dignity to get it.

I saw a dude at the climbing gym tonight who was a 4/5 max, not very handsome at all to say the least. The girl that was with him? A solid 9. She had literally the greatest smile you could ever ask for, like Angels in a lab designed her face. What this guy lacked in looks he made up for confidence and seemed like a happy person to be around from that short time I saw him. It goes to show you just how important energy and vibes are.

You don't get to choose your family, but you do get to choose the life you want to live.

It's not their fault they just have TFS - Terminal Fonzie Syndrome. They just want to look cool and not be told what to do. It's the same reason they'll probably be making an early donation to the worm feed salvation army for not taking their heart medication or exercising because the doctor told them it's a good idea. "HAH! Can you believe that nerd wants me to take these tic-tacs? I'm as strong as an ox!" The literal black death could make a comeback and sweep across the Earth in weeks, and they would be bitching about kids being lazy or something because they can't get a big mac at the drive thru. Meanwhile car sized balls of tumbleweed are blowing across empty streets. In an alternate universe I unironically think if the government told them NOT to get vaccinated and take precautions they would do the opposite. "SEE! The gubberment doesn't care about our health! We gotta do everything ourselves." Proceeds to clear the shelves of boxes of masks and hand sanitizer at the supermarket.

Golden response lol.

lol it's not a funeral. If anything being asked out during a boring work day would probably be the highlight of her day and something out of the blue. She'd be more inclined to say yes. Who cares? Neither of you are going to live there forever I hope. You haven't even asked her out and are fantasizing a reality where you're broken up already. You are too in your head about this. Looks is just a surface thing. How does her voice sound? Do you like her mannerisms? What energy does she give off? Stop feeling guilty about being attracted to her and that you can't have her. Of course you can, fucking go for it. Ask her out and don't give a shit how she feels about it. See this ^^^? That's the little voice in your head that is stopping you from living life while it is passing every second.

That's the problem. Love, sex, intimacy and connection isn't that logical at all, it's mostly emotions and intangible psychological/spiritual things. The materialism part mostly comes later, like "should I settle and move in with this person when there career path is X?" You can't reduce people down to a number. I'm ONLY using the rating system because it's effective and colloquial communication in our modern culture. I would never actually take a rating for someone seriously. and you shouldn't either. It's just a hip fire reductionist way to generally say how hot/attractive you think someone is on the surface. It's all personal preference too. For me for example any girl/woman I meet that is in good shape and exercises is pretty much automatically a 7 regardless of anything else because I it's rare and I value health quite highly. Realistically you are only going to be able to maintain a relationship with someone around your development level (as a guy). Women are more ruthless about cutting men out for someone higher because they have options given to them. While men have to create their options. Even if you get really good at game and manage to score a 9 who is hot, great career, great personality for a night out and bring her to your place to get laid - if YOU aren't roughly a 9 yourself it will only be a few weeks before she sees through your façade and leaves. Occasionally you will get lucky, but not on average. People usually want to keep others in their life who are around the same level of status/wealth/morality/ambition etc. or higher so they get brought up. Notice how when you start making big improvements to your life you'll start feeling you have to cut others out who are dragging you down, or they will try to stop you from changing for the better. Incels, blackpillers, and other losers who have a terrible attitude towards life, aren't fun to be around, and spend all their time on the internet are going to have extremely limited options. Basically others who are just like them, and unfortunately for them the baseline for most females is much higher. It's not a coincidence the most toxic forums, ideologies, movements and groups on the internet are 90%+ men lol. I'm going on a lot of tangents but I hope you found some of this post helpful to answer your question.

So you are saying "ugly" guys and blackpillers are justified in their toxic whining that they can't get any sex or girlfriends even with pick-up? But what you are missing is most pick-up communities and dating advice is given out for guys (with no natural game that need help) striving and shooting WAY above their grade and aiming for 8's+. It's overshooting what is consistently realistic because they want to inspire and sell (desperate) guys on the ideas of doing well with beautiful women. Which is fine. However... Have you ever heard of the phrase "Stay in your lane." ? All the incels, blackpillers, redpillers, MGTOW, and all the other internet idiots I've seen fawn over girls that are way out of their league even with pick-up. If you are an ugly 2/10 you can work your ass off and dream all you want, but at some point you have to be realistic and settle for what you can get. Otherwise you're just going to be ice skating uphill and waste a lot of time on false promises from people trying to sell you a fantasy. I guess there is some truth to their qualms after all, but there is also wisdom in understanding your lot in life and doing the best with what you're given. Instead of just wasting your life complaining that it's hopeless and if you can't get someone way better than you, you'd rather have nothing. Of course you can have something, the idea that you are completely doomed is total bullshit. If you are ugly you'll probably have to end up with someone else ugly. It may be really harsh but that's reality. Too fucking bad. Stay in your lane. I've loved basketball my entire life, but I knew I wasn't going to waste my time filling my head with delusions about making the NBA.......... because I'm not 6'6" and 230 pounds. It was never in the cards.

It's absolutely not. If he got into a relationship with this person with expectations and certain personal preferences, and then the other person knew about them and chose to continue the relationship only to spontaneously reveal new information in opposition or at the very least not in line with those preferences. It's like pulling the rug on the entire framework. It's a violation to the foundation of trust and communication you have when you build a relationship with someone. Let's not do this virtue signaling progressive crap. We are better than that here and not that lazy. Let's say a guy gets into a relationship with a transwoman, hoping to get married and start a family one day, and the transwoman (deliberately or not) doesn't disclose their original identity/the guy never figures it out. The guy unknowingly continues and invests in the relationship for years only for the topic of children to come up. A brick wall would hit as the transwoman would be forced to reveal they cannot create biological children, it would shatter the entire perception of the relationship. The guy would likely be forced to end the relationship and have wasted years of his life. Would the guy be "transphobic" in this example? Any sane and fair person would say of course not. That kind of dishonestly and confusion is an attack on the integrity of the relationship. It would also be highly disrespectful to guilt or force the man into an alternative solution like adoption or changing his fundamental desire for biological children. I see a lot of progressives trying to gaslight people into their twisted idea of tolerance instead of advocating for emotional integrity and good communication. It's kind of disgusting to be honest.

How is she your girlfriend and yet you didn't know how she chooses to (sexually) identify herself lol? That should have been something you figured out or been disclosed in the first day or two of knowing each other. Unless she is coming out and making up all this stuff now.

If sex happens fast it could just mean there is strong attraction or the guy is good at game, not necessarily that the woman is being "easy". I don't lose respect for women for who want to have sex in early stages of dating. I only lose respect if they do it chronically and discard men/abuse the power of their pussy and use it to extract things from guys like money/favors. A few of my past girlfriends had sex with me on the first date, but it's because sparks were flying. It wouldn't really change my level of interest whether or not they would force us to wait together. In fact it made me feel pretty good I was able to crack the safe so quickly, because each of them has had minimal and like less than 5 sexual partners in their lifetimes. If anything if a girl is making you jump through hoops, playing games, and wait too long it's kind of annoying and can make us less interested. There are literally thousands of women out there, why wouldn't I just go find someone else? The juice has to be worth the squeeze.

If you've already slept with her and your worried that within 10 days of being out of your sight she'll be banging another guy, you obviously left a weak impression on her or the lay was bad from her POV. Or it was just a drunken one off/she might be a slut (sorry to say it like that but it's the truth). The majority of women aren't that disloyal. If you managed to get her to sleep with you and she likes you (believe her), chances are she isn't going to fuck around on you. Women bond/attach A LOT more than men from sex and it makes them more connected. Your play here is to be stone-cold and have a "I don't give a shit" attitude. Which means not blowing up her phone and prying about when the next instant she is free.

Just meet once a week or 2 weeks. It keeps things exciting and builds anticipation. If you are begging to hang out every opportunity you have free time it's like you don't have a life and that isn't very attractive.

Such blatant corruption of basic logic doesn't even merit a response.