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It's ok to be frustrated with others but don't let it consume or distract you. Remember this is personal development. Don't expect or rely on other people to be on the same path or level as you. You'll be often dissappointed.

Ngl this post was triggering me a bit but then when you referred to vegans as fallout ghouls I spit laughing and realized you have a good sense of humor

I became a couch and then a TV when I took Salvia. Your boundaries (lines) are different. The TV was interesting. I felt lights and electricity flowing through the core of my being. My purpose to send images and visions to my surface for others to see.

Every diversion from Male-Female is wrong in the most basic sense, but we aren't on a stranded spaceship trying to rekindle human civilization somewhere now are we?

Learn to love the feeling of sobriety and what it does for you, more than the feeling of being on alcohol.

How do so many of these successful people end up with scandals and getting caught so often for degenerate behavior ? You'd figure people would be more careful when they have so much to lose. I'm just starting to get some traction and build my reputation and I'm already paranoid and careful about who I hang out with and what I do because I don't want to jeopardize what I'm building for myself. It just baffles me how people can seem so intelligent and skilled to excel at some career but be completely void of rationality at the same time.

1st, 2nd, and 3rd bases aren't quite a home run, are they?

You may be outgrowing her and have to leave her eventually. It happens man. If you really love her you will let her walk her own path at her pace, instead of trying to force her to "catch up". That dynamic isn't healthy and will erode the relationship, as resentment inevitably builds.' Generally you want to be with someone close to your own level of development with roughly same values and framework. Think of a relationship like an elastic. You can only stretch it in so many directions for so long before it snaps, and even if it never snaps - being under constant tension isn't good either.

Stop enabling her to do this bullshit. Cut her off completely. Text her and say, "I had some good times with you, but you're a flake and I only have time for serious people in my life. Goodbye." Then never talk to her again and find someone else.

Why would anyone spend ANY money on ANY product like this in todays day and age? With enough determination and some hours to spare you can piece together enough of the mountains of free information out there to learn basically anything you can imagine. Watching enough videos, spending time in communities, and reading will give you enough of a framework to understand what any person has to say behind some offensively overpriced course. These kind of things are only serious transformative for 2/100 of the people that attend. People seriously have to ask themselves is it worth spending that much hard earned money on what is basically a lottery ticket and feeling buzzed for a weekend. I guess hope is a good sell.

Women just need to be victims of their emotions less often when it comes to dating and everything will go fine for them. If they thought a little more practically and logically they'd be happier.

You ought to be doing meditation for meditations sake and the other benefits it can bring. If you're doing anything "for" girls you've already lost. 9/10 of them will smell it or find any act or habit you are keeping up to please them or get access between their legs. My dad always told me never to be dishonest or play games with women because they ALWAYS find out the truth lol, sooner or later. Girls want to fall for the guy who is being authentic and himself as a man. They don't want a mannequin with a scared little boy underneath the hollow façade. Work out and get ripped because YOU want to be healthy and accomplish physical feats. Get the promotion and make the dough so you can afford a lifestyle YOU like. Learn hobbies that are fun and enjoyable because YOU are interested in them, not because someone else might be. The more selfish and self-centered you are with your framework, the more girls will come to you. This is where many guys struggle with women in life. The more you do for them, the less they will respect you. They will say they want to be treated like queens, but react negatively when it happens. Literally do the opposite. It's ass-backwards but that's how it goes sometimes in life.

lol. There isn't even areas that are yellow in the most developed countries. Most of humanity in uncivilized unconscious swine.

For me I get a better sleep if I go to bed sore and exhausted from the day, I ease into it very quickly and don't wake up during the night or early as much. I also feel better waking up because I'm going from sore to mostly recovered. If I go to bed not very tired or sore, I am restless. I also get up a ton during the night because my body isn't craving sleep as much. You should challenge yourself physically every day in some way, like a workout, a sport, or cardio. It's less than an hour investment and is really good for you. Also investing in some better quality material bedding and pillows is key. You might think you are comfortable now, but there are probably new things you haven't tried.

Relationships where you don't have at least moderate to strong overlapping values/frameworks/worldviews/beliefs are fundamentally doomed. You can try and cover it up, or ignore it all you want, but sooner or later it will bite you in the ass. You can't force the other person to develop or change such critical junctures in their mind, or you will sabotage things trying to change them or yourself to make the relationship work. Out of all the relationships I've been in and seen, I can't remember a single exception. It's almost a requirement. The fact this is a concern at all should be ringing some alarm bells. By all means enjoy the relationship while it lasts, but in my opinion you are kicking a dangerous can down the road. I would break up with someone like this, and never get into a (serious) relationship with them in the first place in the future.

If you liked her it's worth a shot, and there is only one way to find out. However also don't be surprised if she acts a little cold or confused, since you didn't seize the moment and get her number to stay in touch. Women always wonder, "Why didn't he ask for this or that, I gave him all the signals?" You're just another dude out there in the ether right now lol, she probably won't even remember the interaction unless you left a strong impression. You gotta get a number and show intent. If you do it right her view of you should be that you are a busy successful man out there fucking the world, and you find her important enough that she is worth your time to get to know and make her apart of your awesome life. That's the idea, anyways.

Sleeping with what averages out to a new girl every 2 months is tremendous results. You are selling yourself short. The overwhelming majority of men can't even get sex with a different woman yearly. It sounds like you've already put a decent amount of work into that area of your life and should let it coast for a while. You are being too hard on yourself and have a flawed perspective. I would focus on other areas of your life and other reasons you might be unhappy with rejection. You don't have to club/pick-up every weekend. Just put a few hours into dating here and there.

Do whatever the hell you want at any age, this is all temporary anyways. There are really only two ages; Alive or Dead

Clearly you don't like her as much as you think you do. Otherwise you be content and wouldn't be questioning the framework of monogamy. You have buyers remorse now that you're invested, and/or your little ego's selfishness is bubbling up to your thoughts.

Keep it at 18 year old girls and up, don't want to get in trouble going for jailbait. You will get 100% of the flak if something goes wrong, and girls that age are unpredictable and borderline insane. The "I am on the pill but not actually" kind of insane. Alternatively you could just do other fun things and make friends who do adolescent stuff like play video games and sports or whatever. You know that stuff never really ends right? We are all just little kids in big people bodies.

You gotta test drive the car before you buy it.

I saw this band (July Talk) live for the 2nd time a few weeks ago, even more amazing live.

Yes they have the most primal kind of ego, where they only care for their own survival and that of the "pack".

You will have next to no chance to return personal use items like that, unless it's still sealed in the factory packaging. Perhaps give it a try, it might be more relaxing stress relieving than any back massage

Absolutely not. She was a tumor to the life force of this place. You have no idea the amount of disruption both open and behind the scenes she caused to the forum and the moderation work that needed to happen to deal with it. Literally hundreds of incidents over the course of 3 years. I'm not kidding, hundreds. As harsh as it is, it's the truth - She is a mentally unstable, manipulative, completely out of control individual that needs medication and professional help. Her tenure here should serve as the golden example of why this place nor the things talked about here act as a legitimate replacement for an actual mental health clinic that can fix illnesses. That if you want to make real changes in your personal development and life, you need to take serious action and not just repeat platitudes and ideas you hear from others, read on the internet, or watch in some video. No idea no matter how inspiring or insightful, will make a difference in your life if you don't make the rubber hit the road. In Preety's case, she refuses to even put the tires on...