JosephKnecht

Rejection is the opposite of acceptance. You are afraid to be rejected because you want to be accepted. To get over your fear of rejection from girls, you must accept yourself. The easiest way to get over the fear of rejection is to get rejected by hundreds of girls. After a while, your fears will dissolve and rejections will seem funny to you because you understand that you don't need girls' acceptance if you fully accepted yourself. Better now than never. Go for it... Good luck.

Great advice. @StarStruck Now I can see why you were star-struck to marry her. Open marriage counts.

The only drawback of sleeping with many beautiful women is that you eventually lose the ability for deep attachment to a single woman. The only drawback of having a relationship with a single woman is that you would fantasize about other beautiful women. Like everything in life, the answer is somewhere in the middle. You have to decide what is that middle for you.

@StarStruck @Preety_India You guys sound like you are married. Why don't you resolve your problems without involving all of us?

Your intuition is telling you to doubt. And that is OK. You shouldn't believe the words of others. Find the answers for yourself.

Yes, he is ZOOMED into your POV right now. From His perspective, you are just another person.

Enlightenment is much easier to understand than women. The guy was enlightened, but for the love of GOD, he couldn't understand women. Don't hold it against him. Nobody is Perfect. If you read his books, you can intuit that his words come from a genuine place. Why shouldn't he be compensated for his writing? He helped a lot of people.

I enjoy the Portal by Eric Weinstein.

He went into isolation for more than 20 years. Yes, he wrote books, but how else was he to transfer knowledge? Yes, you must have a scale as a reference to different states of enlightenment before you are able to transcend it. The guy really liked women. I don't blame him nor judge him.

In one of his books, David Hawkins describes how he cured his eyesight only with belief. If I remember correctly, it took him 6 weeks of sheer suffering through nearsightedness to eventually fix his eye-sight completely. The impossible is possible only to those who try.

You assumed attraction is only based on physical appearance. I have seen some beautiful models became instantly unattractive the moment they open their mouths.

You can start with that demographic. See how it goes... If it doesn't work well, change the demographic. You can start by asking Leo to make him a new website.

My face. Half in light, half in darkness

Depends. Do you want to enjoy your fruits or you would rather let the insects enjoy them? Depends. Do you want to be the predator that eats the chicken or you would rather let another predator eat them? You are free to do as you wish. You will be defined by your actions, but you are free to choose any action you wish.

Why limit your demographic to only self-help? Typically people who are into self-help will help themselves to develop their own website. Widen your target demographic if you want to make money. But in general web development is a good skill to have.

The list for women is fairly straightforward. Be Attractive Don't be unattractive.

What did you see?

@7thLetter You thought you were a G, (slang for gangster) but the universe is trying to tell you that you are more than just a G.

It is possible to realize that all love comes from within yourself. Love is not something that needs to be chased outside because it is within us all. Once you realize and embody this fact, you no longer need the validation of others. Work on yourself and try to find the love that is within.

The problem is that the "I" is composed of both the Ego and the Spirit. Initially, you are unable to differentiate between the two because they are both parts of your sense of self. Try to think metaphysically about what differentiates the two. What rules the Ego and what rules the Spirit? Once you are able to draw the line between the two, you will know if the Ego is setting up traps for itself or the Spirit is trying to outgrow the Ego.

I think we use different definitions of regress. Regress in my mind is falling back to a previous less developed state.

Obviously you should put more energy into reading David Hawkins. I will tell you a story... There was once a man who didn't know how to fish. He liked fish, but for the love of God, he didn't know how to catch them. So he started reading books on how to catch fish. He learned about their movements, he learned what the fish liked and what they didn't like. Only when he knew the nature of the fish, he thought that he will finally be able to catch them. After reading and learning, one day he decided to go to the lake and start fishing for himself. Fishing was hard. The man had to have the right bait to catch the fish. He had to know the right ponds in which the had to catch the fish he liked. One day, with skill but and more luck he was able to catch a nice fish. The fish was pretty, but when he looked closer, the man noticed that the fish has been caught many times before. At first sight, the fish was special, but upon looking closely there wasn't anything special about the fish. The man got lucky, but he still felt unlucky. One day, the man read on some forum that he shouldn't throw baits to catch fish. Catching fish one by one is too much hassle. Instead, he should throw large nets into the deep blue water and catch much fish at once. The fish he wouldn't like, he should release, and the fish he liked, he should keep. Only when the fisherman had a lot of options, he was able to find the right fish.

The girls don't pick up guys but rather they express interest in more subtle ways. If a girl is interested she can smile at you, preen her hair while looking at you, ask you for a lighter even if she doesn't smoke, etc. If you a are smart guy you will pick up on their signals and pick them up. If you are not smart, well, girls don't like dumb guys. PS. I live in the Netherlands.

Here is a thought... At stage Yellow, most people become aware of Spiral Dynamics. If the majority of people become aware of Spiral Dynamics, they will become part of a predictable system and will attempt to change it. Therefore, Spiral Dynamics will become obsolete if the majority is Yellow.

@Thewritersunion Coral includes all previous stages of development, but it can't be expressed through language. That is why there wasn't a single word spoken in the video. Open Your Eyes. The ending is very powerful. @Gerhard Your perception is your interpretation.