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Read walking on eggshells and I hate you don’t leave me get ifs therapy to heal your codependency and attachment issues

CBT addresses the symptoms, not the cause. Do something that addresses the cause alongside it.

Get ifs therapy

They aren’t saying the solution is screaming, they are making him scream to demonstrate his blockages then trying to release them.

Yes. There are a lot of men who are very socially isolated so if a girl is nice to them sometimes they get clingy and think she likes them so girls will be icy with new men at first. If you wear a wedding ring or drop that you’re in a relationship it will reduce a little.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NzeXRDUk1ds https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lOae2s8JOUE https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7L2MzmE8cwo https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JPCU03Dp8Zw

This is ridiculous dude. He has no example of someone telling him the guy committed assault nor proof anything occured. The only thing he had was him grabbing his gfs ass when he was 13, that was years ago and she gave him oral right after, no one would legally consider that she took it as a non consensual act when she went on to do a consensual sex act directly after. He just said his gf said she’s heard him do stuff to “other girls”. What stuff? Asking for nudes? That isn’t illegal. Even the claim he slept with someone 5 years younger wouldn’t mean anything because it is covered in Romeo and Juliet laws. Maybe if girls themselves emailed the university with multiple ones corroborating and giving specific accusations that are actual clear crimes, but at this point they won’t take seriously a anonymous guy saying he’s heard some women he isn’t naming who he claims make vague claims about this guy.

That was years ago, it is far too long ago to prosecute and won’t have any evidence. Also no way cops will take it seriously when she says she gave him oral right after.

Based on your story, he didn’t commit any crime that can be prosecuted. I don’t really know what you can do besides tell her to ditch her friend to get away from him, and tell him to leave her alone if he keeps bothering her.

Try doing nofap and stop using porn

Are you codependent?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o7xG6VF0mzU https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-p8ZggaGDrM

Try “break through pain” and “break through difficult emotions” by Shinzen Young

Having a conversation with the other side and mildly critiquing yours alone is not yellow

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xANjrN3rVvE https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N6ElQ9y5qQ0

That only promises basic competency. There is absolutely a difference in a person personal ability and experience. The gist of your original comment was not understanding the difference between equal opportunity and equal outcome. Equal opportunity makes logical sense because it allows everyone a chance to demonstrate their ability so the best is chosen. It should not about “representation”, it should be about the practical reality of what gets results. Would a poorer person have less of a chance and less resources and possibly end up doing worse? Yes, but that doesn’t mean they should get some boost in hiring or acceptance for “equality”, that doesn’t make them any more competent which is what matters.

If you were going to heart surgery would you rather the surgeon be the one with the best education and grades or the surgeon who had worse grades and performance but got in for compensation for his poorer upbringing?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t6NAC6ajkH8 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FbQr70rfwQg

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-hpjM_NNFQw https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FPg9qYMjE3Q

Get ifs therapy

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m1S03yRaJwc

I’ve often seen guys from western countries like the USA talk about moving abroad to meet women and saying it is so much better. I was extremely skeptical of this and thought they were just quitters. Now a days they are even attacked and called passport bros. I was completely wrong. I have briefly attempted dating in foreign countries and talked / learned from many other men who’ve done the same. The difference is night and day, it’s almost insane how much easier and better the results are if you know what you are doing. This is a controversial topic and many will even be offended by it, but you should at least consider it for yourself if it interests you. These are the main reasons I believe (these are generalities, I’m not saying everyone is like this, just general trends): -More quality women, in western countries, especially America, there is a huge excess of lower quality women. A large segment is overweight or obese (something like 40-70% in the USA), many have hard leftist or feminist beliefs that seep into their lives in strange ways (getting easily offended, resentment of men especially higher status men they are interested in). Whether the actual ideas are correct or not it is very difficult to reason with someone like this who has a perpetual victim status and views you at least subconsciously as an oppressor, and huge entitlement due to all the men constantly buying stuff for them, paying for dates, etc. The women in many of these countries even seem to have deeper interests and attention spans. In Russia a lot of the time I’d ask the women what they are reading and it was some huge dense book, meanwhile in America a lot of the women seem like they just scroll through Instagram all day and always reflexively check their phone. -Way less competition. In western countries especially the USA there is a huge excess of high status men, any one of these wealthy, famous, or handsome guys could be seeing 5-20 women at a time. The result is many more men competing over the minority of women. A lot of the women also become jaded after spending time with so many of the attractive men who never commit to them. Meanwhile in many foreign countries a lot of the male population is so poor they work all day and have no time to date, joined a gang or something, or got murdered from crime or in some war. -Different culture. Cultural differences can make dating easier or harder depending on your goals, but a lot of foreign countries have a better dating culture in many ways. In the more traditional countries hooking up and casual dating is harder, but women are way more feminine, pleasant and polite. In the more open countries getting a long term relationship can be harder, but women are way easier to talk to and hook up with. Countries I’ve heard or been too that are strongly recommended: Russia, Ukraine, Columbia, Brazil, Thailand, Philippines, Switzerland Haven’t been there myself to confirm but I’ve heard a lot of women in Finland like brown / Arabic men because they are “exotic”. Countries I’ve heard bad things about regarding dating (not that you can’t date there, just that it might be harder not easier): Japan, India, China Some warnings: -if you get absolutely no results in your home country, you should probably try improving yourself there first rather than using it as an easy escape, you may have bigger issues a move can’t change. At the same time, the approach that works in one country doesn’t necessarily work in others. See this Todd V video on his experience with American vs European women and what they respond too for an example. -aim for a second tier city, the big tourist spots and first tier cities have more attractive women but are way harder because all the high status men and tourists go there as well -be prepared for many logistical challenges such as language barriers and safety. RSD Madison was drugged, robbed, and r*ped while visiting Columbia. He gives some safety advice here. -you will always be a foreigner. Most men will ultimately not do this not just because of the effort required, but because it will always be harder to relate to someone you grew up in an entirely different culture from. some more resources on the topic: https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-and-where-move-overseas-single-man https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SY2gQTAkmcc https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uBCQ4JigZIQ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MmvR7LEZINQ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q0hrhLt4-YU

You are generalizing any man who struggled with dating and demonize any man who goes abroad to date. It’s still a generalization. And this is not bypassing anything, it’s solving various problems. Other issues that cause men to struggle are they don’t fit the expected standards of what women in their area want (some of which are impossible or unhealthy and shouldn’t be met) , and there is a lack of quality women around them. Changing locations is not bypassing this, it is solving it. This is based on the assumption every guy who goes abroad cannot get results in their home country, not true, I get results just fine, but I get better results elsewhere, why would I ignore this and just accept a worse situation based on some notion of it’s supposed to be that way? At the moment I’m dating casually and haven’t met someone I want something long term with. The fact that it works at all is the problem and a major reason why I wanted to leave.