Raze

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  1. TITLE: Robert Putnam book talk on "Our Kids: The American Dream in Crisis"
  2. Read “when I say no I feel guilty“ by Manuel J Smith
  3. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V3miuaOWsj8 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eit85FAj4wg https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7p3-MJJm_R0 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BVqANXVTLN4 http://happinessbeyondthought.blogspot.com/2012/05/surrendering-i-letting-go-of-suffering.html https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MU1Rp184IT4
  4. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ulu6TOu-gqs
  5. Read recovery by Russell Brand Join AA get ifs therapy https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X_dawQLA-mA https://www.shinzen.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/12/art_urges.pdf
  6. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-5NFgN-djJQ
  7. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yb5zpo5WDG4 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LG53Vxum0as https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pIXJDCeZvPI https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ixxMyjejn38
  8. No one is saying that they have to be perfect. However we are getting conformation they barely even tried or funded anti child exploitation measures and were more interested in shadow banning and banning conservatives. Now they are self righteously attacking Musk for removing the restrictions on conservatives when they themselves let a far more serious problem slip beneath them.
  9. Tell them to get ifs therapy
  10. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SOVHOpjw4JY https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FPg9qYMjE3Q
  11. It’s not a random news article, it links to a paper. I can tell how creeped out they are by how many thousands of women throw themselves at him. Ultimately if older men dating younger women was really “creepy”, then it wouldn’t happen because women would be creeped out, yet it still occurs. No, I didn’t say women want to be catcalled. But given how many billions of dollars anti aging products sell for women, yes most women do prefer to look younger. I also never said all women.
  12. What you are saying makes no sense. If this was the case the only couples that would have abuse would be age gapped ones, but that isn’t true. People can and are taken advantage of at any age. Young women do want love, but they don’t want love from just anyone. They are attracted to specific traits such as status, resources, confidence, etc. which older men tend to have more of. Not a myth, it’s well established scientifically. https://www.eurekalert.org/news-releases/849423 Women are clearly jealous because they are constantly flipping out about it even when there is no indication anyone is being abused. See the anger at Leonardo DiCaprio only dating younger women. Once again, people can also be abused when dating someone of the same age bracket, so saying that abuse can happen doesn’t matter in this conversation, it can happen regardless of the age of the couple. You are legally an adult at 18 and the female brain is pretty much done developing at 25. Being misogynistic or entitled as a man doesn’t necessarily make it harder to date women, if it did than we wouldn’t have issues of women ending up in relationships with bad men. You can be misogynistic or entitled as a man and still have an easier time dating than a man who isn’t if you have traits that attract women, in the same way a woman with a bad personality who is very beautiful woman can have an easier time dating than one who has a good personality but isn’t as pretty. No I’m not Indian but I’ve never seen any evidence Indian men are “non datable” in the US because they are misogynistic or entitled. If anything Indian men who struggle dating, struggle because they are too nice and shy due to their traditional upbringing. I didn’t say it only applies to women.
  13. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OYYSR3Qni8o
  14. No not really. While some men are abusive it’s not really an age gap thing as abuse and cat calls can happen at any age, it isn’t just in age gap relationships. You can be taken advantage of at any age. The simple fact is on average men value youth and beauty so they go for younger women, while women value money, status, and personality so they go for older men. Plus male brains mature slower than female brains so an older man would actually relate more to a younger woman on average. The idea that all men who want younger women are predators is pretty clearly cope coming from older women who can’t handle the reality that their sexual market value has declined. In other countries were even more extreme age gaps are normalized you don’t see as many of these complaints because there aren’t as many single older women. In the past the complaint was men who wanted younger women were “immature” and can’t handle a mature woman, but now it seems the stereotype is escalating from immature to predatory, but not really based in any logic either way. In addition from my experience another reason why men go for younger women is because a lot of older women are bitter and actually have worse personalities and more entitlement due to all the attention they got when they were younger and insecurity from aging. Plenty of men would actually be fine with a woman their age or older if they weren’t constantly running into that.
  15. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yb5zpo5WDG4 https://www.shinzen.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/12/art_urges.pdf
  16. YES. Because like I already SAID, women and men are different and value different things. This is why on average in couples men are older and women are younger. You don’t even have an argument, you just accuse everyone who disagrees with you of being low value or immature. You are just wrong, I already showed you the data. You can have whatever preference you want, but that doesn’t change the reality of what makes someone more or less valuable on the sexual marketplace. Looks like I struck a nerve. Sorry but flipping out at me will not change reality. Also this is not very emotionally mature of you.
  17. Like I already said, you seem to think “high value” means anyone who agrees with you, “low value” means anyone who disagrees with you. It doesn’t. You do not understand the terms. Andrew Tate has fame, wealth, and a good physique, these make him high value because these are highly valuable traits. This is why he has a public dating history of many attractive women. It’s not up for debate, if someone is dating multiple very attractive women at one time they are “high value”, because if they weren’t they would not be able to attract said women. I know, those women are “low value” because they like someone you don’t like lol. There are plenty of men who are more emotionally mature than Tate, yet they do not date as many attractive women. Why is this? Because it’s not a “high value trait”. Its painfully clear you are insecure at the thought that men are attracted to younger women and have a bizarre warped belief that “value” now means anyone who dates older women. It doesn’t, any man dating an older woman even if he likes her for her personality would prefer she be younger. The data is clear.