Vido

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  1. Happy birthday! To me
  2. @Leo Gura what is that part of you that is making you self reflect. I notice during intense suffering or emotional whirlpool, it's hard to even go couple layers deep into the problem
  3. I watched the video, it was like watching google images or ratings of the movie and then judging the movie as if you saw it. in that video, he mentioned how you claim yourself as God. However, in reality, you said YOU ARE GOD and so am I huge diff
  4. I did, the ending is vey good!
  5. Banger video, however, my deepest takeaway is not even about gaslighting. Edited video: https://youtube.com/clip/UgkxYtwvR3UkB3zx41h8HZMcFG-Cin-EtIW4 At 40:06, he says " I set very strong boundaries with people who come into my life because I have something to live for I have a life purpose I'm working towards. I'm doing important things in the world on my own perception it doesn't matter whether it's true or not that's how I perceive my own life I perceive my own life as the most valuable life on this planet not in some sort of narcissistic sense but because I deeply respect my own life and I see the potential that I have and that I am responsible for actualizing my potential in this world. Nobody else is going to do it for me so if I have some girl or some boss or some of a friend come over and start to use me in order to serve their narcissistic agenda or their selfish agenda there's no way I'm going to allow because I love myself too much to allow that" This kind of masculinity I feel I was lacking because I didn't want to have a worldview that is "nice" but in my heart, this is how I feel but I was scared to embody it. However, watching Leo say this I felt "fuck, this is how I should be living my life as well. Why am I treating my life like I'm a side character in someone else's movie." For me, this is my biggest takeaway, and watching leo kinda own this in a weird way gave me permission to feel this way as well. Thank you Leo. I need to love myself more and for the first time, I equated love to respect.
  6. I read a recent trip report where a person had a beautiful insight on surrender which is just to face your fear. I was wondering what your personal experience with that word is and how you interpret it NOTE: I'M NOT LOOKING FOR OTHER PEOPLE'S DEFINITIONS OR WHAT THE RIGHT DEFINITION IS. So please refrain from sharing hear say definitions. Thank you for understanding
  7. I always kinda run away from fear and then kinda deal with it. But your perspective changes that
  8. I have the one minute clip linked in the past as well so if you want to just check it out
  9. where should a person stop with this work if they want to produce more artistic content like a film or music or something and spend time in that more. Like at any point is the investment in the work to return ration kinda plateaued you feel or like helped? I see that the videos are much clearer now, I just want to know if that was the goal (making art like film, books or music), where should a person niche into in your work
  10. @patricknotstar the last line is actually funny. I actually have similar views to you as well. But I have something called burn money. Like every month, I spend like some money just to spend it. If I don't do that then I will save for couple of months and spend like a huge amount on something else. If you are in America and she's doing 50/50 that's fine IMO, but if you are paying for everything, then set a boundary as to how much money you are comfortable burning.
  11. @Vibes no, I think I remember it being 1000$ at one point. well...what can I say, when money is involved, a lot of things get a bit tainted for people
  12. An non dual teacher who's I discovered from leo book list Very interesting
  13. Yo, I was dumb insecure kid back in 2014. I asked a girl out and she rejected me. When I asked my popular friend who a bit of a narcissist why I got rejected, he pulled out his phone, took a picture of me and showed it to me and said "why would the prettiest girl in class go out with am ugly guy like this" He also said what I was missing is confidence. Then I searched yt and after all the normal yt quick fix bulldogs, I came across a video called "how do be charismatic" from actualized.org Today, I'm in canada doing masters in ai (moved from India), people say I'm charismatic, super social, born with it, funny, etc. Alas, they don't know the price I paid. (Still work to be done tho since I'm not super good with women romantically) Without your work, I would be a guy....I can't even imagine. The most important thing you taught me is to think for myself. So watch out, there is an army of people who actually study reality that you might have to deal with. (Not like the 83% people here just repeating other people's words without any artistic expression of their own. Just poor imitations. Sad.)
  14. Lol, I support leo in this one. You guys are sometimes too soft I feel Or take things on face value without much contemplation.
  15. he must have build a tolerance(taking it often) to it that's why he's able to take large doses. Def. not for your first try or if you haven't taken for a while
  16. Why is visualization such an important pillar in self development and why does it work exactly? How could your visualization have an impact on your body and why is there an impact? I want to understand it in depth
  17. Hey, I love the perspective. Can you rephrase it in a more concrete way? Like something I can relate with my direct experience
  18. I feel the question I have is, when the mind is messing me using images, thoughts, feelings and sensations, what's your process from getting out of that underwater feeling to a more excited one?
  19. @Leo Gura okay thank you! I know which one you are talking about. I have watched it long time back but shall rewatch it
  20. @Leo Gura is there any particular video of yours you suggest to understsnd this? Like the old ones or the new ones?
  21. https://www.facebook.com/reel/730773781653361?mibextid=9drbnH&s=yWDuG2&fs=e