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You could use skool.com. That would be an easy way to get started. Get traffic by promoting it on social media.

Did your ophthalmologist not give you any sort of explanation or recommendations?

The key is to come from a place of relative strength, not weakness. A little bit of loneliness is okay. But don't give away your power. She wants to see you as your magnetic self, not some desperate guy begging for her to like you.

The horror

The same way as when you didn't know that.

It can go both ways. You might have some toxic beliefs here. But also, don't forget that everything we do here is very much extraordinary. This is not ordinary work for ordinary people who want ordinary results. You may just be someone who wants more than ordinary. In which case the real healing here is for you would be to accept that and stop letting people gaslight you into being a normie. Also, you are doing very well for someone who is 18. Be very patient with yourself, this is a long journey.

We do, and we don't. Both are true depending on how you look at it.

@Leo Gura I am interested but I'm curious about the legality of it. How can it be fully legal?

Of course. But most guys are way underperforming on the attractive metric. So focus on that first.

What else have you tried? Music? Massage? Candles? Porn?

Hard to say. If you feel like it's emotional numbing on top of physical, then there might be some trauma for you to explore. You should not be going emotionally numb around attractive women in the bedroom. Your mind should be entering a state of seduction and desire. I'd worry more about that and less about the erection.

If you're full of hate, you got more work to do.

If your social media presence is good and conveys the right qualities, yes. Otherwise you’re better off not having one at all.

Kimmel has been a consistent critic of Trump for a long time now. Not surprised.

You're free to try it your way. I think those who do will be disappointed in the results.

That is highly atypical.

Because having a strong a social circle is highly attractive for women. Especially if you appear to be a leader and people really respect you. You can get away without it. But you’re making things way harder on yourself. For a long-term relationship, it should feel like she is entering your world that you’ve set up. You’ve got friends, family, a good career, a philosophy on life and activities you enjoy. Or if you don’t have those things, then you’re actively working towards them.

Came close to marrying a woman I met through cold approach. A lot of the guys I was going out with at the time also found a long-term partner. It's definitely possible, but it took me a lot of approaches and social circle building. Getting laid is not enough. You can have surprisingly weak chemistry with a woman and still get laid. Quality relationships require more.

That changes things a lot. She would not be doing that unless there was at least still some interest on her end to continue things. Just build a little bit of rapport and then shoot your shot.

I'd say it's unlikely to go anywhere, but it's also pretty low risk. You could take a shot through IG. I'd probably start with commenting on her stories if she posts those, just to get some familiarity going again.

Be careful you don't dream yourself as a misogynist.

It's possible from the perspective of infinite consciousness. But pragmatically you wouldn't know how to do that. The dream just dreams. The ego is not in control.

@MoonLanding Yup. You are dreaming your girlfriend and all her ex boyfriends. You don’t remember doing it because you’re doing it right now! The dream is always in the present. Any past you are thinking of is being imagined right now.

This ^^^. Calling is underrated. Text is too easy to ignore.

I agree, you don't need to take a heavy hand at actively filtering for compliance. I'm not suggesting that. Just be your best self, lead and escalate. The filtering will happen naturally.