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This is true. But in practice, much of our political rhetoric looks like a bunch of bullshit with some facts mixed in.

Right, because you and everyone else values winning and pragmatism over sense-making. If you agree to that, we can move on to discussing the pros and cons of that prioritization. You’ve made some good points in favor.

You definitely have potential. How often are you going out?

There is some truth to that perspective. But it's lacking quite a bit. Another perspective on this is that you will get what you prioritize. If you want sex, you need to prioritize getting sex and be prepared to compete with other guys who can be ruthless. You can't just sit at home and do a bunch of self-improvement.

If you want to engage in manipulation to get your political agenda across, fine. I get it. But you're not going to convince me that truth and deep sense-making is driving this process for most people. The political sphere is filled with bullshitting and pragmatism. And that includes the democrats / leftists.

I agree. Especially if your rival is just going to hurl nonsense at you, there is no point trying to defend it all. That is a trap. And that's the whole issue. No one is prioritizing sense-making. Everyone is prioritizing their particular agenda. Which in your case is protecting your husband, immigrants and your reproductive rights. "Fighting the good fight" in practice ends up looking like extreme degradation of the epistemic commons, political polarization and psychological warfare. Watch the Lincoln Project videos if you haven't. They are essentially pure psychological manipulation, without any attempt at serious political sense-making. Top-tier devilry. And I'm not even saying we shouldn't do it. We are essentially at war, so warfare is appropriate. But for those of us attempting to engage in a higher level of political thinking, I want us to be clear about what is happening and the costs.

Bret Weinstein shares a lot of similarities with Jordan Peterson. Both were involved in deep SD Green academia, had problems, and now seemed to have developed a Green shadow because of that. But Bret combines his conservatism with more conspiracy / anti-establishment / anti-modernism thinking than Peterson. From a developmental psychology POV, it seems like maybe a failure to truly integrate and fully move into SD Yellow.

@PsychedelicEagle I’d be careful. You could easily have oral health problems but just not notice any obvious symptoms. Have you checked for gingivitis?

It sounds like you have been chasing extremely shallow forms of sex. Have you had at least one relationship with strong intimacy and romance?

That is part of it. But like I said, I don’t interpret it as the highest priority. An example of a higher priority purpose might be quality sense-making. You are basically talking about maximizing attention, which is a different goal. And you can’t necessarily assume those goals will work together. They may contradict each other.

Well it's not my forum. But that isn't what I interpret the highest priority goal to be.

It might take some time. But you can get your groove back. Remember that you can potentially bring a lot more to the table as a husband now that you are a bit older. This is a genuine advantage.

You’re feeling this way because you are getting older and it does matter. You don’t have infinite time in your sexual peak. Everyone gets a window and then it closes. So if you spent your 20s being single and playing the field, there can be consequences. That all said, you can date at pretty much any age these days. People get divorced and remarried when they are older all the time. The biggest variable is whether you want biological kids, which obviously has a more strict timeline. Also, lots of people are getting married older these days for financial reasons. So 30 is relatively young still. You have time, but if you really want a strong marriage then I’d say it would be wise to get serious about it.

You're probably right about needing a supermajority to get certain policies passed. But the meta point I'm making still stands: no one gets to monopolize the political process. If that happens to mean sacrificing certain progressive policies, then so be it. As far as TYT and Secular Talk, I think they are a net force for good. The progressive voice deserves representation. And someone has to fight the culture war against Blue / Orange.

Sure, I don’t particularly want the repubs to win either. But also let’s not forget that we want political rivals. We want competition of ideas. We want people who disagree with us. That is democracy. A political monopoly of dems is not ideal. That is my biggest issue with Trump and repubs right now. They want to undermine democracy to enforce their agenda. Which leads to the kind of war Rick Wilson is talking about. Both sides have to be mature enough to allow for things not going their way.

@MarioGabrielJ It’s worth noting that mpox is not an airborne contagion, which is one of the things that made covid so damn tricky to deal with.

Dems are winning.

If there is unspoken calculus I am missing that you want to share, I will listen. And I apologize if I wrongly assumed you ignorant. That’s not fair to you and not a behavior I want to emulate.

I get it. It just bothers me at times because I also understand the cost.

My guess is she is going to want you to stay longer than that. If you're looking to get married and raise kids, lots of travel isn't really compatible with that goal. You need to stay put. So be sure you're clear about what you both want out of this relationship.

It was a test to see if you could explore the topic of exploitation without a social justice bias. I place an emphasis on this because it’s necessary for conscious politics. Very few people can do it.

No, I meant what I said. To put it more broadly: what is the function of exploitation?

If you can thoroughly explain why Elon’s exploitation is necessary or even a good thing, then I will believe you. Until then, it’s going to be hard for me to see you as anything other than just another leftist / SJW.

Oh it's definitely about feelings. And in this case, it's your feelings. Do you actually want to understand feminists? If you do, you will read at least one book by a feminist author in good faith. Which means seeking to learn and not just critique. If you won't do that, this conversation is pointless. You have no interest in engaging in good faith dialogue with feminists, and they will rightly treat you as such.

And then you wonder why feminists don't feel listened to. Or maybe even get triggered sometimes. How do you feel when they dismiss your concerns about false accusations? You are doing the same thing to them.