aurum

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  1. @billiesimon I wanted to wait until I watched the video to response to this. So here's my take. There's nothing to be afraid of. Not because the trends he is pointing out aren't accurate (they mostly are), but because you can easily just follow the steps outlined in the video and you'll be fine. They're not fear mongering. They're telling you the solution right then and there. Follow me on IG at @akourakin and check out my highlights. I've been doing this stuff for over a year, it's simple and really works.
  2. I don’t really think about shit tests. It does happen, but it can make you paranoid if you think there’s all these tests you have to pass. People with good social skills don’t view socializing as a competition or a situation where they need to get approval. It’s just about creating a good vibe. Anyway, the reason she does it is because consciously or unconsciously she is looking to see if you’re really as cool as she think you might be. Being cool = non-reactive, state control, lack of neediness, etc.
  3. @FredFred You don’t know. Try and see.
  4. @Spiral Yeah I can definitely relate to this. My relationship with my family was terrible for a long time, still is in some ways. The biggest thing I’ve found beneficial is having those uncomfortable conversations. Asking the hard questions, really expressing what’s going on with you. It can be brutual but at some point you just got to do it. Awakening is going to bring all that unresolved shit to the surface. Also, a therapist can really help.
  5. @Dareghost Quick tip, try making the offer more win/win. Why should people want to speak with you?
  6. If you actually realized that, you would have escaped from suffering.
  7. @cena655 Yup, just as it should be. Keep working.
  8. @theking00 Yeah that's fairly accurate.
  9. @Beeflamb If we were a cult, you probably wouldn't get very honest answers. What does your intuition tell you?
  10. @Seed Obsession is good, just be obsessed with the right things.
  11. @ExodiaGearCEO Where is the past? Can you touch it? Do you have any proof it even happen beyond your thoughts? It's making you depressed because your thoughts are out of alignment with your true nature. Not because they're true.
  12. @John West Don't "try" to be happy. Let go into happiness. "Trying" implies you don't have it.
  13. That's good, because if you're envious of people who have wealth you're subconsciously telling the universe "I don't have money". So keep that up. However, I'm sure you know from your manifestation books that the first key to bringing something into your life is clarity of desire. You have to let the universe know what you want, or it can't bring it to you. So if you don't think about money and don't really want money, it shouldn't be all that surprising that you're not rolling in cash. You tell the universe "I don't need money" and the universe says "okay". Think about getting fit in the gym. If you really just don't care about getting fit, it will never happen. At some point there has to be a desire which actually prompts you to start hitting the treadmill. So I think your issue is very common with most spiritual people. They keep saying "I don't need money, I don't care about money" and then they obviously end up not having any. The key is the second part of manifestation, which is feeling the emotions that your desire is already here. Practice everyday feeling the gratitude for the money that you don't yet see in your experience. Visualize having it and feeling amazing. Yes you nailed it. Having money is not just about you, it's also about everyone around you who is going to benefit when you move into abundance. Keep that intention. When you want for the whole and not just for yourself, desires come faster. You'll probably like Money: A Love Story by Kate Northrup.
  14. @kingroboto YouTube “Tony robbins priming”. 10/10, will change your life dramatically.
  15. @Hardkill It depends on the girl obviously, but they absolutely get approached. I hear the horror stories all the time from female friends. Take a nightclub as an example. One of the reasons attractive women want to sit in the VIP section is because they won’t have to deal with the hordes of guys groping at them in GA. It’s not that they’re superficial whores, which is how most people view that. But even that isn’t safe, because as soon as she opens up her Instagram she is likely going to get hit with DMs and dick pics. Especially if she has a large following. My assumption is that Hayley Quinn is probably trying to inspire her clients to approach more. These are guys who are already scared to approach, so if you tell that women get approached all the time and often find it creepy, it’s just going to scare them even more. A better belief in that scenario would be that women rarely get approached and enjoy when it happens, therefore allowing you to approach free of guilt. So it really depends on what they guy is struggling with. If he is too aggresive and oblivious to what the girl is experiencing, he needs more empathy. But if he is too scared to do anything, you need to loosen the chains a bit.
  16. @MrEgoless I believe it is possible if you trained for it. I just don't see the point, you don't need to not eat to be healthy.
  17. @XYZ You definitely could start some sort of coaching practice geared towards serving successful people who haven't yet found their happiness. You would have to immerse yourself around people who are successful and network with them if you wanted to pull that off.
  18. As long as you feel it's moving you closer to your vision, it is your purpose. Don't get so hung up on thinking you've got to be saving the world right out the gate. Purpose evolves over time. It sounds like this joint business could move you in a positive direction, so I'd just do that.
  19. @iTommy You have to experiment. I'm always trying new things to see what works and what doesn't. I'd highly recommend looking into bioenergetics.
  20. @Pat Pagano Part of it is how you perceive yourself in the environment. When you perceive that you have social acceptance, your anxiety turns off and the "social butterfly" can come out. Look at your own experience and you'll see this is accurate. Part of it is also physical. Someone with chronic anxiety is running on a low level "fight or flight" response all the time. You need to consistently chill out your system with things like meditation, sauna, deep breathing, etc.
  21. @benny I don't take weekends off but I am doing things every day to keep myself running at a high level. Meditation, sauna, ice baths, exercise, etc.
  22. Sounds like you already know what to do. So why do you need more info?
  23. @Consilience What is your life purpose then?
  24. @Butters No because there’s no difference between animals and people. We sometimes put the suffering of animals higher up because we see them as “innocent”. That they lack awareness and therefore it doesn’t make sense to judge.
  25. @Butters Most people who impacted millions started out as failures. Just focus on learning and growing everyday.