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Sure you could do that.

@LiberatedMonkey Do both. The life purpose course isn't something that should take all of your time.

Cool, can you share what your experience was like more specifically?

Nice! Sounds like a good plan.

@Nathan99 You got it, keep going!

You don’t need drills, it’s everything Leo talks about. Meditation, yoga, self inquiry, psychedelics, contemplation, etc. Actually just understand it. This comes from a high degree of consciousness on your end. A great teacher often knows the thoughts of the student better than the student does. So you know how to put things in a way that they understand. Practice is important here, but again you don’t need formal drills. How about answering questions on this forum? How about creating content on social media? Just start teaching, and you’ll start to notice what works and what doesn’t work.

@brugluiz Practice a lot. You should be going out every single day to work on your skills with women if this is going to be your career. Just like a regular job. Singular focus. Besides that, start getting invovled in local pickup groups in your city. Start your own if you don’t have one. Once you’ve got a good skill set, word will spread. Make your name known. Also, get comfortable with producing content online. Instagram, YouTube, podcast, etc. You gotta get your name out there.

@Ampresus In a school setting, I would mainly put my focus on just making a lot of friends. And not just with the girls, who are the guys that the girls hang out with? Make friends with them.

@josue Keep putting yourself out there and seeing where you might be going wrong. Study female psychology, there’s lot of teachers online who you can find with a quick search. And keep up any spiritual work you might be doing.

I heard that as well. So he’s not perfect, big shocker. I don’t see that as a reason to throw away everything he said. Osho got in way worse shit than that and we still learn from him. Yup just looking at the sun. Maybe you could speed it up, but the gradual increase is so that you don’t hurt yourself. So I would adhere by it.

@non_nothing @luckieluuke Thanks! I doubt the sun is any stronger than what we got here in Miami. I'm not going to say something damaging couldn't happen and that you shouldn't take precautions. I was hesitant at first and went very slowly. I think what tipped the balance for me in terms of feeling safe was that I've just seen too much information in the mainstream health field. The same eye doctors that would probably tell you that the sun would damage your ears are the same ones that would prescribe prescription glasses / contacts, which ultimately weaken the eye and can cause things like myopia. I suggest checking out the work of my friend Dr. Jacob Liberman if you want to understand what I'm talking about. So I basically just said fuck it. Mainstream medical advice is a reflection of the unconsciousness of our society. So I'm going to try something outside the box. Awesome. Can you say specifically what you experienced?

@Leo Gura @Sahil Pandit Thanks guys. Why wait?

@Gabriel Antonio I agree, caution is good. One thing I forget to mention is regular checkups with an optometrist may be a good idea for anyone doing this.

@Shin I know there’s tantra techniques that allow you to move the energy and like transcend into the 5th dimension of enlightenment. But I haven’t figured that one out yet. Your issue could be as simple as that you’re just not having enough sex. If you were getting laid everyday, my guess is you would not have this problem.

You're definitely not a narcissist. I think an even better question presented itself here. Which is why are you terrified to be a narcissist? Who told you it's not okay to be selfish?

@Strikr Put your theory to the test. Just give away all your music, never sell anything and see what happens.

Triggers are there to make us alert to what has not been healed in ourselves. Which means your bully hit some deep unconscious fear or insecurity about yourself. What was it? Accept what you did, don't resist it. Everyone has triggers and it's not your fault. Many of them come from early childhood experiences.

@Dodo Be careful with David Icke. I'm not saying he doesn't have some points, but he also spews a lot of conspiracy nonsense.

@Parki There are lots of people who claim benefits. My belief is that intention is more important than the drug itself.

@Bernardo Carleial Didn’t watch the fight but I heard about what happened. I think it actually provides some really valuable lessons. One of the reasons Khabid said he got pissed was that Connor said a bunch of insulting things about his religion, family, etc. So he completely feels in the right, because he was standing up for his values. And I see a lot of people online who agree with that. The problem is though that Connor was trying to get under Khabid’s skin. He doesn’t care what religion Khabid is, he just wants to provocate him. So in a way, by Khabid losing his cool he actually did exactly what Connor was hoping for. The smart thing for Khabid would have been to just beat Connor, smile, and let the results speak for themselves. Then Connor would just look like some loud mouth idiot who couldn’t back it up. Instead, Khabid could possibily be stripped of his title. And Connor comes out of this looking much prettier because Khabid looks like the asshole that lost his cool. It’s really a shitty situation but I hope Khabid takes the lesson and chooses to grow from it, rather than just getting more bitter and angry. We’ll have to see.

@F A B It’s all about expectations. It may strengthen the attraction she has for you, but attraction is not the only factor in a successful relationship. Most girls are going to consider what you did a form of cheating. So if you’ve set an expectation that you’re going to just be committed to her, she is not going to be happy. Conversely, if you set an expectation in the beginning that this is an open relationship where this kind of thing is acceptable, now you’re fine. Figure out what you actually want and then just do it.

That is a red flag right there. In a true friendship, you’re not worried about “fucking it up”. Think about your male friends growing up, did you care this much about whether it worked out or not? My guess is no. So you’re probably still somewhat unsconsciously attached to her. Which is going to make things kind of weird between you two.

I’m talking more about the stereotypical guy who is stuck in the friend zone against his will. She cries about her guy problems and he pretends to care. That doesn’t sound like what happened in your situation. I should clarify because I don’t want to make you paranoid. It’s perfectly find if your female friends use you for emotional support. You are friends who care about each other. But the big difference is that you’re not being a part of her support system just to just hook up with her. And you have boundaries around your time and what you will or will not do, simply out of self-love. Nice catch. It doesn’t make sense but that’s the unconscious conditioning we all get around sex / relationships. The ego feels like if they go after someone else, then we won’t get the love and acceptance we need. It’s a belief in the scarcity of love, and it’s false.

I think you're right, it is a return to a more natural way of viewing sexuality. But it's also extremely pragmatic for a guy who is looking to improve in that area. When you do this right, your female friends will be throwing their friends at you. Because they know you're a guy who won't make it "weird". Weird = making things too big a deal.

I would disagree with all of these. You're thinking that the way you make female friends is by disowning your masculinity and sexuality. When in reality, it's the other way around. Every good female friend I have I flirt with ruthlessly. I'll make lots of sexual jokes and talk about sex very freely. We may have seen each other naked at some point or felt each other up or something like that. The only difference is that I actively disqualify a girl who I just want to be friends with. So I'll say things like "I'm so glad to have you as my friend" so she doesn't get confused about the nature of the relationship. And I won't try to hook up with them. I think this is the only way to make female friends. If you're friends with a girl but she doesn't feel attraction and see you as a sexual person, then you're just some guy she probably uses for emotional support but doesn't really respect and isn't fun. So you've got to bring that more "alpha" side out. Of course, you guys may end up hooking up at some point. But you should be in such abundance and have a non judgemental attitude about sex so that it's not a big deal. It should just be another thing you did with no extra importance. So yeah making female friends is amazing. I think it's a must for any guy who wants to have a great sex / social life. This one actually can happen. But that's not your fault, that's his insecurities. And all that will do in the girl's mind is cement you as the cooler guy, because he's butthurt and you're not. Then she probably will actually try to fuck you.