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There's no simple answer to that, the reality is that it's going to take time. The good news is that you will continually manifest situations that will reflect what you're repressing until you figure it out. For instance most guys who continually act meek and passive, which is fake, end up being really bad with girls. You keep getting that negative feedback from women until you realize that something needs to change. Maybe there's parts of my masculinity or sexuality that I've been denying. Maybe my meek and passive behavior is just me internally holding on for dear life. It's actually a perfect system when you think about it.

@Viking It’s because you’re not free and unhibited. You’re unconsciously holding in your energy in ways you probably don’t even realize right now. People will pick up on that. The more you can accept every part of yourself, the more free you will become. The more of an energetic presecence you will have.

@natebunger Brother if she just disappeared like that, she doesn't feel the same way about you that you feel about her. Keep the no contact rule going.

That's an oversimplification of what she is suggesting. Teal herself has done lots of meditative solo work, she even talks about her Shamanic journey in her latest video. I don't think she's telling anybody to not do those kind of things. Rather, I think she's trying to get rid of this idea that spirituality = not needing other people. Everything is interdependent on everything else. And you can heal the ego by accepting the parts of yourself you've been rejecting. I think she's absolutely right.

@Annoynymous I think there's some truth to it. It seems absurd that the planets could effect us, but only if you look at the world through a simple Newtonian model. In reality, everything moves as one and everything effects everything else.

@Wekz Keep meditating. It will help sync head / heart.

@Ampresus I definitely think it's a piece of the puzzle. If someone claims to be self-actualized but all they do is repel people, that's suspect. You should be developing a magnetic energy by doing this kind of work.

It depends on the person. I played sports my entire life growing up. Very competitive, all I cared about was winning. Now as I've gotten older I've learned more about the value of collaborating. At the same time, I do believe you need to have a mentality that you're going to succeed at whatever you're doing no matter what. That's called confidence. Anyone who doesn't have that likely hasn't been successful at very much in their life.

@MM1988 Sounds like you're stuck between the pain of getting better and the pain of not getting what you want. It's a tough place to be, but I suggest you keep moving forward. Better to die trying than give up. Keep taking action, keep studying the theory and keep working on yourself. That's the only real answer.

@Max_V I would question whether you really have ADD in the first place.

That's like trying to convince yourself that Mount Everest is beautiful, even though you've never seen it or been there before. It's not possible. Get the real thing.

@WhiteCongrats Unless you specifically need a degree, the only value I see in college these days is that it gives you time to explore yourself and party. That's all I got out of it.

Sounds like you need a Series license then.

That could definitely happen. But it's undoubtedly effective too.

@Leo Gura I think it’s awesome man. Respect for taking the leap of faith on this. Also, I got you when you come to Miami. I’m connected with a lot of people here who would want to see you.

@NicAndStuff I find it almost impossible that you can't find anyone you admire. If you're on this forum and you bought the life purpose course, you must at least admire Leo. They don't have to be perfect.

What's the point of the education? An MBA is not going to be that beneficial if your end goal is to be an entrepreneur. You'd be much better off putting that money into more practical skills like either marketing, sales or copywriting training.

You can, these things have nothing to do with each other. In fact, most people who become more conscious have a dramatic increase in their social skills. So your experience is interesting to me. My intuition says that you should stop smoking weed. I think you've learned the lessons you can get from it and it's now becoming a bit of crutch.

@rNOW Self development work is like sharpening the saw for your career / relationships. Don't think of them as different parts of your life. Do you feel your work is relatively aligned with your life purpose? If you're doing something that's out of alignment, it's easy for procrastination to set in. That might actually be true. Personally, I tend to go hard on just one or two things at a time. Everything else gets pushed to the side. Balance is a never ending process based on what your needs are in the moment. You may want to try reading Getting Things Done by my friend David Allen.

@Mircan Combine massive action towards your life purpose along with spiritual work. That's the real answer.

@Hello from Russia It's very context dependent advice. For instance, I just did a three day fast where I didn't eat or drink anything. That's a challenging thing to do because even though it's healthy, you basically go through food withdraws. So the emotionally difficult thing for me to do was just to stick to the fast. It took discipline. But there's other times where you just want to free flow with what feels good in the moment. The question I usually ask is "what is the action that is truly in alignment with what I want?". In your example about cumming inside of a girl, that might feel really good in the moment. But I can promise you it's less fun when the pregnancy scare happens. That's not in alignment with what I want. So I'm not going to do it.

@Kaity I would start just by becoming comfortable around women who embody the femininity you want. Make friends with them and see how many of your judgments were misguided. If you can't do that, Instagram is your friend. Find women on Instagram who you like and just start following them. What do they wear? How do they talk? What are they interested in? What don't they like? Why do they do what they do? That will open you up to making changes yourself. And you'll also have a group of people around you that won't judge you for the changes you're making.

Awesome man! Glad you liked it, lots more content coming soon.

It's not that black or white. In your case, the fact you even asked this question shows me that you're unlikely to fall into that particular trap. For you, I would say consider all motivation to be good motivation. Even if it's not always "higher consciousness" or seems petty. Own all of your needs.

@Superfluo You could try the Commonplace journal Leo talks about. But this isn’t school, you don’t have to memorize every detail. It’s okay if you forget stuff, just keep coming back to it and what is practical for you at this moment.