aurum

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  1. Contemplate it. Have you ever experienced space outside your consciousness?
  2. You just don't conceptualize it as push-pull.
  3. Pickup techniques are given to you because they demonstrate what actual good flirting looks like. The point is not to ultimately destroy the techniques. The point is to make them natural and unconscious, rather than forced. That's just called being an attractive man.
  4. I get that it's important for you to deconstruct pickup. But there really is no way of getting around push-pulls. Push-pull just is what flirting is. You don't need to force it, but you're not getting rid of them either.
  5. That wasn't good but it wasn't terrible either. Some small adjustments and that could have landed.
  6. Good stuff. The next level is coming back to learning how to be strategic with your time and selective with your attention. But now, not from a place of intimidation or heavy neediness.
  7. Diet matters, but I think many people also overstate the significance. I was vegan at one point. Now I eat meat everyday and my spiritual clarity has only increased.
  8. They are related, but I would be mindful about collapsing the distinction between the two. That's likely to lead to sense-making errors if done poorly. When we say "awakening", we usually mean something more profound than standard metacognition. Everyone has metacognition to a degree. Not everyone is awake.
  9. You focus on what you can control and living towards your highest values. You don't need to fix the world.
  10. Science proved evil exists, you just didn't hear about it
  11. Pretty sure they got in trouble a few years back, although I can't recall all the details. I think they weren't properly testing their product.
  12. Don't expect women you are dating to match your personal development ambition.
  13. @Ryan M If you make that much money, you should be able to set up a social circle situation. Network in Vegas and use your money to attend events where you can meet women. You could also host events. Get creative.
  14. I did not mean you personally. I meant higher than your average conservative.