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@Cred It's certainly a unique way of trying to categorize people. I just don't understand what the point of it is. What unique explanatory power does your model have they we don't already have?

Are you seriously simping for Jeffery Epstein right now?

A good summary:

Okay. But then if it's not philosophy, what are you defining as a "meaningful conversation"? What is actually "interesting"? And why would she need to be into self-development for that to happen?

I actually think we're quite similar. My mind is also very active. I need analytical, philosophical depth. I need to be working on a bigger vision. The difference between you and I is that I'm not expecting those things from a romantic partner. Those are mostly things I do when I'm alone. As yes, it does require that I prioritize alone time even in a relationship. Which can be challenging. But then that allows me to authentically feel engaged when I'm with her, just in a different way. It's allocation of needs. As far as values, I don't really care what she values in the abstract. I would never ask her "what are your values?" when screening for a relationship. Instead, I look for the end result of how we operate together. How is our chemistry? Is there polarity? Is there intimacy? Do we both feel like our needs are being met? If so, that's what matters. This is a felt experience, not a narrative based one.

But what is a meaningful conversation exactly? Talking about spirituality and philosophy? If so, I do not find that is where intimacy comes from in a polarity relationship. I like when she pulls me out of my head, not into it.

I visited there years ago. Lovely people, but the project itself essentially died with Jacque. It was more like a museum of his work when I was there.

I use the word "God" because I grew up catholic. It's also the word that came to me during one of my first awakening experiences. Otherwise I don't care at all. I'm also fond of Pure Consciousness, Infinity or Source.

Polarity, intimacy and someone who could be the mother of my kids. Everything else is negotiable.

That's where you and I differ. I don't think like that at all. I've not found that to be the case either. As long as she is not actively restricting my growth, I'm able to grow just fine. Whether she deeply understands my growth is not essential for me. I'm looking for polarity, intimacy and someone who could be the mother of my kids. Development-wise, I think SD Green is a reasonable ask.

I think it boils down to what role you expect a woman to play in your life, and at what cost. What is actually essential?

You find what you seek because you're God.

Give up the need for a self-development girlfriend.

There's nothing wrong with being open to her perspective. The issue is that the documentary is likely to just be glorified marketing. So what exactly are you going to learn by watching?

Good example of Green Christianity.