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You cannot solve the novelty problem just by adding new women, unless you are willing to do that perpetually.

The Coolidge effect only matters when you introduce a new partner. Your harem partners are not new or novel. You will have had sex with them tons of times and will have normalized to it all, in the same way that you normalize to one partner in monogamy. Adding a new partner in a harem is rare. Additionally, if you are relying on the Coolidge effect for your sex drive, what about the rest of the women in your harem? They will be unsatisfied. You'd mostly only be interested in hooking up with the new girl.

I highly doubt that would change things too dramatically. Libido is fairly stable, like the amount of food or sleep you want. You can't alter it that much just by having access to more women.

How do you even have sex with this many women?

It’s possible to be strategic without projecting insecurity.

I have worked with some pros. Either way it’s not worth it for me. IRL works plenty well.

It's not just a matter of individual choice. Because your choices will inevitably affect everyone else. That's just being part of a collective / community. That is not the ultimate goal. Inevitably, you will need some kind of central organizational entity. We call that government. Government is going no where.

Don’t like them either. They are convenient, but that’s the problem. The whole thing feels overly optimized and transactional to me. At the same time, I also find dating apps harder than in real life. I can get dates IRL I would never get from an app.

Not a fan. I don't like heavily structured dating experiences. I need things to be more organic.

That conservative women trust their individual husband to represent them is not insane. They could have a good husband. But that's a different question than what legal rights women should have. Feminists are also not wrong for distrusting male leadership and wanting to build agency / autonomy. There have been many abuses of male power.

Nice! Sounds like some real insights.

There can be a variety of surface-level motivations that bring someone to truth-seeking. What matters ultimately is just that you get there.

Yes I understood that. Physical beauty doesn't happen in a vacuum. It still depends on a relative component.

I think this is too far. Physical beauty is still a relative notion. If every woman looked equally beautiful, you would not find it as meaningful.

You really want some of both. Game is great for initial attraction. But if you want to genuinely build a life together long-term, you need that financial infrastructure. Game cannot do that. Game is sparkles and fairy dust.